
Originally Posted by
trishaxxxo
I had a really shitty experience saturday night that I wanted to post about...I've had a lot "scarier" things happen but this one upset me on a really personal level,
I was dancing at a club I used to dance at all the time just for fun, I was visiting a friend and they needed an extra girl so I got dressed and joined the rotation. It's a little dive bar and I've worked with the bartender for 2 years, so I was really upset by his behavior.
I was up on stage and these three guys were up at my rack together, one of them was being REALLY fucking rude, put $1 down and started yelling at me to "show us your clitty" Now its a full nude club but theres no dances and customers tip for shit so I rarely take my panties off on stage, just flash the good tippers.
they were NOT tipping well and he kept saying fucked up stuff, I was just ignoring him and dancing for his friends, but at the middle of my third song he started cussing me out and said "Are you gonna take your panties of or do I have to fucking take them off for you?" At which point I walked away and started talking to another customer at the other end of the stage, even though he wasnt at my rack. this was for the last 30 seconds of my last song, and I heard the guy shouting at me from across stage.
I walked over and got kind of in his face, and said quietly but intensely, "Are you yelling at me? what do you have to say?" he said "we're paying for a fucking show here, are you just gonna talk all night or give us a fucking show?" I said "I don't appreciate being talked to that way, you are being really rude and it NOT ok to talk to me or any of the girls that way."
He YANKED his dollar off the stage and stormed away, leaving his friends looking really uncomfortable. I told the bartender what happened and he went and talked to the guy, then told me "well he said that you wernt dancing for him, and it just seems like drama, you know dancer x (my friend) just sits there and fuckin talks the whole time and thats not what they come here for, so I dont know whos telling the truth, I get two stories and half of each of them are lies"
I told him that I WAS fucking danging for them, this guy was cursing at me, verbally harassing me for not taking my panties off, that i was NOT the other dancer. He lectured me for not taking my job seriously and refused to kick the guy out. After I spent over a YEAR dancing at that club and have always been a hard worker and top earner. I am still pissed and will NEVER dance there again, I even am thinking of going back in and telling the bartender how pissed I am, that ive lost all respect for him and the club.
fucking BULLSHIT that I got in trouble and lectured because some DOUCHEBAG cussed me out and I asked the bartender to kick him out.
sorry but i just had to rant to someone and this seemed like a good thread to do it in.
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