




This man is not representing my countrymen well, where the f is hockeybobby?
All joking aside, I had a man thrown out the other day for smacking my ass. I was just standing there and he did it so hard he left a handprint on me. I totally confronted him: "Why would you want to hurt me? You know that HURTS, right?" and he is all "I was just playing.." so I said "Well, I don't know you and you don't have a right to hit me. Now I'm going to have a bruise. Fuck you."
Went and got my manager and threw him right the hell out. Fuck that noise. Obey. Obey my ass.





Tough for me to criticize, after all, Some girls do need to have a little obedience spanked into them.
That dude was way out of line. Some bdsm play between consenting adults is one thing, but someone hitting you out of the blue like that is assault.All joking aside, I had a man thrown out the other day for smacking my ass. I was just standing there and he did it so hard he left a handprint on me. I totally confronted him: "Why would you want to hurt me? You know that HURTS, right?" and he is all "I was just playing.." so I said "Well, I don't know you and you don't have a right to hit me. Now I'm going to have a bruise. Fuck you."
Went and got my manager and threw him right the hell out. Fuck that noise. Obey. Obey my ass.




not okay with custies touching:
-asshole (gross and i would get fired)
-pussy (gross and i would get fired)
-tits too rough (if they're nice about it, it's fine)
-anything too rough
-face (i don't want to get zits because of your dirty hands)
-hair (it gets tangled easily. i'll take it down in timed rooms, but not for individual dances. i need to spend my time on the floor trying to make money, not in the dressing room brushing my hair over and over again because dudes like playing with it)
if a custy is nice and good with his hands, i often do like being touched though. i don't tell customers this though, because if i do, they think it's a hustle and i end up making less money than i would if i told them it disgusts me.
-love everyone but keep them far from your soul-





Yes almighty strip club patron... I will obey.![]()
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Thank you. I am not working for sexual pleasure. That is so ridiculous.
I am working in order to have food and a place to live.
No one wants to be touched. I know that realistically guys are going to grab at me and I have to pretend like I am ok with it. Then again strippers have to pretend a lot of things because that is the job. We are just acting. That's all it is.
I will admit that I have become numb over the years. When I first started ...wow was I shocked. That is what led to such serious substance abuse for several years.
I would be so happy if more guys would take pride in being a gentleman again. It seems like no guys even mention the word gentleman anymore.
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YES!!! Thank you! Being a gentleman and actually paying for my time instead of begging for something for free will get you a wayyy better experience. Period.
I miss the custies back home that would buy drinks without being asked, even if it was a bottle of water, the ones who pulled out chairs and tipped EVERY stage rotation. These were the custies you didn't have to ask to do anything, because they already knew. I miss having polite/fun conversation without being asked to go home with someone for money.![]()
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seriously? i just threw up in my mouth.
for starters, your grammar/spelling is atrocious. fix it or stay off the internet.
secondly, it is never "acceptable" to start feeling a girl up, unless she expressly tells you in black and white terms, "hey, go on, touch me!" even if you ASK it doesn't mean she wants you to, it means she probably has a baby at home she has to feed or a boyfriend that beats her if she doesn't pull in a certain amount of cash. but you probably don't care about that, do you?
even more to the point, spanking?!? are you fucking kidding me? i'd rip your eyeball out and put the end of my stiletto through it.
and as far as their rules get more lax when you take on a "dominant" role, this can be compared to when i was in an abusive relationship a few years ago. the first time he hit me i hid in the closet for five hours and cried. six months later a punch to the face was just a normal part of my day.
and how the fuck can you say you act dominate to loosen up her boundaries AND that you respect her boundaries in the same post???
where can i find such a drug that makes one so delusional?
seriously, your post made me fucking sick.





I'd throw my two cents in, but I think you already have. Fuck it, I'll do it anyway.
Speaking from someone who IS a TRUE Domme... dragging some unwilling person into your Dom fantasies is not cool. BDSM is about what happens between two CONSENTING adults, not forcing your so called 'dominance' onto a dancer in order to get more for your money. So take your dominance and shove it. If you knew anything about D/s play or BDSM in general you would know better than to push someone's boundaries like that.
Also, the grammar... I've seen grade school children do a better job and it makes me hope, for the good of the human species, that you have not spawned any idiot offspring. I mean, I know illiteracy is a turn on in a man for me, it's right up there with a sense of humor and public displays of sexual harassment.
Oh and yes, I just did a post on how hitting is not appropriate strip club behavior, from either side of the fence. Look it up. Oh and your behavior sounds almost sociopathic, as in you lack a sense of moral responsibility... so get some help for that, kay?
MUST. OBEY. BRAIIIIINSSSSSSS. ::zombie walk:: hahahahaha seriously pathetic dude.
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Only if she lets you know its okay.





It is the norm here but I always ask anyway. I'd be disappointed if this were the 'rule' everywhere. In fact I wouldn't go to clubs. Dancers touch me everywhere they want and these aren't forbidden areas we're talking about. I'd understand if someone abused severely reacted that way, but I wouldn't get dances with her. If you think a customer is just dirty, you should not be giving him a dance anyway IMHO.
Last edited by threlayer; 04-26-2010 at 09:18 PM.
I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.
Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.
NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.





I loved going to strip clubs; I actually made some friends there. Now things are different for the clubs and for me. As a result I am not as happy.
Customers are not entitled to grope, disrespect, or rob strippers. This is their job, not their hobby, and they all need income. Clubs are not just some erotic show for guys to view while drinking.
NOTE: anything I post here, outside of a direct quote, is my opinion only, which I am entitled to. Take it for what you estimate it is worth.

I don't touch any girls in the clubs. I don't know where them girls have been. It's wierd to me anyway.
However AND THIS IS A BIG HOWEVER LADIES, I do want the ladies TOUCHING ME. The more a girl touches me the more money she is going to make from me. I've had girls who do the whole dance from a distance crap and they never made money off me. Think your too good to touch me? F'k off!
For those girls who sent their hands roaming.. they've made quite a bit of money off me. At the same time I kept my hands to myself. I never once touched them.

I don't mind a little touching, I don't like to be grabbed though. I don't want my breasts or vag touched either.


I think its possible to communicate that to them though Shanina. I know you get alot of pervs, but right at the beginning of the dance just say
" Hey hands to yourself buddy, and if you play nice... maybe I'll play nice later "
I don't know if it would work for the worst customers, but some guys might take the hint ( keeping their hands to themselves ) and as they spend more and more money you can do your part. You make a ton of cash and they get a much better dance out of it. So many guys just want the sensation of touch. I love when a female runs her hands all over me. I'm not talking anything sexual. But touch is one of the 5 senses and its probably the biggest one.
Of course I'm not talking every guy. I happen to think I'm decent to at least cute. Girls aren't revolted by my presence I'd like to think. Theres some guys who you wouldn't want to touch regardless. You women are strong though =)




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