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    Okay, when I get a lapdance I like to roleplay and talk dirty and I was wondering if that was common or rare. I've noticed that often the girl will giggle and whatever, but after awhile, they get more comfortable with it and start getting into it, I was wondering if anyone else has had this kind of experience?

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    Depends on the guy. Most guys who try it don't do a very good job, and I end up "playing" but secretly rolling my eyes at everything he says.

    Its fine though, I'd rather do some pseudo role playing than be groped and grabbed against my consent.

    Also, word of very important advice to you men who like talky-talk/RP during dances. If you're going to be whispering nasty stuff in a dancer's ear, or saying it to her while she is very close to you..PLEASE FOR GOD'S STAKE HAVE BRUSHED TEETH AND CHEW SOME GUM OR A MINT!!

    Really, its absolutely revolting when a man is acting like some dominant sex god, and his breath smells like old fish.

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    ^^Hahahahah wiser words were never spoken


    if you keep your hands to yourself and keep giving me money i will tolerate it. but i dont enjoy customers talking dirty. my feelings towards customer dirty talk range from completely grossed out to incredibly amused. either way i will keep a straight face if you give me money.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    I like it when a dancer role-plays a young, cute, friendly, flirty extrovert who is realllllly into me.

    If she does this well, I will role-play a normal, well-adjusted normal non-pervert who likes to hand over money. And, I will chew gum or have mints. (;

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    Default Re: Do you like roleplaying with patrons?

    Maybe sometimes in the champange room i'll do a little dirty talk but usually when they talk back, it just sounds silly.

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    Quote Originally Posted by KS_Stevia View Post
    Really, its absolutely revolting when a man is acting like some dominant sex god, and his breath smells like old fish.
    I'm guessing that belly stains on his T-shirt and a bad comb-over would be mood-killers as well?
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    I'm guessing that belly stains on his T-shirt and a bad comb-over would be mood-killers as well?
    OMG, were you in my club that night? Eeeeew. I've had some nasty unappealing role-play guys, but the fish-breath one stands out to this day. I had to leave him before I got all his money because I couldn't handle it, I hate breathing through my mouth for extended periods, gives me a panic attack!

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    Default Re: Do you like roleplaying with patrons?

    If you are playing money slave...immensely.

    I'm with KS_Stevia, when a guy is at a club he has to let go not take charge.

    If a guy starts talking dirty to me I try and change the subject because to me that is considered an extra and not one I'm willing to do. I'm more willing to let a guy play out his fantasy if he's paying high dollar but it needs to be within reason.

    If guys find a stripper who is okay with it great. But mainly that is what phone sex operators, cam girls and dominatrix's are for.

    Not even escorts I don't think would talk dirty or role play that much.

    @Everyman...you and I would get along great. And I'll have no qualms taking your money.




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    I've never once dirty talked in a private dance. I don't know...the idea just disgusts me, and I know I couldn't even pretend to be into it with most of the guys. But I only ever had someone try that with me back when I'd first started dancing.

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    I don't *like* doing ANYTHING with patrons. If I could just sit there all night and have money fall into my lap, fantastic.

    Occasionally, I'll get a gentleman in the club who I honestly enjoy spending time with, but those men are few and far between. In 3 years of dancing, I've only met 2, and I'm marrying one of them.

    I will not, under any circumstances, talk dirty with a customer. I'm bad at it, for starters. And two, it's just disgusting. If I won't talk dirty to my FIANCE who I am, ya know, actually attracted to - I'm not going to do it for someone I don't know, probably don't like, and am definitely not attracted to. I suppose I have a price to tolerate it, but ... yeah, no.

    If customers start talking dirty with me, I firmly tell them to stop.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    I like it when a dancer role-plays a young, cute, friendly, flirty extrovert who is realllllly into me.

    If she does this well, I will role-play a normal, well-adjusted normal non-pervert who likes to hand over money. And, I will chew gum or have mints. (;
    LOL good one.

    For me I don't like dirty talk and luckily it's rare that I hear it. If I do I just ignore it.

