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    I've only read the original post, but I have to say I've never dated those types.

    My boyfriend is sweet, smart, funny, kind, never yells or gets angry with me (even sometimes when I'm being bratty and deserve it), he's soft spoken, a hard worker and has the utmost respect for women. He makes me laugh when I'm stressed, and buys me happy meals when I'm sad. He tells me to go work out becasue 'it's good for me' but would love me (and has in the past) if I was 200 lbs. Not sure what stereotype that falls into, but to me he would fit in the category of "Perfect".

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    it makes no difference what job we do... stripping or working at a hospital or a waitress... girls just want a guy who treats them well. just cuz we strip doesn't mean we have to have statistics on the BF type. I personally fall for the good looking type, regardless of what catagory he falls into but he has to be respectful, a friend, and a partner who knows how to love ~and fuck really good

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    Quote Originally Posted by sxcbbw View Post

    As someone with grey eyes, I like slightly overweight men with neckbeards that play videogames, who are good with animals, computers, and logic, and possessive enough over me to let me know how they feel, but not so much I feel claustrophobic. In general, though I know we are all individuals, most grey-eyed women feel similarly about their men.
    That was pretty good, well done.

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    Quote Originally Posted by holly07 View Post
    I agree with each dancer is unique and generalizing, but here's what i look for:

    *Obviously good looking by my standards: Caucasian, above 5 '10 , not overweight, muscles are great ,but not a necessity. Clean hygiene, no facial hair, prefer short hair(think Ricki Martin hair) but will make exceptions
    This is not even close to obvious to me. Besides the clean hygiene part, I just don't have any type of physical standards for men. It would be nice to have my dream stud of 6'4 with a 6pack, dark hair, piercing blue eyes and huge cock, but there are just so many things more important to me that this usually falls by the wayside. Although you said you will eventually go dutch with a guy, whereas I would buy my man gifts and a dinner for his b-day, but he will always pay the bill when we go out, he won't even possibly let me... its not even a question.

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    man, i knew the OP was headed for big trouble with this question.

    Look the simple answer is most dancers (no different than hot women in general) are looking for the hard dick and hard cash type guy, its not much more complicated than that.

    Forget the X-box lazy assed pothead type stripper BF sitting back at the apartment living off the dancer's cash, most dancers are trying to get rid of those guys half the time.

    The complicated (sure-to-piss-off all women) answer is they're looking for guys that can induce and drive that all important 'chemistry" that keeps the cocaine-like high of being "in love" going to the maximum extent possible, and that's where the primordial factors enter into the picture, meaning the "gentlemen horndogs" will have the edge, basically Alphas, who will (of course) constantly need a new supply of female sex partners, but which women (usually mistakenly) believe they can tame or cage in some way.

    Perceived nonmonagamy in males is often very attractive for hot women, because it equates with the illusive and exciting promise of genetic immortality that Alpha seed spreaders can present.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WestCoast101 View Post
    Perceived nonmonagamy in males is often very attractive for hot women, because it equates with the illusive and exciting promise of genetic immortality that Alpha seed spreaders can present.
    I don't know of any woman (outside of swingers) who want a non monogamous man. I certainly don't and never did.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    I know this question has been touched upon in other threads. I also know that every dancer is different. I am asking for a GENERALIZATION of what type(s) of guy MOST (not ALL) dancer's date WHILE (not before or after) they are in the dancing biz.

    Obviously, he has to be open-minded, not too religious, jealous or possessive. Are there any other personality or physical traits that are prevalent in the guys dancers' date?

    My theory involves four character types (the artist/entertainer, the swinger/sexual adventurer, the bad boy and the freeloader), but I've been told I'm wrong about this.

    Is this a joke? This has to be a joke. Are you joking? You must be.

    You've been around here long enough to know that most of us are offended by generalizations made about dancers. Particularly, generalizations that paint us as sluts and suckers the way that your "theory" does.

    Yet, here you are. Asking us to stereotype ourselves. Sorry Jack, but I'm far more interested in debunking this kind of bullshit.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    I don't know of any woman (outside of swingers) who want a non monogamous man. I certainly don't and never did.

    You made me read a westcoast101 post.
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    What I want and who I date are sometimes very different. I'm ashamed to admit that I've dated too many bad boys. Sometimes because I thought they were sexy and sometimes because I didn't know they were bad boys when I met them.

