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    New-ish girl at our club, for some reason management loves this hoe bag. They even let her bartend and dance on the same night, and that's really just not fair because shes walking out with maybe more then double then money we make.

    Regardless, last week she gets fired for sucking dick in champagne, last night I see her with her hand down someone's pants, them making out, and him fingering her. So I told management because she didn't get fired after sucking dick, and this shit is just not fair. All of the other girls follow the rules back there, and one girl got caught getting fingered and she got fired, but this bitch can suck dick and still keep her job?

    The girl who told on her for sucking dick has a very notable and trustworthy regular, and afterwards the skank pulled brass knuckles on her for telling! ALSO, when I wasn't there one night my regular got a champagne from her and said she told him "You can do whatever you want to me, and I'll do whatever you want to you." I trust him.

    SO AM I IN THE WRONG FOR TELLING??

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    Hell no! im the biggest tadle tale when it comes to rule breakers, i hate rues breakers who dont get caught, its just the same as being undercut really, i always tell if i KNOW somethings happening and ive seen it more than once, in my personal opinion you are in your severe rights to tell! dont doubt it for a min, she would of told on you chick if u had been doing something against rules.

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    What the fuck. She must be sucking the managers dick if he's letting her get away with this. WHAT the hell. Kick up a huge stink about this.
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    Wait, she got fired last week and then rehired?

    If management doesn't want to do anything contact the owner or board of directors. If they refuse to handle the situation the make an anonymous report to the police station.
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    ^yeah i'm a little confused about the getting fired and then allowed to come back. i'm a tattle tale too...although in some clubs i've worked at they don't care cause extras are going down all over the place and all the clubs care about is money...but this club was breaking laws all over the place. in fact, i actually got 'fired' because i started arguing with management, i'm still tempted to report them for serving alcohol (it's a juice bar) and allowing sex to go on in the vip rooms. i've sort of given up on telling because a lot of clubs overlook it and don't do anything (guess that's la for you) but it sounds like your club is clean and i would still take it up with management...i don't think you're in the wrong at all.
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    Absolutely not. There's nothing wrong with telling. In fact, good managers encourage dancers to report any illegal activities.

    But keep yourself safe. This girl sounds completely out of control. If she learns that it was you who told, what's stopping her from attacking you in the club or the parking lot? You can't expect crazy, dirty bitches to behave honorably.

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    i know most of you would prob disagree but i would stay out of it. the managers are obviously involved, the more you are running around complaining about this, the more of a target you are for the managers to do some underhand shady shit, fuck you over with a customer or whatever because the managers are obviously getting paid if they are keeping her- she prob knows how to tip them VERY well for every client she gets. and most strip club managers are money hungry club pimps -upscale club or not, this is the stuff that goes on. i would mind my business, there are other ways to make money like being a great entertainer or great company at the club and if youre great at sucking dick and giving the managers up to 50% of your earnings (aka pimp) then kudos to you.

    yeah, this might give the club a bad rep- but what club do you know that was never accused of selling sex? and what club do you know doesnt attract men looking for sex?

    it sounds to me that you are really upset and you hate this bitch- but why let this girl be a threat to you? who cares? focus on you, your mind and most of all, your money. unless youre the cops or corporate, this is out of your control. just smile in those mfs faces (the managers) and be nice.

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    and the managers prob fired the other girl because they didn't get in on her money- she didnt play as one of their "favorites"

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    You are not in the wrong, but your "tattleling" is probably useless. She is obviously a favorite for some reason, you just don't know what the reason is. If mgmt is alerted to her behavior and they still do nothing, there is nothing you can do. Perhaps if enough girls complain about her, they MAY do something. What you regular told you is useless, and will just be considered heresay, even if it is true, so I wouldn't even bother telling them that.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post

    If management doesn't want to do anything contact the owner or board of directors.

    when i say management i meant the owner!!! i told him, and when she got fired she technically quit they were just gonna give her a warning.

