hi ladies
first I want to thank y'all for all the information on here; it calmed my nerves(a little)lol. before my 1st night.
2nd i really need your help. last night was my 1st night and I was ready to curl up in a corner and cry by time i was done. i don't know if im being to hard on myself but I am so disappointed in myself. so heres what happened and please give me any tips, advice or approvements i can make to make the next night better.
I got hired at a club in tampa and went to fill out the paper work friday. on the contract the rules seemed to rule out any of the wordrobe i had at home. it read ur dress had to b full length, no costumey outfits, booty shorts, skirt sets etc.I didn;t have a gown, or what seemed to meet any of dresscode. so put together a bag of the closest i had. last night when i got there...the girls had all that on. and i was confused...and the house mom said that "they were taking a break from the rules" and i felt dumb being in a long dress while the girls had cute stuff...
The house mom ended up letting me borrow a shorter dress as the night went on(but cost to rent) i asked if i could work a shorter shift since i had never danced and knew i would b a little overwhelmed and was told i had no choice but to work till close and 7hrs.
and be on stage 6 songs total....i bought some shoes...that arent exactly stripper shoes but alot closer than what i had from the house mom.
by the 5th hr my feet killed...(bc i wasn' used to it & they weren't a perfect fit) so my 2nd round on stage i was walking funny no matter how hard i tried. so i walked back n the dressing room after and one of the girls walks up to me and asks "are you drunk?" im like "no, why?"
her:oh ok
housemom after seeing my look"she only asked bc if how ur walking"
so none of the girls were friendly, all kinda acted like i was in the way...no matter where i went,and kept saying "how their first night they went home with more than 300, some made the same comment but with 500 or 800. anytime i walked back to fix my makeup or freshen(was only in the dressing room twice all nite for less than 3 min each time) told me to get out and make money and not be there.
when it go to be 2:30am(after 6 and half hrs) i needed a break....and was overwhelmed.i asked the house mom if i could call it a night and wait in there till it was time to leave and he said nope didnt matter if i was new or overwhlemed. by this point i was near tears and it was just to much for the 1st night and i felt like i failed. so i waited a little more and he let me sit in the dressing room 15min early...
i made 80 is that really bad ur first night?
do you think i should try somewhere else?
your first night were u told u HAD 2 work seven hrs?
thanx for reading this i know its long and i appreciate any help or mercy given ladies.
xoxo




) i asked if i could work a shorter shift since i had never danced and knew i would b a little overwhelmed and was told i had no choice but to work till close and 7hrs.
i asked the house mom if i could call it a night and wait in there till it was time to leave and he said nope didnt matter if i was new or overwhlemed. by this point i was near tears and it was just to much for the 1st night and i felt like i failed. so i waited a little more and he let me sit in the dressing room 15min early...
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sorry I don't have any advice. I haven't started yet. Just sorry your first night went badly.


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