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    Hello Everyone.

    My best client ( comes in and gives me at least 500-1000 each time) who comes in on business and I have been in communication now for about 6 months. I guess I got him into trouble with his wife. This man and I have been sending each other text messages and he comes out about twice a month and we even go out to dinner ( nothing more I respect my marriage ALOT)

    Well I sent him sexy pictures and text messages and I guess she saw the phone this morning and it got ugly real quick. I did not even know he was married as he did not tell me actually told me he was widowed and I did ask when we first met if me calling him was going to cause any issues with work ( he is a well known and established man on the east coast) or at home ( the last thing I want is someone chasing me because they think I am going after there S.O.)

    I really don't want to lose him as a client as he is nice, takes VERY good care of me money wise ( and in this ecnomy that is important)

    So what can I do? I feel bad as I don't want to complicate a marriage either. I NEED help with this so please respond!

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    Default Re: "Pulled a Tiger Woods!"

    Got your text, here I am!

    As much as it sucks, I think it's basically out of your hands at this point. It's up to him to decide whether or not he wants to continue seeing you - whether behind his wife's back or with her blessing. I think the only thing I would conceivably do is offer to have him bring her in so she can meet you and see that while you like her husband and appreciate his money - you're only entertainment and you respect their relationship.

    Some women are just uncomfortable with strip clubs - usually based off insecurity. If you're younger and prettier than her, if she's not open-minded, she will be very threatened by you and probably cause a lot of drama with her husband if he continues to see you.

    I know you're looking for solid advice about something you can DO to help the situation without losing him as a client but ... honestly, aside from offering to meet her (which MAY make things worse - it's a gamble...) you basically have to sit back and wait to see how things pan out.

    Good luck!
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    Wait, so you knew who this guy was and you didn't research him?

    I know other dancers think I'm sort of odd sometimes, but I research my clients. I don't look up all of them, but when they give me large amounts of money - I look online to sort of estimate how much they might have... so I know what they can be spending.

    I don't give out my number to club clients, so that probably would have never been an issue. However, he's a big boy and will have to deal with the consequences of lying to both of you. The only thing you could do is offer to speak to her on the phone and assure her that your relationship was nothing more than that of a dancer-customer - i.e. you two didn't have sex, kiss, etc.
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    Default Re: "Pulled a Tiger Woods!"

    I got your text too and agree with pretty much everything that has already been said.

    Once I know a big spending customer's real name I go to pipl.com and do some digging. Don't take it personally that he didn't tell you he was married. He has his reasons for putting on a facade (much like we do when we morph into our stripper persona) I'm sure you aren't the only stripper sending him texts as well, traveling businessmen tend to have a favorite girl in every city.

    Just let it be. The situation will work itself out. Let him contact you once he gets his phone back.
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    ^WOW.

    PIPL.COM IS CRAZY!!! I just was messing around on it. Holy crap.

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    He actually sent me information on himself and I did research it. I looked him up via google as well. No mention of a wife or family. I only gave him my number after knowing for for quite some time. ( this club 6months and the other almost a year!)

    I do agree that he is a grown man and as a grown man picks his battles. I would never complicate a marriage nor would I jeapordize mine. She should know that he is quite classy, never pushed boundries and often just was lonely and wanted some companionship. I don't think him going to the clubs is the big issue with the Mrs. I think it is the lying factor, I know personally if my husband lied to me it would have a much bigger impact on me than him simply going out and enjoying an entertainer's company.

    This guy comes back on the 18th so we will see what happens. I have many other clients as well so if he sadly does go M.I.A. I can always gain a new client or keep my other established ones.

    thanks for the advice ladies! I wanted to make sure I was not doing something wrong.

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    Just so others know, pipl.com pulled up wildly inaccurate information for me. It said I have kids, which I don't, unless cats count. The only things on there that were right were my address and birthday. So it may not be the best resource.

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    Just an update. He sent me an e-mail this morning stating that he "had a cold hard look at his bank account and to be honest it is alot of money for little return." He won't be doing private dances anymore. I do remember this guy always asking me out to his room and now he left me for a well known extras girl. It sucks but I would rather have my somewhat lower spending clients than someone who expects me to compromise my morals.

    Thanks for the advice ladies I love you girls!!

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    Default Re: "Pulled a Tiger Woods!"

    Quote Originally Posted by XAnastasiaX View Post
    Just an update. He sent me an e-mail this morning stating that he "had a cold hard look at his bank account and to be honest it is alot of money for little return." He won't be doing private dances anymore. I do remember this guy always asking me out to his room and now he left me for a well known extras girl. It sucks but I would rather have my somewhat lower spending clients than someone who expects me to compromise my morals.

    Thanks for the advice ladies I love you girls!!
    Well ouch to the email! You're right though. Some things money just can't buy, and you're one of them!

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    Thanks sweetheart! There will always be other clients and established regulars. Money while nice to have is not worth going against my faith, values, and relationship with my husband.

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