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    i would just make sure you don't talk about it your telling to any of the other girls cause you don't want that girl coming after you. keep your lips zipped shut about telling...if that girl came after another girl with brass knuckles that should be a sign that she's got the crazies.
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    but when i told the owner/manager was "I was doing a champagne with xyz and i know that xxxslut was caught last week doing whatever she was doing, but tonight xyz and i saw her getting fingered, making out with so-so and her hands were down his pants. i really dont want to be brought into this because i know she pulled brass knuckles on 'cinnamon' and i just dont want to be brought up at all, especially after that. i just dont think its fair!"

    she was also fired from her last club bc this other dancer that she didnt get along with threw a roll of change at her on stage and she jumped off and beat her so bad with her stripper shoes that she got a concussion.

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    yikes...i'd steer clear of that crazy bitch...she sounds scuuuury!!!
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    Quote Originally Posted by ivygirl View Post
    but when i told the owner/manager was "I was doing a champagne with xyz and i know that xxxslut was caught last week doing whatever she was doing, but tonight xyz and i saw her getting fingered, making out with so-so and her hands were down his pants. i really dont want to be brought into this because i know she pulled brass knuckles on 'cinnamon' and i just dont want to be brought up at all, especially after that. i just dont think its fair!"

    she was also fired from her last club bc this other dancer that she didnt get along with threw a roll of change at her on stage and she jumped off and beat her so bad with her stripper shoes that she got a concussion.
    HOLY CRAP!

    Don't say anything else to the owner/manager or anyone at the club. That nasty ass bitch it is not only fucking crazy but somehow in w/ the owner ... she must be giving him or someone a hell of a $$ kickback and/or unlimited sex.

    Honey watch your back on this one. Leave it be.

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    it especially sucks because i almost got fired for some petty bullshit, someone told the owner that i was selling pills there - when i wasn't- and even though he had no proof i almost got fired. now that he has proof about her doing all this shit, with a few people saying so - she wasnt even threatened like i was.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ivygirl View Post
    she was also fired from her last club bc this other dancer that she didnt get along with threw a roll of change at her on stage and she jumped off and beat her so bad with her stripper shoes that she got a concussion.
    oh my god, are we working at the same club? i worked at a place in georgia, and this darling skank would brag about doing the same thing...she had 7 kids too and would go on and on about how she was a "good mother", and then go do lines with other darling skanks.
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    Not in the wrong at all. Honestly I don't care what people do.

    If I can see what they are doing and they are not discreet I will tell the manager.

    Honestly I haven't seen much because dancers are good at hiding that shit. So if I'm in the VIP and I can't see it, I don't know how a manager will.

    So no you're not in the wrong. Managers know what's up with certain girls but they can't see everything.




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    I don't think you are wrong, but seriously if you "tattle"; that puts a bullseye on YOUR back.

    Obviously the bitch is off her meds, so be careful. Not only that, but she's someone's fav (owner or mgmt), so that could put you in the position of being fired if they have a bad day; cause you will be in their thoughts if you bring it up.

    I would (if I were in your shoes anyway), let it be. As long as you can't get in ANY trouble for her actions, then it's not your concern.

    I know it sucks, but sometimes a ho is just a ho and you can't stop it or fix it, or do anything about it.
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    do as kylea2 advised.
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    no you were completely in the right.

    that being said, management is not going to help you. something fishy is obviously going on here.

    if you actually do work at a clean club (aside from this dirty girl of course) your best bet is to get all of the girls to gang up and drive her out. im not one for cliquiness, but if management isnt doing its job of taking out the trash, you guys have to take it out yourself. make it awful to work there for her. do all the things you shouldnt do as respectful strippers-- trash talk her to customers etc etc. normally i would say DONT do these things, but if she is legitimately the only bad apple and management is unwilling to help, then all you girls have to solve the problem yourselves.
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    Quote Originally Posted by ivygirl View Post

    SO AM I IN THE WRONG FOR TELLING??
    If you make too much fuss you will probably lose your job. Obviously management knows what she is doing and they are probably recieving a lot of money in pimp fees for allowing it. She is also probably having sex with who ever her main pimp is and possibly the other indirect pimps of the club.
    Prostitutes bring in way more money than any dancer no matter how good your sales skills are.

