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    Question why are they rejecting me?

    I have been around to some clubs here in Vegas and all but 3 rejected me to work. I have enclosed some pics. I am really trying to work out and have lost about 20 pounds. I LOVE the club I work at just wanted to have some options should I need them. I appreciate the honesty and perhaps compliments in advance.

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    They are nuts for rejecting you! You look great!
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    Default Re: why are they rejecting me?

    I think you are really pretty.

    ive never worked in vegas, but from what i hear maybe they want a bit more mainstream looking? I.e. fake tan, possibly fake boobs. maybe if you highlighted your hair and got a tan the club would like you better?

    although i think that you would look better as you are. but im not a manager.

    they also might just be really overstaffed.

    i wouldnt let it get to you. maybe if you want to try a new look, try going more mainstream for the audition then if you get hired revert back to as you are now.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Are you doing stage auditions?

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    I'm going to go with overstaffed. You're freakin hot and look very showgirl/pin-up so it has to be the fact that they are overstaffed. Did they flat out reject you or did they say 'come back in a week'?
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    Some places say come back in a few weeks others just simply tell me " we are not hiring/ we can't use you here."

    I currently work at GG in Vegas and I LOVE it there and do very well. I am also hired on nights at Ricks and CH3 just prefer smaller venues.

    Sapphire, OG, SR, De Ja Vu, Little Darlings, Treasures, and Palomino all said no

    Sapphire: " Management told me to tell you that all shifts are fully staffed!" ( I then saw them hire three girls on my way out)

    OG: full stage audition ( I was the only girl who had to do this) then they said "sorry we don't need you here"

    De Ja Vu and Little Darlings both told me I was way too fat to work there and to lose about 30 pounds to be considered for day shift as did Rhino

    Treasures made me strip down to a T-back and bra under florcent lights only to say "Sorry we can't use you here"

    Palomino said they were not hiring ( I was in my street clothes) and when I called them on there BS ( my friend was hired last week) they got really defensive and said to call next time before I come in I know this is a dive and very dirty but come one seriously!

    The only reason the night shift manager at Cheetahs doesn't let me work is because he dislikes my husband who used to work there and takes it out on me.

    Thanks for the compliments ladies. I am considering breast augmentation within a year. Maybe it is a sign to stay at one club.

    All I can think of is they want the typical "stripper look" which I am not and actually am proud to be different.

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    You're beautiful.

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    ^^agreed.

    I hate stupid club management. Their loss.

    And 30 lbs??? WTF seriously??? From where? Are they into the starving Ethiopian look in Vegas?
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    WoW! They're crazy. You're beautiful!

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    You are beautiful. While I don't know why they are rejecting you, it could be as simple as you are brunette. I've been rejected for that reason alone. I wouldn't let it get to you. I've been rejected so many times that I laughed about it. Their loss.

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    Quote Originally Posted by XAnastasiaX View Post

    De Ja Vu and Little Darlings both told me I was way too fat to work there and to lose about 30 pounds to be considered for day shift as did Rhino
    That's insane. You do not look like you need to lose anywhere near 30 pounds, what asshats.

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    They're all idiots. If you lost 30 lbs you'd look emaciated. You're hot girl! Don't let it get to you....they're probably only looking to hire Malibu Barbies!



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    you might be taking it too personal. you look great and any club should hire you! perhaps they had too many girls already, or some other business related reason. You've got the goods so be patient!

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    Default Re: why are they rejecting me?

    did you offer the manager a BJ ?

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    Default Re: why are they rejecting me?

    My boyfriend suggested that to lose 30 lbs you may need to start removing some bones. I concur. I have no idea what you weigh, but that's absurd.

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    i agree that you look great. they may just be looking for something "particular". and you probably don't want to work for a club that has hiring managers who are turning now quality dancers like you anyway.

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    Default Re: why are they rejecting me?

    You're hot...and you have one lucky husby. Like some of the others have said, probably overstaffed. You'd be top ten percent at my regular club. Of course, it's not Vegas, but eh.

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    You're beautiful! you remind me of a hot pinup girl. I agree with some of the posts here. I've talked to girl out AZ when I've worked there and they don't even go to Vegas that much anymore because there are so many chicks there..they can't get re-hired or there is not enough cutomers to go around.

    Don't take it personally. Keep trying. It all in the additude too...remember think when you go in that they would be CRAZY not to hire you. Sometime the smaller clubs are just as good.

    Best of luck to you, beautiful lady! xoxoxo

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    Thanks ladies and gents. yes i agree with the weight thing. I am 5 foot 11 and currently weigh between 145 and at most 152.

    My regulars like me and that is what matters most anyways.

    hockeybobby what club is that? I am curious to travel.

    girls who work in other states do you think it would be difficult to get hired in other cities? Sometimes I just need a change of scencery that and my hubby travels for work sometimes also.

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    Yes 30 lbs would put you at/near my weight and I'm only 5'3 and thin... soooo yeah. Bone removal would have to occur. What total asshats.

    I would have asked them if they wanted me to remove my shins like Hank Hill's dad on King of the Hill.

    I've had my fair share of clubs turn their nose up at me though.
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    You're hot. Like the glasses.

    OG is my long time haunt when in Vegas. I also sometimes get to Treasures. Both could definitely use you.

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    You're incredibly hawt. They are crazy. Managers can be the most retarded people ever when it comes to hiring.

    Most of the time they think that anything other than who they want to f*ck is not hireable... I've been told that I was too fat to work (at mediocre) places and at the time I was 5'5", 125 and almost all muscle..

    If there's a place I REALLY want to work I work out really hard for a few weeks and make myself as strippertastic as I can (lighten my hair, use clip in extensions, classic stripper makeup, tan, nails, etc) and then go in acting a little bit ditzy but really really nice and it works most of the time. Then once I'm in and good there I go back to my normal self and no one has ever said a word to me. You might try that. PM me if you want more of my evil hiring plan.

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    You are very pretty!

    I am very fair skinned like you, and when I went and worked in Vegas...I did the whole fake tan thing! Maybe you should try it too....it wouldnt hurt to try! Dont give up!

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    Quote Originally Posted by dtxgirl View Post
    You're incredibly hawt. They are crazy. Managers can be the most retarded people ever when it comes to hiring.

    Most of the time they think that anything other than who they want to f*ck is not hireable... I've been told that I was too fat to work (at mediocre) places and at the time I was 5'5", 125 and almost all muscle..

    If there's a place I REALLY want to work I work out really hard for a few weeks and make myself as strippertastic as I can (lighten my hair, use clip in extensions, classic stripper makeup, tan, nails, etc) and then go in acting a little bit ditzy but really really nice and it works most of the time. Then once I'm in and good there I go back to my normal self and no one has ever said a word to me. You might try that. PM me if you want more of my evil hiring plan.
    This made me lol! that's pretty funny "evil hiring plan" = )

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    It's strategerie. LOL.

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