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change clubs, or tell them you need to be taken off the schedule for a while and just stop working for a bit. maybe this club isn't a good suit for you. i know lately i've been not wanting to work because i'm doing way too much for so little. but i try to remind myself that i'm burning calories and that helps a bit.
You will get to the point where it doesn't take as much out of you.
Personally, I fake it till I make it. But there is no way I could fake it if I was only making a hundred dollars a shift. I am not one of those girls who makes bank every night or even once a week. But 100 a shift would have me hanging up my heels. I would never want to go to work.
Now that I think about it, most of the time it is money that turns my mood around.
Sometimes I am just really happy after spending time with my boyfriend or having a really great run or day. Those days are great for working at night because I don't let anything spoil my great mood.
Another piece of advice it to get a lot done before you go to work (workout, clean, bake something, hang out with a friend, go for a hike, etc.) This just makes you feel better about going to work when you have already had a fun day and accomplished things.
I usually employ the "fake it till you make it," too.
Sometimes you don't HAVE to be too flirty. If you don't feel like flirting, use it to your advantage. For instance, I typically am quicker to close sales compared to most girls that I work with during dayshift. One day, I had a cold, but I was on schedule and had to go in. I do NOT like working with colds (or any sickness, for that matter). I def don't feel sexy talking in a nasal voice. Therefore, I wasn't as confident in my sexiness and I didn't try to close as quickly due to that lack of confidence. I ended up talking more to people...for a longer time...and they liked that...and THEY were the ones suggesting, all day, that I do lapdances or rooms! Of course, this may not work in all situations, but I always say that if you feel a certain way, even if it's seemingly negative...GO WITH IT...there's always a way to redirect negativity and turn it into something positive.





um if this is only your 3rd night on the job and you are already burned out, then you might not want to have dancing be your main source of income.
if you are already burned out that is not a good sign. are there other problems in your life that are weighing you down or is it just dancing? because if you think burn out after day 3 of being a stripper is bad.... whooo-wee, wait until day 333....
The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.
^ That was my first thought. That's definitely NOT a good sign.
I agree with Athena. My first week all I wanted to do was work and learn. After 4 months dancing, I still want to work quite a bit.
^ Yes. I was more focused on learning and feeling comfortable in the beginning than on making crazy money.
Hell, on my amateur night, I was ecstatic to make $32 just because I was so used to minimum wage jobs!
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^^^Awww sorry to hear that.Sometimes no matter how hard you try or how good you feel the customers just aren't there.
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