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    The dirty talk thing would be uncomfortable for me. I like it when customers keep that stuff to themselves. The role playing thing, I have one customer who does it. I found it a bit odd at first, but he is a nice guy so I humour him. The role play is very G-rated so I see no harm. He usually just pretends we are on a date and discusses what we would do and what we are wearing, who we see, etc. etc. I don't know why but with him I have no problem with it.

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    i kind of don't know what constitutes dirty talk for you because it rarely happens to me...i don't really giggle but just nod my head and go 'mmmhmmm' or say 'yeaaaah' (with my back turned and rolling my eyes. but if he starts taking it too far it becomes disturbing. in fact the first time it happened the guy was so gross and talking really dirty that i went home crying cause i was so disturbed, and even though he kept asking for lap dances i went and hid in the dressing room until he left.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Omegaphallic View Post
    Okay, when I get a lapdance I like to roleplay and talk dirty and I was wondering if that was common or rare. I've noticed that often the girl will giggle and whatever, but after awhile, they get more comfortable with it and start getting into it, I was wondering if anyone else has had this kind of experience?
    Many dancers will consider dirty-talking an "extra" and rightfully so. It can be extremely explicit depending on the subject. I'm a PSO (when I'm not dancing) and I'm willing to do a dirty-talk routine with custies in-club but only for additional tips ($20+) per dance/rp/talk session. I've literally talked my way into a lot of money and I'm glad I don't have a problem with it. I can totally understand other dancers feeling out of place doing it, though.
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    Now that I know some girls charge for it, I will willingly do it for extra $$$.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ariel1228 View Post
    Now that I know some girls charge for it, I will willingly do it for extra $$$.
    Seriously, charge a lot. At least an extra $10-$20 per dance. You'd be astonished what guys will want to say. Don't be afraid to ever say no, too, if a guy wants to discuss something you won't. There are taboos out there even I won't touch.
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    Thanks, love. What I think I would try to do is get them in the CR and then charge for the RP on top of the $300+/half hour.

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    ^^

    Very good call. Good luck!
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    I hate it when a M*Fker tries to start talking dirty shit to me. Like "I would love to eat your p****" or "I would just ram my dick down your throat."
    Who the fuck do you think you are??
    If in the VIP we get into conversation and I start talking about sexual stuff, or ask questions or whatever then it's mutual and it's acceptable unless he starts talking crazy. Sometimes I ask "so what's the wildest thing you've ever done" or something like that. (I like to get my guys talking instead of focusing on the youknowwhat).
    But never ever should a dude just start saying nasty shit to me like that. It's rude and I will leave your ass immediately, and generally leave you with some special words about being a little more polite as well.

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    Quote Originally Posted by firemaiden04 View Post
    I've never once dirty talked in a private dance. I don't know...the idea just disgusts me, and I know I couldn't even pretend to be into it with most of the guys. But I only ever had someone try that with me back when I'd first started dancing.
    Me either. I just can't. I don't even dirty talk with my husband because I feel really, really silly.

    Role-playing I have never encountered, unless you count the dudes who want me to smack them around and tell them what a piece of shit they are. I can hang with that. But I've never come across any other type of scenario.

    As a dancer I am very guarded about what I will do. The line of intimacy is very strange with me. For example, I "broke up" with my regular because he started asking me to pinch his nipples. To me, that's too intimate and i didn't want to touch his gnarly old man nipples. But tons of girls would be ok with that.

    So I suppose that being said, dirty talk is too intimate for me for club interactions, and role playing would as well, if I was to ever encounter it.

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    You guys concider it extras??? wow, American women are trouble. For $20 at the club I go to (no charge for vip, its free to enter), I get tits to the face mininial, dirty talk, some dirty talk(chicks suck at it, although I could problably do betterthan I have, I was nervous at first when I started going so I underachieved), and a spanking (her not me, I don't bottom),

    Here's my usual routine. Joke with chick when she sits down, to weed out boring chicks from fun ones. Then I start asking questions, where is it okay to touch you, do you have a good imagination (must), do you mind roleplaying(must
    ), I like to play slavegirl and the emperor, do you have a problem with that? I've never had a girl say she was.