    What I want is what I think every girl wants. Funny, charming, handsome, nice, smart, confident, and with goals and direction. For some reason all those guys seem to be taken already or end up being gay.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kellydancer View Post
    I don't know of any woman (outside of swingers) who want a non monogamous man. I certainly don't and never did.
    Of course that is true in a conscious rational volitional sense.

    However, the "chemistry" of being in love is not a volitional choice, and its certainly not rational as the term is normally used. Women do not choose whom to fall in love with, the chemistry is either there or its not there, and its basically beyond their control. We can argue about causative factors, however the case that primordial factors are at work (as least with many modern females) is overwhelming, basically the chemistry via genetic programming directing you toward males (perceived as) increasing your odds of long term genetic survival. Think of it as a genetic lottery, with your genes playing the best odds, using their primoridal 3 to 5 million yr ago based "logic"

    Monogamous "nice guys" may look good on paper and women can actually convince themselves these are the guys they want and desire, but the primordial factors are likely to have the last word, directing them toward something very different. The monogamy of the "nice guy" is in genetic terms a dead-end, very different than the excitement and promise of genetic immortality offered by the seed spreader, such promises ultimately false of course, but irrelevant because what genes perceive or believe to be true -is the all important critical factor, not what actually is substantively true..

    Monogamous and non-monogamous males in modern times probably offer approximately the same gentic survival odds going forward, but genes often are offering out of an earlier timeframe where wide scale seed dispersal actually had significant advantages

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    Seriously? Again? Really?

    Are we actually back to the "Women THINK they want a faithful man, but really they don't. As a man, I know this to be true. Look at the long words I'm using out of context." thing?

    You're not a biologist or a psychologist, I thought we'd been over this.
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    Quote Originally Posted by WestCoast101 View Post
    man, i knew the OP was headed for big trouble with this question.

    Look the simple answer is most dancers (no different than hot women in general) are looking for the hard dick and hard cash type guy, its not much more complicated than that.
    Congratulations on managing to be more clueless than the OP...
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    Quote Originally Posted by chris91 View Post
    You made me read a westcoast101 post.
    I'm not sure why I did either. That was 5 minutes I'll never have back.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WestCoast101 View Post
    Of course that is true in a conscious rational volitional sense.

    However, the "chemistry" of being in love is not a volitional choice, and its certainly not rational as the term is normally used. Women do not choose whom to fall in love with, the chemistry is either there or its not there, and its basically beyond their control. We can argue about causative factors, however the case that primordial factors are at work (as least with many modern females) is overwhelming, basically the chemistry via genetic programming directing you toward males (perceived as) increasing your odds of long term genetic survival. Think of it as a genetic lottery, with your genes playing the best odds, using their primoridal 3 to 5 million yr ago based "logic"

    Monogamous "nice guys" may look good on paper and women can actually convince themselves these are the guys they want and desire, but the primordial factors are likely to have the last word, directing them toward something very different. The monogamy of the "nice guy" is in genetic terms a dead-end, very different than the excitement and promise of genetic immortality offered by the seed spreader, such promises ultimately false of course, but irrelevant because what genes perceive or believe to be true -is the all important critical factor, not what actually is substantively true..

    Monogamous and non-monogamous males in modern times probably offer approximately the same gentic survival odds going forward, but genes often are offering out of an earlier timeframe where wide scale seed dispersal actually had significant advantages
    What? Are you on drugs? The guy I am falling in love with is a very monogamous guy. He's the type that doesn't think highly of guys who cheat. I desperately hope we get married and have children, so goes your theory. I've known many guys who cheat, and no, I wouldn't date any of them.

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    ^ Don't be silly, you only think you want him. You really want what your primordial chemistry wants, and that's a cheating cunt. It's okay, you don't have to agree, the biological evidence is overwhelming that you really, really want an asshole seed-spreading lover.
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    I see where you are headed, once again WestCoast. And I've dated one guy that fit the bill. But that was in my early 20's, when I was an idiot.

    Since many strippers are in their 20's, perhaps they haven't learned how to differentiate between the "non-committal alpha" and an honestly good guy. Thus, you will see more of this with any woman in the 20's age group. Hell, when I fell in love with my "alpha" I wasn't even stripping, was working in IT for 1.5 years and was making great money so I didn't need to dance.

