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Last edited by zippy092; 04-15-2010 at 11:18 PM.
when i worked in chicago that was a BIG no no; Ive been out on the beach in florida for years now and girls wouldnt think twice about approaching someone who was tipping- i've gotten used to it by now but when i started i felt like it was in poor taste,
Maybe they don't mind pissing off the new girl? Call them out on it.
Get the fuck off my harbl, yo'.


Honestly, im gonna say this depends on the club. I had never heard of any kind of "rule" like that until i saw the thread on it. At my club, we really push to get guys to stage, so say you start talking to a guy by the bar, you wanna always ask him if he wants to move to the stage and sit with him. If there are guys sitting alone at the stage, it's perfectly ok to go talk to them while a girl is onstage, just making sure the she gets tipped. of course, you want to ask any guy sitting by himself at the stage if he's been sitting with the girl onstage out of courtesy. I dunno, i just really don't see how this is such a big problem elsewhere, although all the girls at my club are really good about making sure they are not sitting with another girls customer.
on an added note, when i am sitting with a customer stage side, i always like to ask my custie if i can have some money to tip the girl on stage also, like "i wanna have fun too!" etc... that way the girl is getting double the money she would get from dancing for one custie on stage.
AKA: Kimber





hustling customers at the stage is dependent on the club. at some clubs its explicitly against the rules, at some clubs its implicitly against the rules, and at some clubs its fair game.
one of the clubs i work at now allows it. i remember one night every customer was sitting by the stage and there were none in the chairs. i sat at the bar and the floor guy came up to me and encoouraged me to hustle guys at hte stage.
its standard there,... but i still think it is rude and should only be used as a last resort i.e. when there are no other customers. and if you do it, either try to make your sale quickly and leave or sit down and remind the customers to tip. when girls sit by a customer for a long time and dont remind him to tip i come over and very rudely interrupt their conversation by doing something like clacking my heels and ask if they are enjoying sitting in the tipping area. it reminds the customer to tip and embarasses the girl.
yea i have no shame. especially when girls sit by the stage with a customer and encourage the feeloading. we undoubtedly know better, so doing so deserves an even ruder response than what i give to the non tipping customers.
The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.
At my club it's okay to sit with a customer by the stage but I personally do not like to.
If I do, I like to be quick about it and have the guy tip the girl. Sometimes I'll say something like "come on you can do better than that!" if they only tip her a dollar. I'll ask for some dollars to tip her as well.
I hate when you come to dance for the guy at the tiprail and the dancer looks at you like you are stupid or something. Hello, this is what the tip rail is for!
I also always encourage guys at the bar to come with me to sit at the tip rail if noone is tipping the girl on stage.
I think if you are courteous and aren't taking up space and diverting too much attention from the girl on stage, it's okay. Just always make sure your customer is tipping accordingly and don't get so wrapped up in your convo with the custy, that he isn't paying any attention to the girl and she ends up feeling awkward.
If you do make a sale at the tip rail, ask the custy to tip the girl before you wisk him away for a dance. If not, THAT is rude and I would be pretty pissed.





some clubs have more dirty hustlers than others. when i first came to florida, i was SHOCKED at how many dancers would sit next to stageside customers and try to distract him from the dancer on stage.



Luckily at my club, should the dancer sit next to a stage customer, and she is still in the stage of 'hustling' the guy, she won't really distract him from the dancer on stage. She'll only distract him to the point on getting a dance, not from keeping the dancer from getting a tip. Especially when there's only 1-2 guys near the stage, it's courtesey and we'll often look and watch the dancer while she's on stage, pausing our sale until the filler song.
This, and, the dancers on stage are not afraid of going up to a guy sitting near the stage / asking for a tip when there's a girl sitting with him, she knew it was our turn and we want a tip, no offense meant.


Unfortunately, it seems like etiquette has gone right out the window with the bad economy. Some people tend to get a little cut-throat when there's not as much to go around as there used to be. Just always stay true to yourself. They'll get theirs in the end.
The thing is at my club, rarely NO ONE tips at the stage - ever! And girls do not tip each other, like some of you mentioned. This is why it made me mad, she was in it for her.





^ That sounds....odd. You work in Toronto right? Which club?





I got it, thanks. That sounded much more brash than I intended. Thanks for the PM!
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