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    I'm really new to stripping and had my first scary encounter with a customer last night.

    I was having an okay night for a Tuesday - I had sold a few dances when this guy came up behind me when I was talking to another girl about how embarrassed I was to have confused her as a customer. The guy grabbed both of us without either of us saying a word and hauled us to VIP telling his friends not to wait. We danced for him for 10 songs and with a little bit of hassle collected 200$ each. She has been dancing for 12 years and was way better at talking to him and more comfortable letting him touch her so I mostly danced infront of them and pretended to be doing naughty things with her. We made it clear that we were going to start dancing again and start charging him the same amount.

    If she hadn't been there with me I would have left the fucker long before we actually did. He kept on trying to touch us and repeatedly undid his pants while she explained that we're not prostitutes and that he had to do them back up. At one point I almost left but he told me not to because I'm so pretty and he wanted to see me "love my girlfriend more".

    OF COURSE at the end of it he starts yelling at us about being misleading and about how he doesn't owe me shit since I wasn't sitting on his lap (yes I was) and how I just stood there and watched (no I didn't). Then he made his way downstairs and gave her the money he owed her and started to make a scene with the managers and the bouncers about he we led him on and were misleading. As the scene went on he started in about how I was standing on guard while the other girl gave him a blow-job. It just kept on getting more and more pathetic as the guy started to realize that if he paid me he was going to be out 800$ for not even getting to touch us sexually. It progressed to the point where he started threatening the bouncers, threatening to call the cops, going on about how we stole his wallet and cell phone and how we spent all our time going down on him and fucking him (of course all the girls were standing around at that point - some of them yelling "PAY HER"). In the end they had to let him go because they only had 2 bouncers - one for the door and the other to watch the VIP room.

    Even though I didn't and don't take it personally I just HATE it when someone stands in my face and yells, makes a scene and then starts to throw lies out there. It was very stressful and was obviously a powerplay because when the fantasy wore off it was very clear that he was hurting over not getting any for what should have been $800. This morning when I woke up all I could think of was him waking up hungover, $600 out of pocket, remembering how he treated us and what an idiot he made himself look like while he realizes that he's not going to be welcome there again, may have actually lost his phone there and was laughed at by every girl in house.

    The girl I was with was super nice and gave me half of what the guy had paid us for the second round of dances so we both ended up being $100 out. I think that it's due to karma since last week I returned $10 I found on the floor to one of the waitresses because it was folded up how they fold their money. I can't wait for what karma has in store for him.

    What shitty or scary things have happened to you?

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    im sorry that happened to you.

    for future reference, any entertainment worth 800$ should always be paid for up front. A 20$ lap dance is more arguable, and if the customer decides to try to weasel out of it then it is not as huge of a loss. but for 800$, get paid before you undress!
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    A lot of things happened that were wrong and I should have left the situation way earlier. The only reason I stayed was because the other girl had it under control and he didn't want me to. In retrospect I really should have left but I guess that's a lesson learned. We each got our first $200 out of it and she got her second $200 which we ended up splitting.

    Now when I do VIPs though I'm going to do them on the more public couches instead of the private-ish booths since that whole thing made me feel really gross and I don't want my reputation to be tarnished by some asshole yelling about how we had sex with him (even though everyone knows that we didn't).

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    From the way you put it you delt with it pretty well though. It takes strong hearted ladies to dance Ive learnt that just by reading on here.. Im soo nervous about starting dancing. Thank you for sharing that experience.

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    Im sorry that happened to you. Ive had one lad (when i wasnt even working, went to my club on a nght out, and phoned for my taxi from the club, so waited in there, a customer wasnted me to dance for him (all the other girls had got changed and didnt want to dance) so after clearing it with the boss, did a couple of dances for him. He then waited outside the club for me (for half an hour)! The manager had to walk me up the road (the customer followed!!) waited outside the kebab shop whilst we got food, and then followed us further up the road to the taxi rank! He was stood behind me (us) all the time we waited, i made my manager get in the txi with me and dropped him off at his house coz the customer was listening to where i said i was going!!)