    When I started dancing again, I dropped his ass, lol. Anyway, sociobiology isn't going to cut it here, you know this.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KS_Stevia View Post
    I see where you are headed, once again WestCoast. And I've dated one guy that fit the bill. But that was in my early 20's, when I was an idiot.

    Since many strippers are in their 20's, perhaps they haven't learned how to differentiate between the "non-committal alpha" and an honestly good guy. Thus, you will see more of this with any woman in the 20's age group. Hell, when I fell in love with my "alpha" I wasn't even stripping, was working in IT for 1.5 years and was making great money so I didn't need to dance.

    When I started dancing again, I dropped his ass, lol. Anyway, sociobiology isn't going to cut it here, you know this.
    Its not particularly controversial to suggest that women often tend to be attracted toward nonmonogmous males, and in fact the standard causative explanation is well known to most, that being "low self esteem" usually purportedly induced by a dysfunctional upbringing of some type, often distant fathers or other paternal side issues. Those explanations are bullshit and by now most know have figured that out. Thus the need to look elsewhere.

    Richard Dawkins in fact provided the foundation for all of this decades back, but avoided carrying it further due to the nonpolitically correct nature of where it could lead, which among other things was that many believed it provided males excuses to engage in bad behavior.

    It is true this is more about females in their late teens and 20's than later in life. As to whether women completely outgrow it, I'm not sure, it could be either wishful thinking to some extent, or some kind of change in the way the "chemistry" works.

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    ^ Don't be silly, you only think you want him. You really want what your primordial chemistry wants, and that's a cheating cunt. It's okay, you don't have to agree, the biological evidence is overwhelming that you really, really want an asshole seed-spreading lover.
    Actually what i said was "we can argue about causative factors, however the case that primordial factors are AT WORK (as least with MANY modern females) is overwhelming.

    If you want to make the case that the all-critical "chemistry" issue for females is disconnected from primordial factors, you can do that, however you might want to also explain the corresponding issue, as to why most males today still retain (at least) the innate desire to mate with large volumes of females. Try disconnnecting that one from primordial factors.

    Once again, we have to believe that somehow one gender (females) is somehow magically excepted from evolutionary influences, whereas males obviously retain this connection. That is simply not possible.

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Congratulations on managing to be more clueless than the OP...
    Look Yoda, a "hard dick and hard cash" would probably work for most, they just might state it a different way.

    Nor do i see many in here taking issue with it.

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    ^It's not that I think women have evolved further and dropped such a chemistry, it's that I am pretty sure we've been selfish and wanted men to be faithful and provide for us and us alone since oh, we could be classed as apes.

    I'm not disputing that "primordial factors are at work" - I'm simply saying that the primordial factors are we want resources, we want ALL the resources, we want you to give us everything you have and look after our babies and no one else's.
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    I'm currenty dating a gentleman who is self employed and respects me as a person. He is old fashion and goes to church twice a month. Holds the doors open for me and has never let me pay for anything. I would say he is upper middle class and makes over 100G. He likes to have fun and when we go out it's always something that the two of us enjoy doing. He doesn't understand why I dance and doesn't like it but knows if he suggests that I quit he gets dropped. I'm at work right now and it's dead.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WestCoast101 View Post
    Look Yoda, a "hard dick and hard cash" would probably work for most, they just might state it a different way.

    Nor do i see many in here taking issue with it.
    All SC custies have hard dicks and hard cash. You don't see strippers dating 99% of them, lulz.

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    Quote Originally Posted by WestCoast101 View Post
    Look Yoda, a "hard dick and hard cash" would probably work for most, they just might state it a different way.

    Nor do i see many in here taking issue with it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by WestCoast101 View Post
    Monogamous "nice guys" may look good on paper and women can actually convince themselves these are the guys they want and desire, but the primordial factors are likely to have the last word, directing them toward something very different.

    I fell head over heels in love with a 24 year old virgin. Your theory and his virginity are now nullified.
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    Quote Originally Posted by KS_Stevia View Post
    All SC custies have hard dicks and hard cash. You don't see strippers dating 99% of them, lulz.

    LMAO I'm talking big dollars.

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