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    Default how do i turn a dinner date into a CR?

    okay, so a customer of mine (very sweet, excellent tipper) emailed me recently to ask if i would be interested in going to dinner with him, he would be in dallas on buisness.

    he wants to take me to a VERY white-tablecloth-super-expensive seafood restaurant.

    i don't mind going to dinner with him, as long as he pays me. how do i politely let him know that i won't be going to dinner with him for less than $200/hr?

    he's only in town for two days, i have half a mind to tell him i'm in school both thurs and fri, then at the day job till 9, so it would be a little late for dinner, but he could come into the club for dessert? what's a nice/sexy way to phrase that?
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    Default Re: how do i turn a dinner date into a CR?

    You could tell him that you're really tied up w school and work and that you really need to make money BUT instead of going into work to make money, maybe you could take work outside and have dinner...

    omg that sounds so bad, but you see where i'm going with this? i don't go out w customers so i'm bad at this sorta thing, but another girl who i used to know who did go out w them basically said something like this and it really worked well.

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    Default Re: how do i turn a dinner date into a CR?

    You need to check your local laws first before you going trying this. Legally speaking escorting means accepting money for your time as a companion... such as a date, and you need to be licensed in Dallas.

    "Escort means a person who, for consideration, agrees or offers to act as a companion, guide or date for another person or who agrees or offers to privately model lingerie or to privately perform a striptease for another person."
    Source: Sec. 10-82. Definitions http://library7.municode.com/default...ction=whatsnew
    I'd suggest not accepting the offer at all and telling him that if he wants to come see you that would be great, but you need to keep it in the club. If he's insistent on taking you out tell him he'll need to pay for your escort license and for your time (about time & a half of what the CR costs or more).

    Also know that if you start seeing customers outside the club and your manager/boss catches wind of it, don't expect them to be to happy. With the exception of managers who get a cut for these sort of dates and introductions, most of them see it as a threat to the club because you are taking away the potential for them to have a share of what this guy is spending. That could also mean putting your job at risk.
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    Default Re: how do i turn a dinner date into a CR?

    i would suggest not meeting customers outside of the club. if he really wants to see you, he will come into the club. and if you're going to get paid regardless, it would be worth it to go in if he is going to come in to see you.

    when you meet customers OTC, you lose control over the relationship. you are not dating. why should you go out on a date with him?

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    Default Re: how do i turn a dinner date into a CR?

    Another reason not to see him out of the club: If you meet him for dinner and entice him into the club afterward, your time commitment would be upwards of 4 hours (or more). It gives you both a greater chance of becomming tired of each other.

    I don't know about you, but I found that after two hours with the same customer, I was ready for a new one. Multiple hours of entertaining the same person became more of an effort mentally with each passing minute. In the club, his time spent with you will be limited to the amount in his wallet (or credit card). Keep yourself refreshed and him wanting more...

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    Default Re: how do i turn a dinner date into a CR?

    Quote Originally Posted by PinkMinx View Post
    Another reason not to see him out of the club: If you meet him for dinner and entice him into the club afterward, your time commitment would be upwards of 4 hours (or more). It gives you both a greater chance of becomming tired of each other.
    the last time he saw me, he asked for a dance about 7 pm (right when i came in) and didn't leave my side till the lights came on, i'm not really concerned about being bored. lol.

    but everyone else, thanks for the advice. kylea2, i had no idea i needed an escort license to do that.

    regardless, my work schedule (for my day job) doesn't let me out till nine thursday and friday, so i will just tell him that, and if he wants to meet me at the club for late night cuddles and dessert, he can. (and if he wants to come see me at work and buy me some new shoes he can do that too!! )
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