I am about to have a meltdown. This will be epic, I can feel it. The RN program I am in gave us only 6 days to get our physicals and immunizations and this is in Bumfuck WV. I have no Dr here since I just moved back...finally found a place that would fit me in this morning at 9am 2 hrs away. So, I ask mom and she says no problemo watching the wee-ones.
I get up this morning, leave the kids in bed (we are staying at mom's) and head out at 6am. I get a call as I'm in with the Dr and let it go to VM. After my vac's they say to sit in the waiting room for 30 min to check for reactions and the nurse will tell me when I can leave. So I call my mom back and she starts screaming....I'm ready to leave, WHEN will you get back!?!? Uh, I dunno, I just got out of the Dr's office and it's only 10:15. She says she almost LEFT the house with the boys in bed!! I say I thought you could watch them and she just screams that she told me they were going to Beckley. Yeah, she did, she said they were going to look for a horn and whatever else Ty wanted for his bike I bought him yesterday....so I assumed she was taking him and E with her. Hell, she normally tries to insist they go with her anytime she goes anywhere (which is pretty rare)...has almost started fights with me over it when I've said no.
I assure her I'll be there asap, leave the Dr's office immediately, against the nurses instructions and rush back here. Get here and guess what? No parents, no kiddos. She apparently called my cell back about 10 min later, but I must have been in a no call zone and she didn't leave a message...if she would have, I would have gotten it and known I could go ahead and get the kids some summer clothes and grab a few other items I needed before driving back to bumfuck. But nope. Couldn't be that considerate. Couldn't even leave a note here....and she lied about when they left. I finally got her to answer her cell an hour after I got here and she claimed they had just left about 30 min ago. Nope, I was here then!
She told me she couldn't take the kids with her because she was going to be out till 9-10pm and that I had to rush back to get them, then turned around and immediately left. I checked with the busybody neighbor about what time she left.
It was bad enough to make the STBEX say he'd pay for an apartment because she's just fucking being a cunty bitch whenever possible. I know it's an inconvenience with us being here, but I HAD an apartment lined up and since she knew the owner, she blocked me from getting it, so I'd have to stay here!! I try REALLY hard to stay out of their way and to do as much as I can around here! Why tell me I can stay here and make me feel welcome if you are just going to make everyone miserable? I thought she was over this petty shit she did when I was in Jr High and High School.
Now, I realize that they are helping me a LOT by watching the kids while I'm in school. However, I'm paying for ALL our food, and everything else around the house. I pay for incidentals and give them a modest amount ($300ish/mo). I do all the housework and while they watch the kids for me, they don't do things like bath them, even on the nights where I get in around 7pm. I also do all the cooking for all of us. They are drunk every single night and won't stay out of my face while I do my homework or turn the TV down to a modest level that will allow the kids to sleep or me to concentrate while in the other room. Mom will occassionally sneak and "help out" while I'm doing a load of laundry and distracted bathing the kiddos or something and throw my cotton clothing in the dryer to shrink it...once with soap still on them, then acts apologetic and suprised that I don't dry CASHMERE or cotton in the dryer!! They are filthy pigs who never clean a damn thing, and they get MAD if I run the vacuum. They think it only needs ran every 6-8 weeks and I am going to "wear it out." I literally have to sneak and clean after they go to bed or when they are gone down the road. (I'm a neatnik who thinks the entire floor should be swept/mopped/vacuumed every single day, sometimes twice if needed.) They encourage my kids to stay up late, get pissed at me for having a bedtime and generally are fucktards in every sense of the word. They also stay up so late that I have to wait up till they pass out around midnight every night, then stay up till 2-3 am doing my homework.
The BIG problem tho?? There are NO 2 or 3 bedroom apartments available around here. Like NONE!! I just bought a paper and called every single listing...the ONLY things available at ANY price is a 1 bedroom efficiency, a 1-bed unfurnished and another 1-bed furnished. BOOO!!
I'm fucking pissed off!!!!



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