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    Default Withdrawal ):

    So I'm trying to give up clubs (for various reasons not relevant to my point). Been almost a month now since I've been to one. And I realllllly miss it.

    I don't have hot young naked attractive women in my private life. I miss talking with them, flirting with them, dancing with them, touching them, watching them. I don't miss the loud music or the steep drink prices. But I miss the babes.

    So, babes on here, anything I can do to get over it?

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    Become a sugar daddy?

    Join a ballroom dancing class?

    Hang out in nightclubs like a creepy old dude?

    See escorts?

    Become a tutor for college students?

    Or...just head back to the club on occasion and have fun!

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    Default Re: Withdrawal ):

    The reasons would be sort've relevant to any advice we could give, though.

    We could tell you where else to get your Hot Nubile Woman contact, or tell you how to wean yourself off the need for it. As it is, I'm personally unsure what you want.
    Get the fuck off my harbl, yo'.

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    I like KS_Stevia's ideas! Although, I was going to say hire a private dancer.
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    A guys gotta do what a guys gotta do. You will eventually figure out what is right for you.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sxcbbw View Post
    The reasons would be sort've relevant to any advice we could give, though.

    We could tell you where else to get your Hot Nubile Woman contact, or tell you how to wean yourself off the need for it. As it is, I'm personally unsure what you want.
    I need to wean and stop and move to a different phase in my life where young sexy attractive women are not the highest value.

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    Default Re: Withdrawal ):

    Here, this might help:

    www.stripclubjunkieanonymous.com

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    I need to wean and stop and move to a different phase in my life where young sexy attractive women are not the highest value.

    I'm sorry.
    My brain can not comprehend the meaning of this sentence.



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    Take up a male orientated hobby?
    Get the fuck off my harbl, yo'.

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    ahhahahahahaha to hb's link sorry i don't have any advice but i just had to add that that was funny as hell.
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    Everyman, there are some new hotties at your fav club. They need you. They want you.

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    As someone who has also cut back on his strip club visits my advice would be to find other things to keep you busy. You'll never find anything to replace the fawning attention of hot young sexy strippers. That is just the way it is. Find other things to do, reconnect with friends, date, etc.. etc. After awhile it did get better for me and the urge to go to the club in my free time is not so great anymore. I stayed out of the clubs for several months. A few months ago I started stopping by again but just only once a month or so instead of four or five times.

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    OP - So it's not SC withdrawal, it's babe deprivation. So get some babes.
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    we are all perverts in the SC in my opinion. Hes a pervert, you're a pervert, I'm a pervert.

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    Default Re: Withdrawal ):

    just do what Tiger Wood is doing, just lie low for awhile, and plan for your next round of depravity

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    ...three reasons everyman will go back> -1- -2- -3-

    (hehe, just joking).
    "Peter, did you take Stewie to a strip-club? He smells like sweat and fear." - Lois and Stewie (Family Guy) ... "Through early morning fog I see, Visions of the things to be, The pains that are withheld for me, I realize and I can see..."

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    Quote Originally Posted by jannisary View Post
    As someone who has also cut back on his strip club visits my advice would be to find other things to keep you busy. You'll never find anything to replace the fawning attention of hot young sexy strippers. That is just the way it is. Find other things to do, reconnect with friends, date, etc.. etc. After awhile it did get better for me and the urge to go to the club in my free time is not so great anymore. I stayed out of the clubs for several months. A few months ago I started stopping by again but just only once a month or so instead of four or five times.
    This is where I'm headed. All the time and money I was spending in there...I need to balance it out. It IS addicting, it seems, there's nothing like it.

    Stopped in yesterday for the first time in month and there were a couple of new hotties (good) and some hot old faves (better). AND (best)...my last fave no longer works there, she got out of the biz 2 weeks ago. My last act a month ago with her was the standard "you're better than this, you shouldn't be in here doing this" talk. I can only hope that was a seed for her decision to quit. (:

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    Nah, you'll see her back there in a couple of weeks.

    And I don't understand why custies say, "you're better than this" to strippers when they patronize these same strippers. Not really fair is it?

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    Quote Originally Posted by KS_Stevia View Post
    Nah, you'll see her back there in a couple of weeks.

    And I don't understand why custies say, "you're better than this" to strippers when they patronize these same strippers. Not really fair is it?
    I know this is blasphemy to SW pinks, who are all strong, confident, well-adjusted women who know exactly why they strip, but some non-SW strippers (and a lot of non-strippers), just need someone to believe in them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    This is where I'm headed. All the time and money I was spending in there...I need to balance it out. It IS addicting, it seems, there's nothing like it.

    Stopped in yesterday for the first time in month and there were a couple of new hotties (good) and some hot old faves (better). AND (best)...my last fave no longer works there, she got out of the biz 2 weeks ago. My last act a month ago with her was the standard "you're better than this, you shouldn't be in here doing this" talk. I can only hope that was a seed for her decision to quit. (:

    I think Ks Stevia is right, this white knight stuff is bullshit, and I go to all kinds of high contact clubs

    Too many people fall for the major media b.s. about the broken down drug addicted strippers, yes some are like that, but many are not, and the later category is what makes it so interesting for many of us. with hot girls just trying to do a job

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    SCs are nice places to visit but I don't want to live in them.
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    we are all perverts in the SC in my opinion. Hes a pervert, you're a pervert, I'm a pervert.

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    There is nothing dishonourable about being a stripper. It's not "beneath" anyone. Telling a dancer she's too good to dance, or "better than this", arises out of a customer's arrogance...or the delusion that the girl needs him to steer her right in life.

    A customer in the club feeling/expressing any sort of superiority over the dancers he deliberately went there to watch or interact with is ironic.

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    Quote Originally Posted by hockeybobby View Post
    There is nothing dishonourable about being a stripper. It's not "beneath" anyone. Telling a dancer she's too good to dance, or "better than this", arises out of a customer's arrogance...or the delusion that the girl needs him to steer her right in life.

    A customer in the club feeling/expressing any sort of superiority over the dancers he deliberately went there to watch or interact with is ironic.
    Clearly I disagree with this, but I also understand it's not a concept or a debate that's welcome on this board.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    I know this is blasphemy to SW pinks, who are all strong, confident, well-adjusted women who know exactly why they strip, but some non-SW strippers (and a lot of non-strippers), just need someone to believe in them.
    Oh please! You are paying them money to take their cloths off and grind on your lap (the strippers, not the non-strippers). Just get over yourself and, if you can't control your spending, stop going.
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    Double team! 2 latinas with big tits!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Oh please! You are paying them money to take their cloths off and grind on your lap (the strippers, not the non-strippers). Just get over yourself and, if you can't control your spending, stop going.
    Well, your last stmt is correct, and I am.

    But, sometimes you can't see the trees for the forest....90% of all strippers does not = all strippers. I specialize in the trees.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    Well, your last stmt is correct, and I am.

    But, sometimes you can't see the trees for the forest....90% of all strippers does not = all strippers. I specialize in the trees.
    So it's your little mission to find the hidden gems and lift them out of the gutter of stripping? This is why you are addicted to going to stripclubs?

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