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    So I was wondering whether most escorts here give blowjobs with or without condoms? The agency I'm with wants all its girls to do BBBJ's. I've read up on it and the chances of transmission of STI's are slim but still possible.

    How do the girls who give BBBJ keep themselves safe? do you literally inspect their dick to see if it's diseased?

    I was thinking of rinsing with Listerine giving a BJ too. would that help much?

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    Pink..this has been answered a million times. The Newbie Escorts seems to be a good spot now to ask all these questions. Minnie and Malaya seem to hit that thread everyday, and they pretty much know ALL the answers. I know all my questions have been answered there, and being new, I have asked tons of questions the past couple weeks.
    Whatever info you got that says the chance of transmitting std's is slim via bbbj, obviously was written by a man, who doesnt like condoms. Even if its a very small risk, or a huge risk, why would U even CONSIDER doing anything unsafely? An agency could kiss my ass and kick rocks if they asked me to do anything raw. They must know how to make std's vanish...
    An inspection--thats something I just have a habit of doing anyways. But you cant tell anything just from an inspection. I caught some stuff from a guy who looked totally clean. USE PROTECTION NO MATTER WHAT.
    Listerine? Nah...by the time you finish, your mouth has already soaked up whatever germs his penis wants to pass to you, or you've swallowed your saliva, which at one point, was all over him. Bad idea.
    USE PROTECTION. ALL THE TIME. NO EXCEPTIONS.

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    Well said Xiomara.

    Doctors have reported there is a slim chance of getting some stds from BBBJ, but in my past when I was stupid and didn't think blow jobs were bad to do or even unprotected anal I got a few stds back then. luckily they were cureable and haven't returned. but that is because I am more pro-safe sex and more educated about health and std/stis.

    and majority of things are answered in the newbie escort thread which you should read through first before you ask something that has already been addressed.

    You have to figure out what activities your willing to provide and receive before you become an escort with an agency or being independent.
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    I obviously don't provide any of this, but since I know friends who do I think it's best to share info. I have one friend who regularly does these, she doesn't dance. I'd say she probably sees 3+ customers a day. Last year she had 3 std infections in her throat that she told me of. She probably had more than that but I only talk to her maybe once every 2 weeks. Take that for what you will.
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    look up dr. sharon mitchell. she provides std testing for porn stars. scarleteen.com is also a good site.

    with the research i've done, from various sites, yes, i consider it risky behavior.

    keep in mind that even though some stds, like gonorrhea, are curable, the antibiotics and even the infection itself does put strain on your immune system. this puts your body out of whack and can make you more likely for catching other ailments.

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    Quote Originally Posted by alice_island View Post
    the antibiotics and even the infection itself does put strain on your immune system.
    Don't forget your budget too! Is it really worth the COST of possibly catching something when you factor in doctor appointments, antibiotics, and how long it could keep you from seeing clients?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    Don't forget your budget too! Is it really worth the COST of possibly catching something when you factor in doctor appointments, antibiotics, and how long it could keep you from seeing clients?

    Thank god for Canada having free health care, I only have to factor in paying for meds. unless I can pay for my own private insurance plan.
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    I now have genital herpes bc an ex boyfriend had a cold score and went down on me...Did you know that if someone provides oral with cold sore on their lip(s) or inside the mouth that you can likely contract genital herpes? I didn't at the time and that was over 20 years ago I, unfortunately learned the hard way.

    Regardless if you see or not see anything (i.e. an inspection) you never know what can be transmitted without the use of a condom.

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    Well where am I going to find an agency that's going to take me when all the other girls are willing to do BBBJ and I'm the only one who won't???

    How is a newbie like me going to entice a client if I won't offer CIM much less BBBJ? I don't think there is an agency in town that hires girls who aren't willing to do this.
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    Quote Originally Posted by pinkpinkpink View Post
    Well where am I going to find an agency that's going to take me when all the other girls are willing to do BBBJ and I'm the only one who won't???

    How is a newbie like me going to entice a client if I won't offer CIM much less BBBJ? I don't think there is an agency in town that hires girls who aren't willing to do this.
    Just because the agency wants you to do something does not mean they can make you, you have to find an agency who respects your boundaries.

    some agencies might not even ask what you provide , they will just hire you and and use the fact your new to make them money.

    new and naive is what agencies prey on.
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    Yup. Again, tell em to kick rocks n go do it themselves.
    Id go indy if there was NO agency to respect my boundaries.
    I dont do anything risky, and I make money. Some of my clients have even told me they respect me for the fact that i respect me. 300/400 bucks aint worth nasty bugs.

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    I use condoms simple. This shouldn't be that hard. Not doing BBbjs won't kill your career as an escort. If you wanna be picky and choosy about who you do it too fine but don't start crying when your guyno tells you you have herpes.. Be wise.

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    Quote Originally Posted by pinkpinkpink View Post
    Well where am I going to find an agency that's going to take me when all the other girls are willing to do BBBJ and I'm the only one who won't???

    How is a newbie like me going to entice a client if I won't offer CIM much less BBBJ? I don't think there is an agency in town that hires girls who aren't willing to do this.

    Yo if you encountered an agency that wouldn't hire you because you didn't do bbbjs I HOPE YOU RAN. A legitimate agency won't even discuss services. The only term i've heard Legit agencies come out and use it "GFE" (Girlfriend experience)

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    Quote Originally Posted by malayataylor View Post
    Yo if you encountered an agency that wouldn't hire you because you didn't do bbbjs I HOPE YOU RAN. A legitimate agency won't even discuss services. The only term i've heard Legit agencies come out and use it "GFE" (Girlfriend experience)
    I was about to say, how come no one's addressed the fact that your agency is telling you what you have to do, in a sexual nature. This is bad for several reasons...

    Agency owners are painfully aware that the only reason escort agencies even exist is because of a legal loophole that allows charging for companionship but becomes illegal the second sex is involved. It's a big giant game of "Don't Ask, Don't Tell". All the agencies I have been involved with went out of their way to portray an image of high-class companionship only...because...how do you know you're not talking to a cop? How do they know YOU'RE not a cop?

    It sounds to me like one of those fly-by-night "agencies". Ask to see their license or what their DBA is. I'd be willing to bet a significant amount of money that they don't have one.

    You'd be better off looking for another agency, or going independent.

    Also, if your agency is pressuring you to do to something sexual with a client you don't want to do (even if the only difference is using a condom), they are now officially involved in a sexual abuse conspiracy (I don't know what the EXACT legal term is, haven't taken a laws and ethics class since 2003) and it's an arrestable charge.

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