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    Ok ladies. This probably sounds stupid. But I'm trying to leave my ATF. But she seems a bit jealous when I try. I've gone through this twice, but wimped out and gone back to her. How can I leave her for good?

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    Default Re: Leaving a Dancer

    You can either

    A) Tell her she's getting jealous and that you are going to get dances from other people. Hopefully she'll learn her lesson.

    B) Stop going in when she's there.

    C) Start going to another club.
    Don't you ever sleep?
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    You are asking the ladies here how to help you grow a pair? Stop spending money on her. She will leave you...
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    Default Re: Leaving a Dancer

    Is this your girlfriend or your ATF you are trying to leave? Weren't you dating a stripper at some point? Because, those are two different kinds of breakups.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    You are asking the ladies here how to help you grow a pair? Stop spending money on her. She will leave you...
    Now Yoda, you know it is not exactly that simple. There is potential for some drama when the cash flow suddenly dries up - or changes direction of flow into some other dancer's pocket.

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    Yeah, still dating the stripper. That's a whole different set of baggage

    This is my ATF from another club.

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    ...bringing your stripper to your ATF's club should shake things up.
    "Peter, did you take Stewie to a strip-club? He smells like sweat and fear." - Lois and Stewie (Family Guy) ... "Through early morning fog I see, Visions of the things to be, The pains that are withheld for me, I realize and I can see..."

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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    ...I'm trying to leave my ATF. But she seems a bit jealous when I try...
    Not so much jealous as hanging onto a revenue stream.

    She's a self employed business woman and trying to preserve a source of income. (as do we all in one way or another in business).

    Phil.
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    J.D. explaining how she reacts to guys staring at her body with lust in their hearts....

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    I like WiseGuy's solution!
    Don't you ever sleep?
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    Quote Originally Posted by jannisary View Post
    Now Yoda, you know it is not exactly that simple. There is potential for some drama when the cash flow suddenly dries up - or changes direction of flow into some other dancer's pocket.
    Well, it is actually that simple. The drama will either happen or it won't, that is beyond the OP's control. Of course going to another club is always an option but I refer not to let a woman that I send money on at my discretion decide where I can and can not go for a good time.

    No one said it was easy...
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    Pay her to keep her distance heehee.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    I like WiseGuy's solution!
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Well, it is actually that simple. The drama will either happen or it won't, that is beyond the OP's control. Of course going to another club is always an option but I refer not to let a woman that I send money on at my discretion decide where I can and can not go for a good time.

    No one said t was easy...
    Well, I don't like drama. Yoda, you're not being helpful.

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    Well, you asked for help from the LADIES.

    Us guys are just offering some side commentary.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    Well, I don't like drama. Yoda, you're not being helpful.
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    Well, you asked for help from the LADIES.

    Us guys are just offering some side commentary.
    LOL, exactly...
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    LOL, exactly...
    Gee, I don't remember asking guys for commentary

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    ^ That's the beauty of the internet...you don't have to ask...
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    ^ That's the beauty of the internet...you don't have to ask...
    I know, but a guy wearing an elvis costume with a yoda head. That is some issues

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    Stop going to that club and block her number. Block her email. Hope she doesn't know where you live.

    Or...just fucking tell her. Now, do you want to keep going to this same club and get dances from other women?

    If you're dating a stripper, WHY do you also have a secret ATF? THIS is why most strippers won't date guys who currently frequent strip clubs!

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    Quote Originally Posted by KS_Stevia View Post
    Stop going to that club and block her number. Block her email. Hope she doesn't know where you live.

    Or...just fucking tell her. Now, do you want to keep going to this same club and get dances from other women?

    If you're dating a stripper, WHY do you also have a secret ATF? THIS is why most strippers won't date guys who currently frequent strip clubs!
    I never said i was a nice guy. Hell, if they are strippers can't i do both?

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    Can't you do both what?

    I don't dance anymore, and most likely won't again...but I would never, not then nor now..date a guy who frequents the clubs.

    Wait, I did briefly date a guy who frequented the clubs once, but it was a pretty casual thing, we lived in different cities, and I let him go after less than 2 months because of his drinking and habit of sleeping with ex-girlfriends, hehe.

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    Quote Originally Posted by gameover View Post
    I know, but a guy wearing an elvis costume with a yoda head. That is some issues
    Um, what does my avatar have to do with anything?

    Issues? I'm not the one asking silly questions on the internet...
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    Quote Originally Posted by KS_Stevia View Post
    Can't you do both what?

    I don't dance anymore, and most likely won't again...but I would never, not then nor now..date a guy who frequents the clubs.

    Wait, I did briefly date a guy who frequented the clubs once, but it was a pretty casual thing, we lived in different cities, and I let him go after less than 2 months because of his drinking and habit of sleeping with ex-girlfriends, hehe.
    heh, love that casual thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Um, what does my avatar have to do with anything?

    Issues? I'm not the one asking silly questions on the internet...
    Well, I may be asking silly questions, but at least I dont have a silly avatar

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    Well, I personally think your avatar's ridiculous, and as a lady, I agree with the male posters.

    She'll either flip out or not, more fool you for getting into a position where she might do so. Just tell her to back off. Also, being strippers doesn't mean you can run them both around the block whatsoever.
    Get the fuck off my harbl, yo'.

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