I understand an effective dancer will give that sense of 'maybe' to a guy during a dance or to help build that regular relationship so that he returns
but what about the occasional 'really nice guy' who honestly thinks he has a chance in hell? I have one regular that keeps asking me out after work, I always say I have to go home and sleep. He's an excellent regular and won't get dances from any other girls, and he comes in twice a week to see me, and drops a fair load of cash.
I suppose there's a voice in my head that tells me I should be honest and tell him we'll never meet up outside the club..even though he's a real sweetheart. I feel kinda bad for always avoiding the meet up ..what am I doing wrong?
this only happens once in a great while..not that other guys aren't nice but usually i just hustle and that's it. This guy in particular is a sweetheart, military guy, young, very kind. I don't want to hurt his feelings.



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