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    so who here is dating a white collar 100K+ a year man?????

    i'm blue collar all day:o)

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    Quote Originally Posted by johnnytwoshoes View Post
    Please don't take this the wrong way...but I expect most dancers have boyfriends or are married to blue collar types willing to put up with a lot of crap.

    If there are any who are involved with engineers, lawyers, or doctors, I would be surprised.
    Just out of curiousity, what is the right way to take this?

    Also keep in mind a lot of US are white collar or white collar to be. I have a bachelor of science in mathematics, so as soon as im ready to join the 'real world' then i will be 'white collar.'

    so, blow me. i make more money than a lot of 'white collar' people. and i am just as educated and 'book smart' as a lot of white collar people. and i have more 'street smarts' than a lot of white collar folk.

    what the hell are your credentials that make you feel so much better than us?




    also, the guy i am seeing has a degree in marketing and is considering getting an MBA. and, i cant believe you forgot about the sugar daddy boyfriend stereotype, since we are using generalizations here.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    I was in a relationship for three years with a physician, married the guy and that was a mistake. I did not meet my ex in a club, I met him at a coffee shop.

    I don't understand where your misconception came from, that women in my profession only date blue collar guys? If you have not noticed the nerd post on here, I suggest you read it. Many physicians, lawyers are huge nerds. They did not reach that achieved status because they were super cool at the campus kegger. My ex and I had comic book collecting and many other dork things in common. Why be with someone you don't enjoy, for what money? I don't think so and yes sex is a major thing it is in any relationship. Who wants to be in a relationship when the sex is terrible?

    Keep stereotyping and see how well that works, if one put any sophisticated thought into this argument they would notice, it is utterly flawed. I can't believe anyone would idolize physicians like they are some sort of demi-god and de-humanize dancers like they are all idiots and can't carry on an intellectual conversation.

    I guess that is why men in general pay us for our time, nobody will put up with their crap for free.

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    My serious boyfriend of 2 years is getting his master's degree in computer engineering at a top ranked university.

    And I will be going to that same school this year, for my Doctor of Pharmacy degree.

    P.S. We both had over 4.0 GPA's in high school, hell-- he was valedictorian.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    I think it was the way he said it - "blue collar types willing to put up with a lot of crap." He was probably referring to the low-skilled unmotivated "blue collar" workers working for minimum wage and with low self-esteem issues.
    Haha, that would be my recent ex. But I wasn't stripping when I met him. I put up with a lot less BS from guys when I've been dancing, at least history has shown.

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    Also, I don't think a dancer is "blue collar", unless she is a prostitute, which is a blue collar trade. I think the non-prostitute dancer falls into the category of entertainment/artist/performer.
    Yes, perhaps. But that's not a "collared" industry at all, haha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pinupgurl2k6 View Post
    Many physicians, lawyers are huge nerds. They did not reach that achieved status because they were super cool at the campus kegger.
    I'm offended by that generalization! I've always been "super cool".

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    Quote Originally Posted by johnnytwoshoes View Post
    Please don't take this the wrong way...but I expect most dancers have boyfriends or are married to blue collar types willing to put up with a lot of crap.

    If there are any who are involved with engineers, lawyers, or doctors, I would be surprised.
    *facepalm* You were ASKING for the beating you're taking dude. You don't say things like that to women of the caliber that frequents these forums. You just DON'T.

    Now, that being said - I'm going to approach this the SAME way I did in my last post. You said that you "expect most dancers have boyfriend or are married to blue collar types willing to put up with a lot of crap." Strictly generalizing - you are both wrong and right. Like I said last time, you won't find many girls on these boards who fit into that category. Again, I certainly don't.

    However, "most" strippers certainly seem to date/marry blue collar men, with the exception that these guys really don't seem to put up with much BS - rather, they seem fond of causing it.

    Most of the dancers I know from in my club are dating boys who work in a fast food restaurant, etc, who are not going to school, do heavy drugs, and generally cause a lot of drama. I can't even begin to count the number of times I've overheard fights girls have on their cells in the DR with their boyfriends/husbands because he's an insecure deadbeat "blue collar" type with no prospects in life, and she's an immature party girl who doesn't know what she's worth yet.

    The girls HERE, not so much. From what I've seen, the majority of us have successful men in our lives who are supportive of what we do, are happily single and focusing on their careers without the added stress of a relationship, or are well on their way to knowing who they are and what kind of treatment they are worthy of in a relationship and are graduating from dating these types of men.

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    I was going to try to launch a partial defense of JohnnyTwoShoes, because he at least initially used the word "most" but its hopeless, and his situation reminds me of that old joke, about the blind guy in the bar..


    A blind man enters a lesbian bar by mistake. He finds his way to a bar stool and orders a drink. After sitting there for a while, he yells to
    the bartender in a loud voice, "Hey bartender, you wanna hear a dumb blonde joke?"!!!

    The bar immediately falls deathly quiet. In a very deep, husky voice, the woman next to him says, "Before you tell that joke, sir, I think it is just fair, given that you are blind, that you should know five things...

    1 - The bartender is a blonde woman.

    2 - The bouncer is a blonde woman.

