I know this is sort of strange (or maybe not?) I'm usually good with continuing convo once it gets going, but have problems with first starting out- like the first thing you say to a guy. Usually I ask them his name, tell him mine, and how often they come to the club, or where they're from. But, I dont think its working with getting guys to think sex, and 'i have to get a dance with this girl' - I think I'm coming off as too much in friend zone still, so what do you start off with right away when you approach a guy? It's definitely not a 'wanna dance' club so somehow have to talk to them for a bit, make them HAVE to have a dance (even with big screen TVs) , I have a notebook of awesome convo to talk about, but just can't seem to get it rolling at the beginning!



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