Hi,
I've been dancing for a little over a year, and as I am by nature eager to please and hate confrontations, I find that I've allowed customers more and more contact. Several regulars now expect a full-frontal hug whenever I see them or when I finish a lap dance. It seems the hugs get a little longer and gropier each time. Can I backtrack on the hugs now without insulting my regulars?
With a new customer who's tipping me to sit next to him, how do I allow a little shoulder-to-shoulder contact or occasional peck on the cheek to keep the dollars coming, but then stop him from touching me more without driving him away? Our club has the official 1-foot policy, but everyone knows some contact is tolerated, ass/tit/pussy grabbing is a no-no, but where the line is depends on who's managing and what mood he's in. So it's not like I can point to some sign on the wall to let the customer know what's allowed.
And how do I turn down an invitation to hang out with a customer after my shift ends, without shattering the illusion that I’m crazy about him?
I feel awkward because I try and pretend that I truly like the customer and enjoy spending time with him, so when it comes time to demand my money or slap down a wayward hand I feel wierd about it and can't figure out how to do it gracefully.
Thanks so much for any advice.
Margie (not my real or stage name!)



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to cut this hug short, but I REALLY have to go pee!" Act the part, and they will release quickly, and it's no pressure for either side, or un-comfort. I've done the I gotta pee thing for YEARS with no problems, and they STILL come back for more laps.


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