Ok ladies. This probably sounds stupid. But I'm trying to leave my ATF. But she seems a bit jealous when I try. I've gone through this twice, but wimped out and gone back to her. How can I leave her for good?
Ok ladies. This probably sounds stupid. But I'm trying to leave my ATF. But she seems a bit jealous when I try. I've gone through this twice, but wimped out and gone back to her. How can I leave her for good?





You can either
A) Tell her she's getting jealous and that you are going to get dances from other people. Hopefully she'll learn her lesson.
B) Stop going in when she's there.
C) Start going to another club.
Don't you ever sleep?
Not at night...that's when the stars have rather better things to do. They're coming out, shining, that sort of thing.
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Is this your girlfriend or your ATF you are trying to leave? Weren't you dating a stripper at some point? Because, those are two different kinds of breakups.
Yeah, still dating the stripper. That's a whole different set of baggage
This is my ATF from another club.




...bringing your stripper to your ATF's club should shake things up.![]()
"Peter, did you take Stewie to a strip-club? He smells like sweat and fear." - Lois and Stewie (Family Guy) ... "Through early morning fog I see, Visions of the things to be, The pains that are withheld for me, I realize and I can see..."










I like WiseGuy's solution!
Don't you ever sleep?
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Well, it is actually that simple. The drama will either happen or it won't, that is beyond the OP's control. Of course going to another club is always an option but I refer not to let a woman that I send money on at my discretion decide where I can and can not go for a good time.
No one said it was easy...





Pay her to keep her distance heehee.



Well, you asked for help from the LADIES.
Us guys are just offering some side commentary.![]()




Stop going to that club and block her number. Block her email. Hope she doesn't know where you live.
Or...just fucking tell her. Now, do you want to keep going to this same club and get dances from other women?
If you're dating a stripper, WHY do you also have a secret ATF? THIS is why most strippers won't date guys who currently frequent strip clubs!![]()




Can't you do both what?
I don't dance anymore, and most likely won't again...but I would never, not then nor now..date a guy who frequents the clubs.
Wait, I did briefly date a guy who frequented the clubs once, but it was a pretty casual thing, we lived in different cities, and I let him go after less than 2 months because of his drinking and habit of sleeping with ex-girlfriends, hehe.
Well, I personally think your avatar's ridiculous, and as a lady, I agree with the male posters.
She'll either flip out or not, more fool you for getting into a position where she might do so. Just tell her to back off. Also, being strippers doesn't mean you can run them both around the block whatsoever.
Get the fuck off my harbl, yo'.
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