    Other scary thing, i danced for a lad (who was in a goup of about 4) they kept asking and asking when we got paid, how we got paid, what was i doing after work, had i done well that night, had i earned a lot etc! I was like ''eeerm, we dont get paid on the night, we have to collect it in the week, we dont carry cash, it all has to be tilled through and put on the books, the girls dont leave with cash, and besides, its been a really bad night, nobodys made anything tonight!''

    Once theyd been kicked out, they waited over the road from the club watching girls leave and asking other people wether id left!! I got one of the bouncers to shield me as i left and he walked me up to my waiting lift! I was freaked coz if i hadnt been so suspicious they probably would have just picked me up as i walked up the road and robbed all my money etc, I tend to keep my cash in my boot when i leave coz at least that way if they try and grab my purse there's nothing in it! But still, scary! My wonderful friend was also watching them from in her lift and was on the fone to me whilst i walked up with the bouncer!! Im so glad i have good friends and good security coz it could have been really different!
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    Always get your money up front! You don't know these people.

    I've had 3 scary/bad things happen at a club, 2 of which were in the last year when I wasn't at a local club.

    The first situation happened years ago when I was working in San Fran and a guy tried staying after the club closed. He'd been asking me for months to go on a date with him and I kept saying no. When the club closed he was outside and wanted to come back in. He told the bouncer he was my boyfriend (which he wasn't), and when the bouncer wouldn't let the customer back in the customer threw a glass bottle at the guy's head. Back then in San Francisco the bouncers didn't walk us to our cars, but after that night the management ALWAYS had a bouncer walk me to my car - which was often parked a block away.

    The second thing really isn't worth mentioning here because you'll probably never encounter it.

    The third thing was a dancer who was totally high & drunk out of her mind. She and her groupies decided that they didn't like me. I was totally different from them in how I looked, moved, etc. I reported a problem to management who didn't take care of it, things got out of hand and the girl tried to attack me in the dressing room. Luckily another SW'er was there so I wasn't totally alone. The club owner told me the problem had been resolved and the girl wouldn't be there next day that I worked and that he would personally be there to oversee things. He wasn't there, she was... and I left. I wasn't about to chance putting myself in harm's way.

    The moral of the story though is get your money up front, trust your instincts, and if management does not actively work to resolve issues you probably shouldn't be working there.
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    Quote Originally Posted by GlitterBexie View Post
    Im sorry that happened to you. Ive had one lad (when i wasnt even working, went to my club on a nght out, and phoned for my taxi from the club, so waited in there, a customer wasnted me to dance for him (all the other girls had got changed and didnt want to dance) so after clearing it with the boss, did a couple of dances for him. He then waited outside the club for me (for half an hour)! The manager had to walk me up the road (the customer followed!!) waited outside the kebab shop whilst we got food, and then followed us further up the road to the taxi rank! He was stood behind me (us) all the time we waited, i made my manager get in the txi with me and dropped him off at his house coz the customer was listening to where i said i was going!!)
    This didn't happen to me, but happened to another dancer. She left the club one night and a customer followed her home. She lived about 45 minutes from the club so it was a far drive. So she gets in her bedroom and the guy starts climbing in her window. Luckily her boyfriend lived with her. The guy got arrested and served jail time if I remember correctly. How she didn't see him following behind her I'm not sure and that never made sense to me. Another dancer found a customer sitting in her car when the bouncer flashed a light (they did this when they walked us to our cars).

    I've had dancers and customers steal money from me but that's about the worst thing I've had happen. I've seen a lot, including a customer smack a dancer right in front of the manager and he did nothing. I've had customers waiting for me before and after a shift (before was mostly waiting for me to arrive). The after was mostly them asking me to go out, but when I said I couldn't, they left.

    Not sure this is scary, but I once got to work and found out the cops were looking for me. Apparently the club was busted one night I wasn't there and one dancer gave my stage name. Luckily it was all cleared up because I wasn't there. It did scare me though.

