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    I've been dancing at Deja Vu for a while, and although girls are territorial, none of them have ever stepped on my toes or stole a custie from my table or my tip rail (big no no at least there). I started filling in slow days there by working at a topless place. This club the custies are used to chatting for about 20 mins before you're supposed to get a dance. It's always like that.

    Well, during night shift there are 2 really aggressive girls that, every time I sit with a customer and "warm them up"for a VIP (its the only private dance we offer and it's $25) they come over the second the guy says yes and sit RIGHT IN THEIR LAP and beg them to go upstairs with them instead. It's the same two girls and they're basically tag-teaming my customers. I told mgmt. and they told them to cut it out, but they still do it and now just treat me like shit. What do you do?

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    So is it when you called to stage that the girls are approaching your "warmed up customer" ?

    If so, tell the customer that you're going to stage but to wait for you and tell them your name again. BECAUSE guys alway forget your name sometimes and at least they could say..oh I'm waiting for Lola to finish her stage and come back.

    Other wise you're gonna have to up your hustle. Don't wait the 20 min chat time. If the club is dead...then I understand spending time with cutomers over 4 songs. But if the club has guys that do not have their laps occupied by other girls..talk to that customer 2 songs..then turn your body around and say lets play I want to dance for you. Or what ever your line is. If he doesn't buy..then say..ok honey well I gotta get to working, I'll check on you later. And then check on him later. But go hustle the other guys.

    Sometimes its good to break out of your routine. You're not being agressive ..but your time is valuable too. Don't warm him up anymore for anyone but you. If you know you're going on stage soon..say ok gonna go do my sexy stage for you, watch me sweetie..then I'll come back and we'll play. Don't even ask if he wants to play. TAKE control and tell him how its gonna go!

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    They are bullies, plain and simple. Treat them as such. Somehow you have shown them that it's okay for them to bully/take advantage of you. Find out what has given them that impression and fix it.

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    If they do it while you are with customers, tell them they are being rude and it's against dancer etiquette to sit down with a customer who is already attended to by another dancer. Most guys won't buy from a girl if they realize she is rude to others.
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    Default Re: Other girls stealing custies!

    I'd have to agree with and thank all of you. I need to be more assertive, both with customers and other dancers I guess. Let's see if tonight goes better...

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    Default Re: Other girls stealing custies!

    Its definiitely different where I work. Its the clubs customers. So anyone is fair game!

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    Quote Originally Posted by lola_1986 View Post
    Well, during night shift there are 2 really aggressive girls that, every time I sit with a customer and "warm them up"for a VIP (its the only private dance we offer and it's $25) they come over the second the guy says yes and sit RIGHT IN THEIR LAP and beg them to go upstairs with them instead.
    Where are you sitting when this happens? If it's next to the custy then make sure to ALWAYS sit in his lap so those 2 bitches can't sit on him. Stake out your territory ... sitting on the custy is the only way to do that.

    Good luck honey and don't let those 2 bitches run over you anymore!

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    Default Re: Other girls stealing custies!

    My line is "We're still talking so why don't you come back later."

    Or grab your customer by the hand and say "We were just leaving."

    Next time you see them approach you hop on your customers lap.

    Just so you know these two chicks are total cretins.

    The other thing I would do is ask the management what days they are scheduled and tell them that you can't come in on those days. If they do it to other girls see if they will agree to change their schedule too.

    If they are losing girls on nights they are working they will really come down on them.




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    This happened to me a few days ago. It was the second time this girl has tried to cut my throat. I was over it. The girl knew I was sitting with a certain custy and proceeded to run her hustle on him while he was on the way to the men's room. I immediately intervened. She then managed to get him in the back while I was in the dressing room getting ready to go to the CR with him. I had enough. I stood next to the private room and started to make some comments about how she was wrong and it was bad etiquette to step on other dancers toes. Actually, I was screaming it so she could hear me opps.. It was dead so there weren't any custies back there besides him. And, really, I didn't give a shit and proceeded to call her a fat ruthless bitch. The manager knew about her doing this and chewed her out at the end of the night. So, my point is don't take shit from anyone. And, if you have to be a bitch about it then be one.
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    Quote Originally Posted by AdventureBaby View Post
    Where are you sitting when this happens? If it's next to the custy then make sure to ALWAYS sit in his lap so those 2 bitches can't sit on him. Stake out your territory ... sitting on the custy is the only way to do that.

    Good luck honey and don't let those 2 bitches run over you anymore!
    There was a thread about this awhile back. A lot of customers don't like dancers randomly sitting in their laps. If you know the customer it's one thing, but if you don't know the customer it puts them in an odd position if they don't like you.
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    Default Re: Other girls stealing custies!

    It all depends on your point of view though. If a customer comes in and youre not there to see him I think theyre fair game.

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    I am not a violent person but if a girl ever came over and sat in customer's lap while I was clearly sitting with a customer, I would have to beat the living shit out of them or avoid their shifts if possible. You will have to make it clear that this is not acceptable. Its one thing to run over as soon as you leave, but to do it right in front of you is beyond rude. Begging a guy to dance with them instead, while you are sitting there is just insane. I can't imagine a dancer being this stupid and I've seen some pretty stupid dancers. They would quickly understand that I don't play that shit. That is really no better than flat out stealing the money from my purse. I am not a lap sitter either, but you may want to start if you have girls doing this at your club!
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    Default Re: Other girls stealing custies!

    What would you ladies do if you saw a custie very obviously eying you up and trying to hint to you that he wanted you, but some other girl was all up on him trying desperately to get him to get a dance with her? In this scenario I think I would go interrupt them.

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    ^^^ I've had that happen more times than I can count. That's when you stand where he can see you and give the "come hither" hand signal - which forces him to excuse himself from her rather than you barging in.
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