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    Hi- I work in a nude club. Not used to the at least 50% asian/indian tech company clientele at all. I'm used to rich white guys/hispanic/white blue-collar/gangster pro-sports black guys. Not stereotyping- thats just a GENERAL idea of what I'm used to.

    Have never had to hustle asian/indians who don't speak very good english, or who do speak it but seem shy about being in a nude club. They come in in groups or pairs, sometimes still in their work clothes, so it is obvious they have money from the companies they work for. They either sit at the stage, expressionless and tip $1-3/song or just sit at the bar and talk quietly amongst themselves and watch and order non-alcoholic bar. Can't get them drunk to loosen them up because it's a non-alcohol club.

    Here's how I approach an indian guy:

    Hi, I'm ***, Welcome to **** club! How's your day going?/Are you having fun?/I like your shirt/tie/glasses/You're really cute. Then begin open ended convo (no yes/no answers). Ask them if they'd like to come get a private show with me, it's ONLY $40! but for you since you're so cute/nice/it's your first time, I'll give you a special deal!. (the special deal is $5 off)

    The indian guys reply:

    "Can I touch your boobies?". I say NO, but you can see my (whispered) pussy
    "Tell me about special deal" I tell them, but they still say maybe later, or my favorite, "are you working tomorrow? I come tomorrow"
    "maybe later"

    The asian guys reply:

    "no, no, not now"
    "maaaybe layta"
    "I'm just watching"

    ugh. so hard to sell. I have better rapport with the indian guys because I know a lot about their culture, they tell me their name and I go , ohh that means ____ right? and they get excited that I know. The asian guys seem to HATE me. I'm a 5'6 athletic C cup round booty olive skinned girl. I wear classic lingerie at work, I don't do any kind of extreme look... I try to appeal to all types.

    help???

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    Default Re: How to hustle possibly non-english speaking wealthy indians/asians??

    Look into www.Stripandgrowrich.com

    You need to pin point the individual types of guys, not try to use the same sales approach with all of them.
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    eh. they're generally a waste of time. they go to the clubs a lot and do the same thing every time. they know there are dances. they know the club doesn't pay us. they don't care.

    with indian guys, they will ask you out. that's the best you can get out of them. maybe a single dance if you talk to them for 30 minutes and tell them that you don't take them seriously because they haven't gotten any dances. and they aren't about to pay you for the date either. they think you are looking for a man to support you, however meagerly they are willing to do this, in exchange for sexual slavery.

    waste of time.

    asian guys, again, waste of time. where they are from, sex can be purchased cheaply. they don't want a lapdance.

    occasionally there'll be tourists or young asian men here on some brief business trip. the ones who speak english fairly well sometimes will get a dance.

    but generally they are a total waste of time.
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    ^ I've found this to be true much of the time, but not all of the time. Are other girls getting dances from guys that have turned you down? If they are, this is a sign that you need to work on your hustle and take Kylea's advice - use different methods on different guys according to cues, such as their body language.

    If these guys are getting dances from other girls and not you, do the other girls have a certain type of look to them? Do they do things differently than you? Do they spend more time sitting, do they approach the men more sensually?

    I've found that most guys who sit and tip are at least good for 1 lapdance, even though it may be a challenge to talk them into it.

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    Default Re: How to hustle possibly non-english speaking wealthy indians/asians??

    I have the secret to getting dances with east Indian patrons. They love me!




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    Quote Originally Posted by she sells sanctuary View Post
    eh. they're generally a waste of time. they go to the clubs a lot and do the same thing every time. they know there are dances. they know the club doesn't pay us. they don't care.

    with indian guys, they will ask you out. that's the best you can get out of them. maybe a single dance if you talk to them for 30 minutes and tell them that you don't take them seriously because they haven't gotten any dances. and they aren't about to pay you for the date either. they think you are looking for a man to support you, however meagerly they are willing to do this, in exchange for sexual slavery.

    waste of time.

    asian guys, again, waste of time. where they are from, sex can be purchased cheaply. they don't want a lapdance.

    occasionally there'll be tourists or young asian men here on some brief business trip. the ones who speak english fairly well sometimes will get a dance.

    but generally they are a total waste of time.


    I have to massively disagree. They have the most money usually. If you are their type they will spoil the hell out of you. I would know from personal experience. Almost all of the money I ever made while stripping was from Indians and Asians.

    They really don't need to be hustled, honestly. If they like you a whole lot they will throw their money at you.