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    ^^^Scariest thing was, the customer who waited first off, was a friend of a friend, he'd been wierd in the VIP room but i just thought it was coz he was drunk. This was the second time he came back to the club and hung about at the end of the night before realising that id scampered past him and up the road home before he even left the club.
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    I'm just so angry that the more and more desperate he became the worse the stuff that was coming out of his mouth was. "SHE WAS GIVING ME A BLOWJOB! I WAS FUCKING BOTH OF THEM! SHE DOESNT EVEN TALK!"

    Like discrediting us is going to take the heat off of him.

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    seriously glitterbexie, u attract the wierdo's at work, no offence lol its prob because your so gorg and hav a great kind warm personality to match, people try to take advantage, be strong, dominant, tell them off or dont go near them when they weird lol do what i do, walk away, or if in a bad mood tell them were to go lol, next time just pop in the car with me and the bf he'll be happy to keep you safe, even drive you home chick.
    to be fair, those 4 that were waiting, should of been kicked out as soon as we told the doorman what they were upto, he even clocked them lookin at the laptop on the dj stand, should of got rid of them long ago.

    thankfully i can say ive never had a bad experience comin home from work, ive always got a taxi and made a doorman wait with me, or my bf has picked me up right outside the club, im very edgy when out an about at night, guess thats why ive never had trouble, people can tell im looking out for trouble. lol i always keep my phone in my hand ready to call for help too, what a scardy cat, but hey, might save me one day.

    there was a girl i kno, when i worked with her this guy (soon to be married) was really gettin into her, she milked him dry, good on her, but he fell so head over heels, he was physically climbing into the back of her taxi with her, his twin brother and his mate had to drag him out the taxi bwhile she's kicking him out lol, not funny really, but she laughed it off, still does.

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    ^^^^^Jessie Bessie Boo, I MISS YOUUUUU!! And i can't wait to see you!! You help me deflect the wierdo's! Ur not a scaredy cat, ur just cautitious! WHich is good! x x x
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    lol bexie wexie wooooo hehe, ill cya sooooon, not many hours to go, im excited actually, ive not seen u in ages, weeeeeee lol i miss dancing there! i wants me some money haha.

    sorry to thread jack >< lol

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    baby, anything worth more than one dance should be paid up front. its not that scary, your lesson is learned and sooner or later you will be a pro at dealing with assholes like this guy.

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    I had a really shitty experience saturday night that I wanted to post about...I've had a lot "scarier" things happen but this one upset me on a really personal level,

    I was dancing at a club I used to dance at all the time just for fun, I was visiting a friend and they needed an extra girl so I got dressed and joined the rotation. It's a little dive bar and I've worked with the bartender for 2 years, so I was really upset by his behavior.

    I was up on stage and these three guys were up at my rack together, one of them was being REALLY fucking rude, put $1 down and started yelling at me to "show us your clitty" Now its a full nude club but theres no dances and customers tip for shit so I rarely take my panties off on stage, just flash the good tippers.

    they were NOT tipping well and he kept saying fucked up stuff, I was just ignoring him and dancing for his friends, but at the middle of my third song he started cussing me out and said "Are you gonna take your panties of or do I have to fucking take them off for you?" At which point I walked away and started talking to another customer at the other end of the stage, even though he wasnt at my rack. this was for the last 30 seconds of my last song, and I heard the guy shouting at me from across stage.

    I walked over and got kind of in his face, and said quietly but intensely, "Are you yelling at me? what do you have to say?" he said "we're paying for a fucking show here, are you just gonna talk all night or give us a fucking show?" I said "I don't appreciate being talked to that way, you are being really rude and it NOT ok to talk to me or any of the girls that way."

