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    Default Fetish/Financial Domination - Advice.

    I'm looking to move in towards domination and among other play - financial control. I've been recently in contact with a sub (online) who has offered financial worship and gifts for communication, latex/heels/money fetish photos. I just wanted to do as much research as possible (and i have been through some old threads as well) but still uncertain as to:

    1. what is a safe way to accept payment without revealing my address/legal name (i have an vanilla career), i heard paypal had its problems? gifts? sent to a PO box or online shopping?

    2. if this sub flakes ("if it sounds too good to be true it probably is"), where else should i look or make my presence known?

    *i am in australia, if it makes any difference.

    any further information, advice, warnings, anything from you lovely ladies would be amazing.
    i am so thankful for SW. x

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    Default Re: Fetish/Financial Domination - Advice.

    Try Fetlife.com... make sure you make it known that you are a professional/financial Domme and you expect to be compensated for your time or else you will find a lot of timewasters.

    I do this IRL and via the internet. It's lots of fun.

    If you have a slave that likes to be publicly humiliated, you can ask him to see you in the strip club, make him buy a room and give you a foot rub the whole time. Or be a drinkholder/ashtray/footstool whatever. You can PM me if you have any questions...
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    Default Re: Fetish/Financial Domination - Advice.

    Ooh that's an excellent suggestion. I have joined femme domme and am going to start a blog and an amazon wihlist etc and join fetlife. hopefully luck brings me some very obedient subs. I love having this in my alter ego life already! I don't hate men but being a naive girl until very recently I'm enjoying the respect I deserve. thanks so much I'll let you know if I think of anything else.

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    Default Re: Fetish/Financial Domination - Advice.

    Ruby, Paypal will likely shut you down asap if you're taking payment for adult entertainment/services (as domme work is typically considered). I know AlertPay is adult-friendly if you have the Business/Pro account and there are many options to get paid online.
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    Oops my bad I didn't see the paypal part... yeah don't set up a paypal acct for adult services as I've heard they can shut you down and confiscate your money. I use Niteflirt with Greendot. It's also fun to request gift items and certificates because these are safest... some are just sent to your email I think. Pretty sure that's how Victoria's Secret does theirs at least.
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    Default Re: Fetish/Financial Domination - Advice.

    ahh yes i might just start out with amazon.. i have so much work/content web to put up!
    any other similar online communities would be great.

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    I know, stuff like this is a lot of work! Good luck!
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