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    Default Pulib announcement because people have full inboxes.

    I'm sorry, I am not justifying what nolamanager said, but you ( and you know who you are) have NO RIGHT to speak about MY MARRIAGE that way. You have NO IDEA how he is with me, only a limited amount of information via a forum. So please REFRAIN from trashing my marriage when you really have no fucking clue. I will not tolerate being publicly humiliated and railed like that, because despite the fact that your post was aimed at him, it also directly affects me. Do not embarrass and insult me if you don't know me in real life as many here do.

    I wouldn't normally do this, but I am so mad I could spit.

    By the way, he is a brilliant, doting husband who does the world for me and means the world to me, and I couldn't be happier. So get fucked.

    JH.

    And yes, I misspelled "Public" because I was so angry and now I can't fix it.
    Last edited by mediocrity; 04-26-2010 at 01:14 AM. Reason: ANGER.

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    =( i hate when people try to judge other people's lives when they have no clue what's going on.

    med, it may not be traditional, but traditional doesn't work for everyone!!!

    i fell madly in love with my boyfriend after just a few days, and vice versa. so i know how that goes.

    if you're happy, i'm happy for you. =) best of luck to you and your hubs.

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    ^^ I appreciate your love and support. <3

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    Love is not equal to time ... love is love ... it can just happen like that for those that are lucky! You two enjoy your honeymoon time

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    Jesus. I have met so many people that got married crazy early, and are still together - they're usually the parents of my friends, or my grandparents. We're talking within 3 months of meeting, here. My grandparents' golden anniversary was last year.

    Okay, breakfast had.

    Unless one partner is in any way being abusive - and I said "being", not seeming - no one has the right to criticise a relationship, in my opinion. If ABC works for you, but XYZ works for someone else? Don't go off on one about XYZ, because it's not your relationship and you don't have to be the one putting up with XYZ.

    I get total strangers, and for a while friends as well, slamming my relationship into the ground for things like meeting via 4chan (oh no! He must be a rapist! omg!11), living on the other side of town (oh no! He must be shifty!), travelling (oh no! He must be bangin' all kinds of bitches when he's not at home!) and I'm like what. the. fuck. Where the hell do people that have never met him get off on telling me, his partner of 2 years, what kind of person he is? And do you know what I do? I get pissed off, and I rant and yell about all his good points as if that'd change some close-minded bigoted cunt's mind. This is a mistake I make.

    Mrs. J - don't waste your breath. Point the naysayers in the direction of the nearest remedial minding your own business class, and get back to enjoying married life with someone you (and you are the only important person here) KNOW is right for you.
    Last edited by sxcbbw; 04-26-2010 at 03:02 AM.
    Get the fuck off my harbl, yo'.

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    Med,

    There's a lot of marriages where they do everything 'right' before marriage. They spend years together, plan everything, get married, then get divorced.

    Then there's a lot of marriages where they do the opposite of the 'right' things (which doesn't mean they're wrong), and they spend eternity together.

    But for a while... this will be your husband and your weak spot, and when someone is angry they'll try to throw it back in your face. Hell, one day at my day job I told my 40ish co worker that me any my boyfriend, whom I've lived with for 8 years and spent the last 9 years dating, that we're very happy. She told me 'yea, that'll all change.'

    Some people exist to try to tear down your happiness. Don't let them.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Lexi_Girl View Post
    Hell, one day at my day job I told my 40ish co worker that me any my boyfriend, whom I've lived with for 8 years and spent the last 9 years dating, that we're very happy. She told me 'yea, that'll all change.'

    Some people exist to try to tear down your happiness. Don't let them.
    Oh how I wish haters could be banished from the planet!

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    ^I fuckin' loooove GivesMeHope.
    Get the fuck off my harbl, yo'.

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    Med,

    Jealousy plays a big part in other people 'dissing' those who find happiness in unusual ways. It's just not worth you wasting your breath and energy over someone who can't see the good side of things, and who doesn't even know either of you two.

    So what if you and your husband have only known each other for a short time? I met my husband when he rescued me after I got my car stuck in the mud in the local woods. We were SOO attracted to each other we 'made out' over the hood of the car there and then. We were married inside 8 weeks.

    That was 22 years ago..........and we're still blissfully happy together.

    You go girl, I wish you every joy and happiness that marriage can bring!!
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    If you are referring to me, I am sure as shit not jealous of this marriage. Or anything that either of these people have now, or ever will have.

    I am enforcing the rules of the forum.

    The rules say, thanking people for saying 'shut up' is not allowed. Enforcing that rule brought on this little shitstorm.

    Here is the post that started the problem:

    um. they havent been together very long, have they? i mean, wasnt it only a month or two ago that mediocrity got stood up on a date with a friend? shouldnt they both consider getting to know each other better? its a traffic-filled road to divorce court...so many people these days that end up gettin divorced, if taking more time can prevent that, why not?
    While posting this in a thread about the wedding might demonstrate the same level of politeness I have observed from both the newlyweds towards others in the forum (actually, rather more of it), it is not unreasonable to ask whether marrying someone they've known three days is really a great idea.

    Because neither of the newlyweds could handle reading that simple little dissenting opinion on the internet, we have all of this bullshit. Which leads me to have very little confidence in a successful outcome.
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