    He YANKED his dollar off the stage and stormed away, leaving his friends looking really uncomfortable. I told the bartender what happened and he went and talked to the guy, then told me "well he said that you wernt dancing for him, and it just seems like drama, you know dancer x (my friend) just sits there and fuckin talks the whole time and thats not what they come here for, so I dont know whos telling the truth, I get two stories and half of each of them are lies"

    I told him that I WAS fucking danging for them, this guy was cursing at me, verbally harassing me for not taking my panties off, that i was NOT the other dancer. He lectured me for not taking my job seriously and refused to kick the guy out. After I spent over a YEAR dancing at that club and have always been a hard worker and top earner. I am still pissed and will NEVER dance there again, I even am thinking of going back in and telling the bartender how pissed I am, that ive lost all respect for him and the club.

    fucking BULLSHIT that I got in trouble and lectured because some DOUCHEBAG cussed me out and I asked the bartender to kick him out.

    sorry but i just had to rant to someone and this seemed like a good thread to do it in.

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    Quote Originally Posted by trishaxxxo View Post
    I had a really shitty experience saturday night that I wanted to post about...I've had a lot "scarier" things happen but this one upset me on a really personal level,

    I was dancing at a club I used to dance at all the time just for fun, I was visiting a friend and they needed an extra girl so I got dressed and joined the rotation. It's a little dive bar and I've worked with the bartender for 2 years, so I was really upset by his behavior.

    I was up on stage and these three guys were up at my rack together, one of them was being REALLY fucking rude, put $1 down and started yelling at me to "show us your clitty" Now its a full nude club but theres no dances and customers tip for shit so I rarely take my panties off on stage, just flash the good tippers.

    they were NOT tipping well and he kept saying fucked up stuff, I was just ignoring him and dancing for his friends, but at the middle of my third song he started cussing me out and said "Are you gonna take your panties of or do I have to fucking take them off for you?" At which point I walked away and started talking to another customer at the other end of the stage, even though he wasnt at my rack. this was for the last 30 seconds of my last song, and I heard the guy shouting at me from across stage.

    I walked over and got kind of in his face, and said quietly but intensely, "Are you yelling at me? what do you have to say?" he said "we're paying for a fucking show here, are you just gonna talk all night or give us a fucking show?" I said "I don't appreciate being talked to that way, you are being really rude and it NOT ok to talk to me or any of the girls that way."

    He YANKED his dollar off the stage and stormed away, leaving his friends looking really uncomfortable. I told the bartender what happened and he went and talked to the guy, then told me "well he said that you wernt dancing for him, and it just seems like drama, you know dancer x (my friend) just sits there and fuckin talks the whole time and thats not what they come here for, so I dont know whos telling the truth, I get two stories and half of each of them are lies"

    I told him that I WAS fucking danging for them, this guy was cursing at me, verbally harassing me for not taking my panties off, that i was NOT the other dancer. He lectured me for not taking my job seriously and refused to kick the guy out. After I spent over a YEAR dancing at that club and have always been a hard worker and top earner. I am still pissed and will NEVER dance there again, I even am thinking of going back in and telling the bartender how pissed I am, that ive lost all respect for him and the club.

    fucking BULLSHIT that I got in trouble and lectured because some DOUCHEBAG cussed me out and I asked the bartender to kick him out.

    sorry but i just had to rant to someone and this seemed like a good thread to do it in.


    wow that is really fucked up. i would have flipped my shit at the manager and probably kicked hte customer in the head. i also wouldnt have taken off my bottoms, even if it was required by the club.

    i am so sorry that happened to you. i love this job, but once in a while management or customers will just act in such a disrespectful manner that it really gets my blood boiling. i hope you find a better club that appreciates your entertainment .
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    wow that is really fucked up. i would have flipped my shit at the manager and probably kicked hte customer in the head. i also wouldnt have taken off my bottoms, even if it was required by the club.

    i am so sorry that happened to you. i love this job, but once in a while management or customers will just act in such a disrespectful manner that it really gets my blood boiling. i hope you find a better club that appreciates your entertainment .
    thanks athena well tonite I was back at my regular club, had an awesome time and made lots of money, and was glad nights like that are a rare exception for me. so yay!

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