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    Default Re: How to hustle possibly non-english speaking wealthy indians/asians??

    a lot of the ones who 'dont speak english' really do, and are actually just pretending not to to try to play stupid when it comes to spending money and keeping their hands to themselves.

    i play stupid right back. i shrug smile and physically take their hand and point in the direction of the LD area while nodding my head. if they hint at extras i ignore it and keep pointing and nodding. and of course get money up front. then when they are grabby, which they almost always are, they cant bitch when i make them sit on their hands.

    i usually dotn waste my time with these guys. they are more trouble than they are worth. i quickly do the aforementioned thing, and if that fails i move on. one of the things i dislike about this job is it has caused me to profile certain demographics... one of those demographics is older indian men. it is very rare that an older indian man has treated me with respect.
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Default Re: How to hustle possibly non-english speaking wealthy indians/asians??

    Its always good to know a little bit of another language.
    Maybe how to say Hello.

    Japanese: Konichiwa. Onamae desu ka. ( Good Afternoon, What is your name?)
    Guys my find it a little sexy!

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    Default Re: How to hustle possibly non-english speaking wealthy indians/asians??

    Asian guys like girls who are pale, thin and generally beautiful, (like a 10) and being half asian always helps. They are picky. The culture isn't into tanning really. So they might not be interested if you are tanned or have excess weight. INdian guys like anything some like pretty girls and others like girls who are a bit larger too. Best way to hustle them is by body language if they don't speak english, just get straight to the point.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Stripper Hacks View Post
    I have the secret to getting dances with east Indian patrons. They love me!
    What is the secret???

    ^it seems that the only girls who get dances with the asians are tan blondes with big boobs... so I gotta discredit that thin, pale idea about them.

    I don't think it's my hustle, early in the night it's 90 percent asians/indians (before 10 and I get there at 6:30). I might get one or two dances in this time period if i'm lucky. Pretty much the same for everyone else... some girls who are really good hustlers go get more dances from them, but the majority of girls just sit and wait around for other customers to come in.

    I still have no idea how to hustle them.

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    Remember that these cultures tend to like what they don't have. Asian's will generally go for a blonde with big boobs before a brunette but not always. I did well with Asians and I'm not blonde nor are my boobs huge lol.





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    I dont stereotype people. If a guy likes you he will spend $$$ on you. I see a lot of girls at the club complain "oh those guys are a waste of time" in the dressing room, then I'll go out there and get dances from those very same guys. I never dismiss certain types of men, I look at everyone as individuals. I think girls who do this really hold themselves back.

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    ^^That doesn't always work for all of us though. While it is a smart idea not to generalize in that environment, the truth is some girls just work best with certain types of guys. I made money from all types of different men but I always did best with ethnic men.

    It's not the dancers that have a type of guy they go to, they just learn to pick up what type they are to certain men.





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    Quote Originally Posted by jasmine22 View Post
    I dont stereotype people. If a guy likes you he will spend $$$ on you. I see a lot of girls at the club complain "oh those guys are a waste of time" in the dressing room, then I'll go out there and get dances from those very same guys. I never dismiss certain types of men, I look at everyone as individuals. I think girls who do this really hold themselves back.
    I can't totally disagree with this, but from my perspective avoiding customers who have a higher probability of upsetting me benifits me more in the long run. Keeping myself happy increases my earnings far more than being able to hustle every type of customer. That's just my 2 cents.
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    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Quote Originally Posted by exotica268 View Post
    If these guys are getting dances from other girls and not you, do the other girls have a certain type of look to them?
    yes. they look high as fuck and willing to do things that i am not willing to do.

    Quote Originally Posted by pixierocksonthepole View Post
    I have to massively disagree. They have the most money usually. If you are their type they will spoil the hell out of you. I would know from personal experience. Almost all of the money I ever made while stripping was from Indians and Asians.

    They really don't need to be hustled, honestly. If they like you a whole lot they will throw their money at you.
    i agree they have the most money. that said, it's rare that i've seen any of them ever spend very much in my club. on me or anybody else. they'll go back for a dance here or there maybe. occasionally, a girl who looks/is incredibly fucked up will get one into the champagne room. but that's about it.

    they've offered me money to meet them for lunch. but i'm not going to do that. judging from how stingy they are in the club, they'd probably hand me a 5 and think they were being generous.

    Quote Originally Posted by Isis Star View Post
    it seems that the only girls who get dances with the asians are tan blondes with big boobs... so I gotta discredit that thin, pale idea about them.
    tan, blonde, big boobs. sounds like me.

    just for the record, i have done ok with younger, more westernized asians. but if they go to stripclubs in my area, they do not come to my club very often.