    If she ever asked money beyond the price of lap dances, I'd say no. $20 per dance. I'm already paying you, why would I pay more for mere words? Especially when plenty of other girls do it for no extra money.

    Plus aren't extras supposed to be payments for illegal services, where dirty talk is totally legal?

    To be far I'm very unhappy about the quality of dirty talk I've been giving the girls, they seem to enjoy it once they get used to it, but subpar filth
    is shameful on my part when I know I'm capable of superme, godly, soul damning, rapture inspiring filth. I need to set the bar higher.

    I took a seminar on dirty talking once, I used to write erotic stories, with thousands or more readers, in some cases in exchange for free access to pay porn sites. I got emails from women telling me how they they multiorgasmed to my stories (to be fair I also got flames to), my main publishing webmiteress was BDSM model that used to masterubate to my stories. She loved my work that she sarted auo excepting them. My words were the words that launched a thousand creamy loads!

    I've read up on nlp and hypnosis, I once in high school I used hypnosis to convince a girl she had a fly up her nose.

    I invent universes and empires while working on landscaping, inside my head just for fun.

    By the time Im done finished she should be so engrossed, so entranced, so enthralled when I ask how many songs was that she has no idea!

    Im so disappointed with myself, disgusted really for exaccepting less then I am capable of.

    Also why am I role playing an Emperor, when I could be role playing a primordial diety of absolute soul devouring depravity, a being of omnipotent lust.

    Next time I get a dance Ièm giving myself a promotion. Ièm worth it, and Ièm going to do much better.

    Sorry for the rant

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    ^^ I'm not American, and you're a whack job smalls.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Omegaphallic View Post
    By the time Im done finished she should be so engrossed, so entranced, so enthralled when I ask how many songs was that she has no idea!
    Not likely!!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Omegaphallic View Post
    My words were the words that launched a thousand creamy loads!
    More like a thousand ridiculing laughs. I've never heard anything more pompous and delusional.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Omegaphallic View Post
    You guys concider it extras??? wow, American women are trouble. For $20 at the club I go to (no charge for vip, its free to enter), I get tits to the face mininial, dirty talk, some dirty talk(chicks suck at it, although I could problably do betterthan I have, I was nervous at first when I started going so I underachieved), and a spanking (her not me, I don't bottom),

    Here's my usual routine. Joke with chick when she sits down, to weed out boring chicks from fun ones. Then I start asking questions, where is it okay to touch you, do you have a good imagination (must), do you mind roleplaying(must
    ), I like to play slavegirl and the emperor, do you have a problem with that? I've never had a girl say she was.

    If she ever asked money beyond the price of lap dances, I'd say no. $20 per dance. I'm already paying you, why would I pay more for mere words? Especially when plenty of other girls do it for no extra money.

    Plus aren't extras supposed to be payments for illegal services, where dirty talk is totally legal?

    To be far I'm very unhappy about the quality of dirty talk I've been giving the girls, they seem to enjoy it once they get used to it, but subpar filth
    is shameful on my part when I know I'm capable of superme, godly, soul damning, rapture inspiring filth. I need to set the bar higher.

    I took a seminar on dirty talking once, I used to write erotic stories, with thousands or more readers, in some cases in exchange for free access to pay porn sites. I got emails from women telling me how they they multiorgasmed to my stories (to be fair I also got flames to), my main publishing webmiteress was BDSM model that used to masterubate to my stories. She loved my work that she sarted auo excepting them. My words were the words that launched a thousand creamy loads!

    I've read up on nlp and hypnosis, I once in high school I used hypnosis to convince a girl she had a fly up her nose.

    I invent universes and empires while working on landscaping, inside my head just for fun.

    By the time Im done finished she should be so engrossed, so entranced, so enthralled when I ask how many songs was that she has no idea!

    Im so disappointed with myself, disgusted really for exaccepting less then I am capable of.

    Also why am I role playing an Emperor, when I could be role playing a primordial diety of absolute soul devouring depravity, a being of omnipotent lust.

    Next time I get a dance Ièm giving myself a promotion. Ièm worth it, and Ièm going to do much better.

    Sorry for the rant

    yea 20$ would not be nearly enough to deal with your bullshit.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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