Ok ladies, I have a scenario which is pissing me off and I need help. I have a new customer who has been in twice this week to see me and is coming back tonight. He is a very nice man, very wealthy ( multiple cars, homes, island, boats, etc) and we get along great. The problem is that he isn't being soo generous at the club and I don't know how to handle the situation. I feel like I'm in "regular" person mode and not " hustling dancer" mode with him. He reeeally wants me to go to dinner with him, and implies he will be more generous if I do. And I know he is only looking for dinner company, nothing more. But he gave me $50 less in the CR because the wallet was in the car, and last night he had only $150 CAN ( I'm in Canada) and said he would come back tonight too see me again...he owed me $280.I don't get it...he talks on and on about all the stuff he owns, but he seems to think I'm gonna rip him off or maybe just doesn't really want to pay for my company ( " Was that the first song? But it started 10 secs ago..does this count?" Of Fucking Christ!!!! You are a millionaire!!!!
I want to handle this with "kid gloves" because I think he could be a really good custy, but am I just hoping that it will pan out instead of looking at the facts ie he has paid me less than what I am truely owed? And what do I do about being asked out to dinner? I told him I would think about it, but he is very insistant and won't let up...but the facts are he hasn't knocked my socks off with big spending at the club. I imagine he would get pissy if I told him I wanted to get paid to be a dinner date, since I think he wants it to be a real date.
Do I just tell him what my expectations are and if I lose him , so be it? It may be easier than dealing with this frustration. I just thought I finally found a cool rich custy to play the game with like all the other girls at my club. They are so bossy, pushy and obnoxious yet guys seems to just throw money at them!
*sigh* Any advice would be awesome ladies...
LT



I don't get it...he talks on and on about all the stuff he owns, but he seems to think I'm gonna rip him off or maybe just doesn't really want to pay for my company ( " Was that the first song? But it started 10 secs ago..does this count?" Of Fucking Christ!!!! You are a millionaire!!!!
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