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    So I have this close friend of mine, that seems to copy alot of stuff that I do (Belly piercing, my fringe, music I'm into, makeup etc)

    Well, recently since I've been stripping, she suddenly takes interest and wants to do stripping too! To top it all off she wants to work with me in my club... And told me about this stagename that's verrry similar to mine.

    It's kind of irritating me. She's very close to me and all... How do I hint at her nicely to quit copying me??!

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    Default Re: Copy Cat Friend...

    Be better than her. Once it's found that she pales in comparison to you, maybe she'll get tired of being the lame imitation and stop copying you.

    Either that or, I dunno, stop being so freaking awesome?

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    Default Re: Copy Cat Friend...

    If you're going to be a dancer get used to copy cats.




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    Mmmm true I guess...!

    Thanks girlies

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    Default Re: Copy Cat Friend...

    Be flattered!! Obviously she considers you a very good friend and considers you as somewhat of a fashion symbol.
    Also, about her working at the club with you, tell her she should hell yall could do the twin thing lol, just tell her that her stage name is really close to yours and people may not be able to distinguish her as a individual!!

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    Imitation is the best form of flattery. But it seems that she's turning to you for guidance. As if she doesn't know what she wants to do with her life or herself and she thinks "oh well, since she's happy and successful, if I do what she does, I will be too!" One could go as far to say that she's afraid to live and will only try things that she knows won't bring her failure, and because you've succeeded, OBVIOUSLY she will too!

    Only thing I can think of is let her do it, and let her fail. OR. You can make a joke about it one day saying something like "so that's why you're always copying me." Maybe she'll get the hint. Or even start copying her. Only for a short while, till she's irritated by herself(you) and finds someone "cooler" to copy.

    Or you could be bitchy and say "I think you need therapy." But that's if you don't really like her. (Close doesn't always mean she'd be a bridesmaid. )
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    Default Re: Copy Cat Friend...

    "imitation is a form of flattery"

    yeah but its annoying as shit! get rid of her, shes not a real person therefore a real friend. imitators are losers. its going to be even worse when you guys are dancing at the same club, shes gonna be following you around and more than likely entertaining YOUR customers.

    the real money is giving men one on one time, being intamate, making him feel special, if you have that annoying [email protected]$% in the background, she ruined it for you.

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    ^^^^ Remember she said that she was a close friend. It's not going to be that easy. True that's the answer that we're all thinking. And probably the only answer that benefits JUST HER. But she is a person, despite her lack of original qualities.
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    Default Re: Copy Cat Friend...

    Thing is, she reads this site. So she's probably got things a bit sorted for when she starts >.>

    She even annoys me by talking like she's been hustling for years, telling me crap like:
    "Oh you just gotta flirt with them" or "You gotta work out your strip routine, go take a class"

    Like... stfu!!

    Anyway, I don't tell too much stuff to her. Only tell her stories about funny custies..

    Heheh.

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    ^Well, it seems she's pretty set on this. Maybe she had this planned for a while, but when you started, it was like you gave her the approval. The only thing I can think at this point is to very politely and nicely ask her to work at a different club than you since it will affect your job and money. That make sense?
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