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    I just walked through the club that I was thinking of audition at, and I'm so intimidated! I only saw 2 girls - the place was pretty dead as it was 6:00pm - but they were both hot. I think.

    I mean, I only glanced at them for a few seconds. I'm staying in a hotel above the club, and you have to go down to the club to pick up room service meals (odd, I know). So I went to pick up mah chicken sammich and side salad, and tried to check out the dancers while being casual. I only got a few glances.

    Maybe it's just my mind playing tricks on me and they aren't actually Jezebelle/supermodels. Perhaps it's just my nerves making me think they're super hot and I can't compete. I've never been so insecure about my looks before, but suddenly I feel like a giant troll....the one girl working the floor was like, 5 foot even. I'm 5'7"! Perhaps I should chop off my feet.....that'll take me down a few inches.....


    I gotta grow a damn back bone. Anyone else ever feel like this?



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    First time I went up to audition I had the same exact thing happen. The girls I saw were literally stunning, and I called my ex husband up and said that I didn't think I was gonna make the cut because they had super models working at this club. I wound up being a top earner there for the last several years. Don't underestimate yourself. You'll find it's a huge injustice.
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    Default Re: SO intimidated....

    Remember "the grass is always greener on the other side"... i.e. when you start there's a good chance that 5'0 dancer is going to be wishing she were taller.

    Honestly, you never know until you try. Just get yourself in there and audition!
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    Default Re: SO intimidated....

    Thanks girls, that made me feel a lot better actually. I sent off an e-mail to the manager asking for an audition. I'm excited and nervous at the same time! Hopefully I won't be on supermodel shift my first night!



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    Default Re: SO intimidated....

    super model or not, guys like variety, and personality plays a part too, dont be intimidated by drop dead gorg dancers, i learnt not to, concentrate on yourself and be happy excited and make guys want to take you for a few dances.

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    Default Re: SO intimidated....

    Trust me, 7" heels and strippertastic outfits + stripper hair + stripper makeup can make anyone seem intimidating!! You probably just felt out of place because you weren't all stripperfied!

    Remember, it can be a very good thing if your club develops a reputation for having all beautiful women. It attracts better clientele (generally).

    And I'm 5'7" as well and wear 6.5" platforms proudly!

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    Default Re: SO intimidated....

    hell with your heels on and your make-up all done up, you will be supermodel status. just strut your stuff like you are a supermodel...fake it till you make it! don't psyche yourself out, you'll do great!! and make lots of moolah...sending out positive money vibes to you.

    eta: i'm 5'9 and wear 6 inch platforms, just because one girl is a little shorty doesn't mean you wont have guys who love tall girls, or have a fetish for long legs. plus, i find myself dancing for short men more-so than tall men, i guess it's that factor, they can't get a tall woman irl, so they get one itc
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    Default Re: SO intimidated....

    Aw! Thanks everyone! I'm going to have to agree. I went back down and checked it out again last night (this time for longer) - def. not all supermodels, and I know once I'm in makeup and costume I'll hold my own just fine! Going to go all out with the 'fake it till you make it' vibe. Hottest girl in the club, Yeehaw!

    I'm hired, and I think my first shift at this new place will be tomorrow. I'll let ya'll know how it goes! It's weird, I didn't even have to dance or take off my clothes to get hired. Oh well.

    Quote Originally Posted by rubyredlipsss View Post

    eta: i'm 5'9 and wear 6 inch platforms, just because one girl is a little shorty doesn't mean you wont have guys who love tall girls, or have a fetish for long legs. plus, i find myself dancing for short men more-so than tall men, i guess it's that factor, they can't get a tall woman irl, so they get one itc
    This is probably really true - short men have a complex. If they can get a taller girl to dance for them, it makes them feel better about the fact that they're short. Like they can still 'handle' a taller woman. Ugh, men are so weird....
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    Thats why I havent been back yet
    I need to grow a back bone too!!

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