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    Okay, so I'v always toyed with the idea of stripping. I want to do it now that my husband has took me to the strip club a couple times. I'm a good girl, that's why he married me. We have fallen on some trying times, we have two toddlers and my mom just had a stroke and bills are going crazy. My husband makes less than me and I only make $11/hr. I brought up stripping in a joking way and he didn't like the idea. Not that he doesn't trust me, but he feels that I'm too good for it. How do I convince him to let me do it? B/c he seems to think money will fall out the sky soon.
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    I'm kind of going through this now with my boyfriend. I've been trying to actually talk seriously about it with him. Tell him why you think it's a good idea. If you've learned things about stripping on this board that you think he doesn't know then share those things with him. Maybe invite him to check the site out. Find out what his worries are and see if there is a way to ease them or agreements that you can come to to make the idea more acceptable to him. I can't imagine any guy would be enthusiastic initially about their spouse stripping on stage or giv inglap dances to a bunch of jerks, and there are a lot of stereotypes about strippers that are hard for some people to let go of.

    Just talk it out. It has made a difference for us, although we're not totally there yet.

    There's actually a thread on here somewhere. I believe the title of it is "worried boyfriends". You should check it out and maybe have your husband read it as well.

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    I think the fact that you sound like you are struggling a bit should say it all. I'm sure you are worth more than $11/hr too... but sadly the economy bites right now. I think you have the right to tell him that you are at least going to try it. Maybe do a night or two a week? He has no right to force you to struggle, and denying you access to money based on his own presumptions is selfish.
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    What is more important to you: Money or your Marriage?

    Some married entertainers can make it work IF she and her spouse can agree on the role dancing will play in the mutual financial plan. If either one of the two people doesn't agree, then you have to decide which one is more important. I was with the same person for 10 years of my dancing career. I'd be lying if I said dancing didn't have an impact on our ability to share intimacy.
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    I think it would help to keep talking. A helpful thing might be to share with him some of what you've learned on this site. Also, you could convince him to let you try it for one night, and then you can tell him what it's really like and you can decide together.

    Good luck with everything!!

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