    3 - The woman sitting next to me is blonde and is a professional weightlifter.

    4 - The lady to your right is a blonde and is a professional wrestler, and

    5 - I'm a 6 foot, 200 lb. blonde woman with a PhD., a black belt in karate and a very bad attitude! Now think about it seriously, Mister. Do you still want to tell that joke?"

    The blind man thinks for a second, shakes his head, and says;

    "Naaaah . . . not if I'm gonna have to explain it five times."

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    My requirements, personally:

    Has to be of equal or superior intelligence than I.
    Has to be of equal or superior attractiveness than I.
    Has to be extremely outgoing, I hate shyness.
    Has to adventurous, I travel on a whim.
    Has to be good in bed, and adventurous.
    Has to have at least two vices.
    Can not use hard drugs, and marijuana use must be very light for me to tolerate it.
    Has to be taller than me and in shape.
    Has to be into blood and guts and horror movies oh my.

    ...I don't find that too unreasonable.

    Oh and my five main relationships has the following occupations, in no particular order:

    Hedge Fund Trader
    Graphic Designer
    Porn Actor / Roofing Company Owner
    Mechanic
    Professional Surfer
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    Quote Originally Posted by MissMynxx View Post
    Most of the dancers I know from in my club are dating boys who work in a fast food restaurant, etc, who are not going to school, do heavy drugs, and generally cause a lot of drama. I can't even begin to count the number of times I've overheard fights girls have on their cells in the DR with their boyfriends/husbands because he's an insecure deadbeat "blue collar" type with no prospects in life, and she's an immature party girl who doesn't know what she's worth yet.
    My god, do you know my most recent fave? This describes her to a T.

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    Define super cool

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    I'm offended by that generalization! I've always been "super cool".

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    I've never noticed a consistent "type". Dancers I have worked with have all been with different types. Although married... if I was single I really don't think I have a "type". I just either have a connection with someone or I don't. What he does for a living really doesn't matter as long as he does something and is not lazy. But I like affection, lots of attention and basically to be worshipped hahahha.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jessie_tinydancer View Post
    I've never noticed a consistent "type". Dancers I have worked with have all been with different types. Although married... if I was single I really don't think I have a "type". I just either have a connection with someone or I don't. What he does for a living really doesn't matter as long as he does something and is not lazy. But I like affection, lots of attention and basically to be worshipped hahahha.
    I think the whole job issue is way overblown by many people. I've never dated guys based on what they do for a living. Granted, in a perfect world I'd rather date a guy with a good job, than one with a so-so job, but this isn't a perfect world (especially now with the economy). I am 39 so finding a guy who shares my views is hard enough (never married, no kid, non obese guys) without adding additional limitations.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pinupgurl2k6 View Post
    Define super cool
    It can't be defined -- It's the way I make people feel when they're around me.
    I emanate coolness and positive energy.

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    you're right, you ARE super cool, the sunglasses smiley is proof enough.
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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    It can't be defined -- It's the way I make people feel when they're around me.
    I emanate coolness and positive energy.
    I just threw up in my mouth a little... excuse me. I need to rinse with Listerine.

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    ^ Its so cute how you try to provoke me. We haven't argued recently... I miss it too.

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    ^ LoL, no it's cute that you think Im trying to provoke you.
    Sorry I missed church. I was too busy practicing witchcraft and becoming a lesbian.

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    ^ So, you think I'm cute... Yes, I am... Handsome, too.

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    Mine? Apparently men who think stripping is only okay when you're single, if at all. Good times.

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    ^ So he wants you to quit dancing after you two get married? Do you have a date set yet?

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    I have to say... The men posting here are totally rude and out of line.

    I think meeting so many types of men led me into finding what I'm really attracted to. Before I started dancing I wasn't too specific and I would pretty much give anyone a try. I think about it now and I wouldn't touch 99% of the guys I was with before.

    I have no problem admitting that I'm as shallow as a kiddy pool. My type is anyone heavily tattooed. The typical "Bad Boy" I suppose.
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    ^ Its interesting that you would pick the "bad boy" after "meeting so many types of men".

    I'm not judging - I consider myself a "bad boy" (I grew up in a dangerous NYC neighborhood, was a member of several mild gangs in my teens, a raucus frat boy in college and now I'm in the business of intimidating people - not the mob, the legal profession.)

    Why this choice of men?

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    perhaps it's the looks of what some would consider a 'bad boy' not an actual bad guy. stop trying to advertise yourself of all the assumed stereotypes you've mentioned. none of us are interested.
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    Quote Originally Posted by PRETTYdangerous View Post
    I have to say... The men posting here are totally rude and out of line.

    I think meeting so many types of men led me into finding what I'm really attracted to. Before I started dancing I wasn't too specific and I would pretty much give anyone a try. I think about it now and I wouldn't touch 99% of the guys I was with before.

    I have no problem admitting that I'm as shallow as a kiddy pool. My type is anyone heavily tattooed. The typical "Bad Boy" I suppose.
    I don't get the bad boy thing, but I can totally relate to discovering what you really want in a guy. I became hella picky after dancing for several years. Not that I dislike men, I just know EXACTLY what I like now and I don't waste my time on something that won't work out.
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