    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    I can't totally disagree with this, but from my perspective avoiding customers who have a higher probability of upsetting me benifits me more in the long run. Keeping myself happy increases my earnings far more than being able to hustle every type of customer. That's just my 2 cents.
    this. dealing with cheap assholes that might i might be able to pry money out of if i jump through all the right hoops...it puts me in a shitty mood. then if i do meet a guy who actually would spend, i end up saying something snarky to him and walking away. just not worth it.
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    Personally, I find middle eastern & asian men relatively easy to sell to. I would agree that having the look they like has a lot to do with it, but if you use the techniques in Strip & Grow Rich you can sell them off personality as well.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Isis Star View Post

    ^it seems that the only girls who get dances with the asians are tan blondes with big boobs... so I gotta discredit that thin, pale idea about them.

    I get dances from asian men and I have dark hair and small boobs. Everyone is an individual and has different likes and dislikes.

    If you went to India and tried to buy something, but didn't speak the language how would you buy it? It would help to have someone who was genuine and nice to you help show you how to understand right? If he was very nice to you, even if u didnt fully understand him, would u be more likely to buy something from him.....?

    I honestly think that being friendly and nice, showing a genuine interest in these guys, will be a great way to get them to spend $$$. IF they really can't speak English at all, then do what Athena said earlier lol, I mean as long as your nice and not being pushy u know?

    Now, if they are assholes to you.....thats probably just who they are and the $$ isn't worth it anyway. If anyone thinks that's bad advice fine but its always worked for me.

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    The east indians who come to my club in groups- not the "westernized" young guys, but guys who were clearly either born in India or raised in a traditional culture- are very grabby and rude, holding on to my arm very tightly. They also try to negotiate dance prices down from $30 to $10. I have given up on talking to them.

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    Being an Asian girl, I might have a little insight on this. In general, Asians who live in Asia are harder to sell because like you said, sex is cheap. However, I speak Chinese which makes breaking the ice a little easier. Learning a few phrases in Chinese, Japanese or Korean helps.

    They mostly do 20 dances or 3 for 100. The more English they speak, the more easier it will be to hustle for more. Many Asians want to get a dance from a white girl (since they are rare in Asia) but are too shy to approach. Being more friendly and less aggressive can make them feel at ease. American and European born Chinese guys from Canada, Coastal cities and Japanese older gents rock!

    Indian guys are generally demanding (grabby) and like to bargain. The business language is English so that isn't usually a problem. Generally, the more educated they seem, the better prospects they are. Just be prepared for the potential octopus hands...

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    I've always wondered how do asian men feel about black women? I rarely sell to them but every other ethnicity I have no problem with. Any tips?
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    Quote Originally Posted by cocoabuttasaki View Post
    Its always good to know a little bit of another language.
    Maybe how to say Hello.

    Japanese: Konichiwa. Onamae desu ka. ( Good Afternoon, What is your name?)
    Guys my find it a little sexy!
    when I lived in guam I cant even count how many damn tikmes Ive said this.

    AND IT WORKS!! I would also say: Scabbi boy! or Scabbi student 0r scabbi sensay...didnt spell these right but yes.
    Scabi means pervert translated but in their cluture its kinda like saying naughty.

    Chippo means tip too!

    NOTE: IT IS VERY IMPORTANT TO FIGURE OUT WHAT TIME OF ASIANS THEY ARE FIRST IE. KOREAN, CHINESE, JAPANESE ETC....DONT WANNA OFFEND ANY ONE!

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    I usually have trouble selling to asians, they straight up say no later and all that and then try to keep me there for long as possiable. I stopped dancing to them.. In the nude club I work at they seem to think nipples are damn radio buttons! In the end most of them asked what I will do for them in the VIP other than dance.

    As for indians.. I also dont go up to them, I only danced to one indian guy that was respectful and did not touch nor ask for anything. The rest, even some of the 30s age ones who were born here, kept on talking to me, until I left thats when they asked me for a dance and only (1-2) then kept me with them asking me out or to be their girlfriend. I do think they tend to go towards, blonde girls, the girls at my club that were blonde were always the ones that were approach by them. I usually find indians cheap, grabby (oh very grabby) they always think they can touch my pussy until I pull their hand away they complain and say its a waste of money.

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    It's funny that you mention this because a few months ago, when I was selling cars, my brother in law who is my sales manager came in to work one day raving about a book that analyzed negotiation styles in three different cultures...those just happened to be Western, Far East Asian and South Indian. I'm not saying that I would go out and buy this book to solve this problem, just that it's nice to verify that yes, there are unique struggles in selling to people of different backgrounds than our own, so much so that someone could write a thesis on it!
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