your are right, im not. i dont do long term relationships unless i really like and trust the person, which is rare. Im not looking for "many long term relationships". that is silliness and often a sign of codependency.
yea i felt up the dancer who moved my hands there, but titties and vajayjay groping are two totally seperate ball parks. vajayjay groping is an extra everywerhe in the industry, tittie groping is more lenient.
and if i was dating a girl who was very against extras, i would respect that. at this point i know where my weaknesses are and the good and bad i am capable of doing. ive done a lot of bad, but i also can be surprisingly loyal. the night of the tittie groping i had no commitment to anyone except myself.
agreed. if i was in a commited relationship where that wouldnt have been acceptable i would have avoided going to the titty bar when hammered and horny.
not that im saying people in commited relationships should avoid hte titty bars. please, by all means, come out. Your disaster marriages paid for my college tuition, and i expect it to pay for lots of good things in the future

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And my post wasnt an all men are jerks post. I like men, most of my friends are men. But for me the thing that would really bother me is the thing that really bothered the OP. if i date someone, they know that extras in the industry are one of the things that i am most strongly against period. My current SO knows that extras sscare the fuck out of me because i feel like an industry which i love is not going to survive another decade. and if the SO went to a club and got extras, then i would be devastated.
those of us in monogomous relationships expect our SOs to not cheat. do you think this is an unreasonable expectation? I dont . I have enough faith in people to assume they can keep their dick in their pants. Rubbing another girls pussy while financially supporting business practices that damage my industry is a similar betrayal to cheating IMO. Maybe its not the traditional cheating, where he is in bed with another women... but then again, im a stripper. im not in a traditional situation. A betrayal of my industry as well as the betrayal of having rubbing another girls pussy is doubly bad in my book.
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