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Exactly...
I have become disenchanted with more than one "fav/ATF could-have-been" because they began to take my attendance and my money for granted. As regulars go I'm pretty laid back. I will always try to come on your slowest day and I will also wait patiently if you are busy juggling regulars. That being said, trotting around to every guy who walks in after I did because you think that I will wait all day while you work new customers is not really a good thing in my book. I don't expect freebies, extra contact or presents. All I want in return for my patronage is to have it respected and taken seriously.


I think it's rare for a dancer to reward a loyal customer that is the reason for the post. I am getting free dances and more so I think a particular dancer is not just rewarding me for being loyal but I am not sure! I know dancers only care about the $$$!!!!
My favorite customers are the ones that are respectful and enthusiastic about seeing me naked or talking with me. When I walk off stage and see a regular in the back corner with an ear to ear grin on his face waiting for me it makes everything better. I like being able to carry a real conversation with someone, even if they don't spend huge amounts of money. If I stay happy at work I make more money, so they are still helping even if they don't do more than a couple dances. My all time favorite regular bough me a couple outfits a necklace for Christmas that I wore on stage for him and would pay me a lot of money before I went on stage to dance just for him.
I have done the free dances a couple of times, but they weren't rewards. I've had a few regulars that came in to see me every shift I worked and would chat a little but let me do my job. If something happened that made me desperate to get off the floor and I couldn't find anyone to dance for or wasn't comfortable with others I would just grab the regular and haul him to VIP for a free song or half song. I enjoy private dances and once I do one it's easier for me to get back in my groove and go out and get several customers.

While I visit this sight regularly, there is a vibe from several of you ladies that is disconcerting. There seems to be an attitude from some that a regular customer is not worthy of any "reward" but the same ladies seem to be offended when they do not receive a tip after selling a dance. It works both ways. When the stated price for the dance has been paid, the transaction is over. Whatever happens next is gratuitous for both parties. When a favorite dancer gives me an extra hug or kiss, I feel gratified. When I tip (as is my pattern) I hope the dancer feels similarly rewarded.
I always behave as a gentleman and try to be engaging in conversation with dancers. Accordingly I am usually welcomed by my favorites at several clubs I visit. I suspect that many of the posters here on SW would find me a good customer. Others, I fear, would not impress me if their club personae parallel their SW posts.
^^ I don't see a lot of girls here complaining about guys not tipping on lapdances.
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Im not saying you are referring to me but pretty sure no girl on SW is using their stripper persona. It's the internet. You can speak however you wish since you are anonymous. I am sickly sweet and flirtatious to 99% of my customers... now in real life or SW... maybe not so much.





I don't use my "stripper persona" anywhere online and no reason to. I suppose if I was still active in the clubs and had a Facebook or MySpace for my stripper persona I might be, but otherwise, no reason. After all, what's the likelihood that any of the dancers here will get customers from here? Not likely. Because of that, I think most of the dancers are this way in real life, good or bad.
As for a reward, some of my best customers would get a hug or kiss on the cheek from me. I was never offended when I didn't get a tip after selling a dance. Customers weren't all treated fairly. If you were handsy you likely didn't get a hug or kiss because I was afraid you'd try to do more. Speaking of a reward to some extent, if all dancers were hateful of all customers, then there would be no stories of dancers dating and even marrying customers. To many, this is the ultimate reward and proof that some dancers do value their best customers (I personally hope to marry a former customer).
I have given closer contact and touching and I have given free lapdances and some time if they say they are broke I will give a good regular a free dance it always comes back to me later.
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I guess I am pretty simple and old fashioned. If I have a favourite dancer, I don't expect anything from her other than to at some point in an evening, spend some time with me. I don't expect free dances - my fun is in speding the money! I don't expect extras for past contributions! I don't expect extras, period. Is the club not about dances? It's just nice for her to recognize that you consider her a favourite and that at some point in her night, she finds her way to spend time with you.
Having said that, the best customer loyalty I got was having the cover charged waived for me at the club whenever I walked in. I remember one night walking up the stairs and being asked for my cover charge and the owner replied "Oh no, I should have warned you, he doesn't have to pay!" The second time was one night (in the same club - it was a small club), all the girls were sitting at my table having drinks. I got up to pee and as I walked to the bathroom, two guys followed me and asked "what makes you so special all the girls are sitting with you?" At that point the bouncer showed up and asked me. "Are you having any trouble?" The third time was I came into the club one night, and out of nowhere my favourite dancer showed up and sat with me even though she was not working. We had drinks, and chatted and at the end of the night she went home and I went my way. Being treated as a person is the best reward a customer or a dancer can receive.
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