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    Question He wants private dance outside of club...

    Hello,
    I havent been working a week yet but I got a customer who enjoyed my stage set and lapdance and has offered me 300 to dance for about 3 hours for him outside the club though. Im a tad bit apprehensive i mean who wouldnt be? What do you ladies think yay or nay?

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    Default Re: He wants private dance outside of club...

    Nay... Why cant he pay you to dance for him in the club in the vip rooms? It just sounds a little fishy...

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    300 for 3 hours with the additional risk is not a fair price.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
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    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Nope. You make more in the VIP or CR in the club in a half hour, right? At least I make that in a CR for a half hour so I would never leave my club for such a small amount of $$$.

    Like Athena said, you need to also factor in the risk of leaving the club where there are no bouncers or security measures.
    If you were to do that you should charge much more then you would in a CR at your club per hour plus add in the risk factor charge.
    So, if you make $500/hr in a CR, charge more than that. Chances are he won't go for it and that's fine.

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    That's not NEARLY enough.... If he's willing to pay $300, why can't he get a private room with you at your club? Doesn't make sense. He's looking for something else. That's a big N-O.

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    Good point also, you should be making more than that for much less time in a private in the club... At least at mine for one hour we make $255 minimum.

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    yeah that sounds like bad news. 100 dollars per hour?? no way would that get me out of the club. double whatever a half hour would be plus some, for three hours it would probably be out of his price range...i would suspect he has ulterior motives if he's only willing to pay you 300 dollars for 3 hours. if he is willing to fork over more money, find someone to pay for security...cause this all sounds fishy and very very risky.
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    Quote Originally Posted by pdxslc View Post
    That's not NEARLY enough.... If he's willing to pay $300, why can't he get a private room with you at your club? Doesn't make sense. He's looking for something else. That's a big N-O.
    NAY! he's definitely looking for something else..

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    I always ask "Why can't we just dance here? What do you want that I can't give you here in the club?"

    Usually the answer is that they don't want "cameras watching" or they want to be able to "relax" with you.

    Euphemisms. In other words, they are looking for something you probably aren't willing to give them. And, even worse, you won't have the security to be able to enforce the $300/3 hour deal. What happens if he decides he doesn't want to pay you when you're done?

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    I've gotten that too- the whole "where are the cameras, i dont want cameras watching," blah blah. If they say that, what do you come back with to say to that to still get money out of him, but not compromise comfort levels? Last one i encountered I told him "you dont want an extras girl, god knows what disease they have, you have me right here.." but didnt work so well, and he ended up leaving after 1 dance.

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    This isn't even a money issue. Under no circumstances should you go anywhere in private with a customer from a club, for any amount of money.
    $300, by the way, is the current going rate for bottom dollar prostitution where I am from.

    Look at who is asking you. Even if he offered you $1500 do you really want to be in this person's house or hotel room alone? The reason this guy has to pay for sexual encounters is that he is inadequate in some way or a straight pervert.

    I'm not trying to be a hard ass, but you are new to the business and I just want to drill in the point. It is not worth your safety or your life and this is how you must look at it always. Is $300, $1000, $5000 worth your peace of mind? No. Money just isn't that important. Stay where you are protected.

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    don't meet customers outside of the club.

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    He sounds cheap! I'd say skip it. If he wants to pay you $300 per hour that might be a different story. Before you do it though call the local sheriff and ask what the laws are on private striptease, you may be required to have a license. Also, take another guy with you and a maglite in case you have problems. Have security go in with you, don't have them wait outside.
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    umm NO! don't meet with this guy,...it's obvious he has a "hidden agenda"

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    Quote Originally Posted by girlfromipanema View Post
    This isn't even a money issue. Under no circumstances should you go anywhere in private with a customer from a club, for any amount of money.
    $300, by the way, is the current going rate for bottom dollar prostitution where I am from.

    Look at who is asking you. Even if he offered you $1500 do you really want to be in this person's house or hotel room alone? The reason this guy has to pay for sexual encounters is that he is inadequate in some way or a straight pervert.

    I'm not trying to be a hard ass, but you are new to the business and I just want to drill in the point. It is not worth your safety or your life and this is how you must look at it always. Is $300, $1000, $5000 worth your peace of mind? No. Money just isn't that important. Stay where you are protected.
    Agree.
    Especially because you are new, they WILL try and take advantage of you.
    Keep it in the club. Don't give out your number. And don't think "this guys safe" or the money will be worth it. The risk is insane and why bother when you can come to the club, be secure, and make good money? Work hard, save your money, and don't let these men try and take advantage of you. Because they WILL. You have the upperhand in the club. The second you leave with them, they have the power. And you are at risk.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sunshine16 View Post
    I've gotten that too- the whole "where are the cameras, i dont want cameras watching," blah blah. If they say that, what do you come back with to say to that to still get money out of him, but not compromise comfort levels? Last one i encountered I told him "you dont want an extras girl, god knows what disease they have, you have me right here.." but didnt work so well, and he ended up leaving after 1 dance.
    If there are no cameras, you say that. There are no cameras! This is a dance club, for entertainment and fun! It's just you and me! *Wink* Now lets go, let me have my way with you!

    If there are cameras, say its only a safety precaution and no one is watching them to see that he is enjoying himself, only for your (the dancers) safety. The club wouldn't risk their business with the videos, it's just to make sure the girls are safe.

    If they press this they just want to be dirty. Bottom line. This is not the type of customer you want anyway. Time to move to the next.

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    My club charges $400 an hour INSIDE the club... NO WAY would I do three hours for that price.
    It's not really worth the safety risk anyway... but DEFINATELY not at that price. Lol.
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    You've been dancing less than a week and you're considering OTC and not even getting what you're worth? Sweetie, bad idea all around. You should be able to make that amount of money without having to put yourself at risk. Honestly you shouldn't even be thinking about this. He knows you're new and he's looking to take advantage. Stay ITC til you at the very least know what you're doing, and even then I'd stay ITC.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Christyismyalias View Post
    If there are no cameras, you say that. There are no cameras! This is a dance club, for entertainment and fun! It's just you and me! *Wink* Now lets go, let me have my way with you!

    If there are cameras, say its only a safety precaution and no one is watching them to see that he is enjoying himself, only for your (the dancers) safety. The club wouldn't risk their business with the videos, it's just to make sure the girls are safe.

    If they press this they just want to be dirty. Bottom line. This is not the type of customer you want anyway. Time to move to the next.
    hmm i dont think advertising the lack of cameras is a good idea. i like being able to tell cusotmers that there are cameras in the CR (even if there are not) in case they get a bit out of hand.

    although your line of explaining the cameras is good.

    i usually giggle and say i dont know. and then try to change the subject. surprisingly, i dont get asked this question all that much.
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    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    hell no!!! since youre new, men want to take advantage of you. 300 aint shit. stay in the club.

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    and besides, he wants to fondel you- you realy think youre gonna just dance for him?? why cant he give that to you in the club??

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    plus, my club charges $500 VIP inside the club! i cant believe you even thought twice about this! you have to take charge of these men, they know youre new dont let them take advantage of you and baby, you are worth WAYYYY MORE THAN $300!! the only thing that would make me think twice about meeting someone outside the club is $5 GRAND!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    hmm i dont think advertising the lack of cameras is a good idea. i like being able to tell cusotmers that there are cameras in the CR (even if there are not) in case they get a bit out of hand.

    although your line of explaining the cameras is good.

    i usually giggle and say i dont know. and then try to change the subject. surprisingly, i dont get asked this question all that much.
    I agree - I ALWAYS say there are cameras. It cuts down on the BS guys try to pull.
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