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    Default Almost busted...by the boyfriend...

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    Default Re: Almost busted...by the boyfriend...

    Hmm....
    You escort on the side without your SO knowing?

    I can't say much to help b/c I think honesty is pretty essential in a relationship. But if you're going to do it, be more careful.
    What does he think you do for a living?

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    Default Re: Almost busted...by the boyfriend...

    It depends on the strength in your relationship I am single, just me and the cats but I have met clients who have married escorts but they seem to have an honest relationship and they seem to be open to the idea of dating another escort if they met the right lady.

    but from what I have been hearing and from my broken past relationship it was all about the honesty and respect to hold them together.
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    Default Re: Almost busted...by the boyfriend...

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    Default Re: Almost busted...by the boyfriend...

    My BF knew that I was escorting when we started dating 5 years ago. I was all for honest relationship, but realised that sharing makes only me feel better. When I lied to him that I stopped he was far more happier. So if he busts you better fix a story about how they pay you for being their dance partner in some classes or going to dinner or something.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Xiomara View Post
    yeah. i just wanna get my new car and my student loans paid off.......then ill delete all my ads...
    I'd also be cautious of posting on entirely public message boards, if I were you. If he gets suspicious, chances are, he'll go straight to the computer and confirm it here on SW from your very own posts first. Trust me, you wouldn't be the first and you surely wouldn't be the last.
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    Default Re: Almost busted...by the boyfriend...

    You should be honest with him if it's bothering you so much OR quit....Not everyone is good at keeping secrets. I say if he's taking care of you and you can afford to quit then quit.. if not then... well...

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    Default Re: Almost busted...by the boyfriend...

    Quote Originally Posted by malayataylor View Post
    You should be honest with him if it's bothering you so much OR quit....Not everyone is good at keeping secrets. I say if he's taking care of you and you can afford to quit then quit.. if not then... well...
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    ^I second that. I have a friend whose bf wanted her to quit dancing on the spot. What he failed to realize is how long it takes to get a 'normal' job. And how much income you lose when you do go to a 'normal' job.
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    There was a HUGE discussion about this while back. Do a search on the topic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by zippy092 View Post
    But we had an agreement that I have to give him a certain % so he can make more. .
    um wow ok

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    ^That doesn't sound good. I'm hoping that was just worded wrong...?
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    Default Re: Almost busted...by the boyfriend...

    ^^ Yeah that's some kind of sarcasm or something right? Right?!


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    Quote Originally Posted by zippy092 View Post
    He puts the money into a bank account that adds value over months, but we both share it.
    That money is yours. You learn how to invest it. You are very young. Every relationship I have had since i was 19 I thought would last forever. When I was your age I had a long term bf who turned out to be an compulsive liar. I am 31 now and even tho I am sure I am going to marry this one our finances do not mingle.

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    Default Re: Almost busted...by the boyfriend...

    umm, there's a name for this
    ....oh, i know! - a pimp!
    These days I like to count my money. I like to wash it delicately and iron it. Sometimes I dry it with some bounty to make it all nice and cuddly. I love my money... did I say that out loud?

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    Quote Originally Posted by hello-kitty View Post
    so in order for him to accept your job, you have to contribute to this account, or he leaves?

    Isn't that kind of selfish of him?

    You aren't married to this guy. You have no financial obligation to contribute to anything. If he really loved you he would accept what your doing regardless, without the thought of any financial contribution to anything.

    He's the man, let him put money in the account. Keep doing your thing girl, that is YOUR money, you worked for it. You guys should no be mixing your money together. That's just another way for a guy to control you.
    Agreed. Ill be damned if a man -especially who is not my husband) made it a requirement for me to let him have access to my money!! Have your own account girl! Keep it secret, hell DONT keep it secret. Your a woman...we are runnin things now! LOL

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    Ummm yeah. Had a joint account with the BF before we broke up/got back together. It caused a lot of problems. Now if we need to pay bills we just pool it together, otherwise I hold onto my money.
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    ^^^Yeah when I first read "But we had an agreement that I have to give him a certain % so he can make more," I was like OH. HELL. NO.

    I would never ever ever ever allow my friend, boyfriend, husband, mom, sister, ANYBODY force me to give them a certain percentage of what I earn.

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    Sorry zippy, but I have to agree with sapphire. That's not a boyfriend, that's a pimp.

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    Is this for real!?!?! That money should be in a bank account with sole access to you. NO-one ever thinks a guy will up and run off with all their savings - until it happens! You're paying a guy to hang out on the couch and allow you the privilege of going to earn money for him? That's a pimp!

    If he really loved you and accepted you unconditionally, he wouldn't want a penny from you, or not 'allow' you to go to work. And if he doesn't love and accept you unconditionally, why are you putting your savings up for his grabs??


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    Wow, just wow.

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    I'd love to see the day that I give some guy (besides my son), especially someone I'm not married to, my hard earned money

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    ^ well that'll be the day hell freezes over, defrosts, and refreezes again
    These days I like to count my money. I like to wash it delicately and iron it. Sometimes I dry it with some bounty to make it all nice and cuddly. I love my money... did I say that out loud?

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    I was stripping for about a month before my man caught me. He was super fuckin' pissed at first but after cooling off for a good week he came with me to the club one night and now hes totally cool with it. He even helps me pick out outfits and tells me what I can do better with hustling and stage preformance.

    I don't know how your dude would react but think of it this way... would you rather tell him whats going on or have him walk into your club and have a little suprise?!

    Good Luck!

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