    If you feel like it might just be one or two new guys working at the club who are pimping, whether directly or indirectly, maybe you can talk to the manager. And that really depends on what type of person the manager is. Most managers just want that big pimping money too. It's pretty rare to find a real legit club manager. Usually when employees of the club start pimping girls it's time to find a new job.

    Another thing to consider is that she might be getting pimped as in she has no choice. This is nothing new in the world of stripping. There are lots of girls from foreign countries who are sex slaves and its really sad. If she is that violent there is a reason behind it. You should have sympathy for her. Most women who are pimped are under constant threat of being beat up or harm coming to their loved ones.

    Years ago, I actually talked to a girl from Russia who was being pimped and she was crying because she did not make her quota. She was crying because she was going to have to go out on the streets. She had already worked a full shift trying to earn her quota in the club. I told her that she could tell the cops and she could get help. It was so sad.

    Due to the fact that human trafficking has become so widespread over the last decade, there is a major world wide movement happening now to try to help the victims. The problem is starting to receive more attention from mainstream media. http://www.polarisproject.org/

    Obviously, if she has 7 kids, she has some real problems. Who can support 7 kids? If she is the victim of pimping, you have to realize that it takes a real sadistic, sociopath to do something like that. http://www.prostitutionresearch.com/...ks/000012.html
    Try not to be too judgemental with her and be very careful yourself.
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    Quote Originally Posted by loren View Post
    Obviously management knows what she is doing and they are probably recieving a lot of money in pimp fees for allowing it.
    They didnt know till the girls starting bringing it up. And our managers and owner are very legit people - it's a no bullshit club so thats just why im wondering why they still let her work there...? Especially considering at her last club she hated a girl who was sitting at her set with a guy bc the guy wanted to tip her and the girl was bitching, so she took off her stiletto and beat her bad. Otherwise, no pimps in this club, none of the girls have pimps - it's mostly a newbie club in a pretty rural town.

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    Quote Originally Posted by loren View Post
    If you make too much fuss you will probably lose your job. Obviously management knows what she is doing and they are probably recieving a lot of money in pimp fees for allowing it. She is also probably having sex with who ever her main pimp is and possibly the other indirect pimps of the club.
    Prostitutes bring in way more money than any dancer no matter how good your sales skills are.

    If you feel like it might just be one or two new guys working at the club who are pimping, whether directly or indirectly, maybe you can talk to the manager. And that really depends on what type of person the manager is. Most managers just want that big pimping money too. It's pretty rare to find a real legit club manager. Usually when employees of the club start pimping girls it's time to find a new job.

    Another thing to consider is that she might be getting pimped as in she has no choice. This is nothing new in the world of stripping. There are lots of girls from foreign countries who are sex slaves and its really sad. If she is that violent there is a reason behind it. You should have sympathy for her. Most women who are pimped are under constant threat of being beat up or harm coming to their loved ones.

    Years ago, I actually talked to a girl from Russia who was being pimped and she was crying because she did not make her quota. She was crying because she was going to have to go out on the streets. She had already worked a full shift trying to earn her quota in the club. I told her that she could tell the cops and she could get help. It was so sad.

    Due to the fact that human trafficking has become so widespread over the last decade, there is a major world wide movement happening now to try to help the victims. The problem is starting to receive more attention from mainstream media. http://www.polarisproject.org/

    Obviously, if she has 7 kids, she has some real problems. Who can support 7 kids? If she is the victim of pimping, you have to realize that it takes a real sadistic, sociopath to do something like that. http://www.prostitutionresearch.com/...ks/000012.html
    Try not to be too judgemental with her and be very careful yourself.
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