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Last edited by zippy092; 06-01-2010 at 06:47 PM.
^ Keep things positive. Tell them what they CAN do. Only tell them what they can't do if they won't stop trying to do something you aren't okay with.
You can even phrase it in a sexy way. "I like this better" ::moves hands::




I hate to say it but sometimes you will lose dances and that's okay.
Some customers are happy you have boundaries and are strong enough to hold to them.
Others will be highly disappointed and stop spending money. Boo hoo.
We work in a bottom line business but it's not worth it to cross the line to get to the bottom line.
I feel like I have the same problem as you, thats why I dont want to go work at a club and it be damn near a brothel because I dont want them to think Im gonna do that type of stuff too.





Oh god! No mouth on nipples for me!
Usually I do a "tisk tisk" motion with my finger, and say "Calm down there babe, getting a little to hot to fast. A girls gotta warm up y'know"....then I seductively take my finger and bite/suck it. They seem to like that a LOT and get the picture. They may start thinking that if they buy another dance....or another....that I'll let them do whatever they wanted.
But...if they keep trying, tell them "No, no - can't do that darling" , and lean away from them. Reminding them that "The better boy you are, the naughtier girl I get to be" helps too (I think I got that line off StripperWeb somewhere). Usually then I guide their hands to my breasts and show them how I like them played with (I don't like them played with at all really, but this way their gentle and get something they like out of it).
If they keep persisting, then I usually don't want anymore dances out of them anyway. Nipple lickers usually want a BJ or more....





oh the dreaded nipple lickers.
i have switched up my dances so my nipples no longer go in custie's faces. try putting only your cleavage in their face... and your nipples out of mouth's way . i started doing this after reading a couple of horror stories on here about girls getting their nipples bitten off...
sometimes i will still get custies who try to do it. sometimes it will amuse me... and ill kinda move my boob close and when they go for it move it away... its kind of funny for a couple of minutes while i see whether they are smart enough to notice that every time they try to do it my boobs get further from their face. plus its funny to watch them open up their mouths.
after i get tired of that (and if they dont learn) then i will usually tell them that my nipples are freshly pierced (if you have nipple piercings, do this!! very few customers will give you a hard time after this! and any customer who is ok with licking a freshly pierced nipple is NOT worth your time!)
sometimes i will say "sweetie you dont want to do that, those touched the stripper pole, and NOBODY wants to lick the stripper pole."
and if its busy and there are plenty of other customers to sell too, then i will decide its not even worth it to try to sell more than one dance and say something jerky like "oh sweety you dont want to do that. my boyfriend came there earlier" (an idea from this board.) Then after that dance... on to the next customer!
The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.
I would just be like "my manager saw me doing that and I got in trouble... If I get in trouble again I'll get fired!". Always worked for me.





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I include "the rules" right before I start the dance.
"you can't touch me, *moan* but baby I can touch you all I want!" as I shove my (clothed) boobs in his face, grabbing his wrists and putting them at his side.
I have had guys TRY to finger me...I grab his wrists and place those hands at his side and remind him (in a sultry voice) of the rules.





i dont think any girls on here have had their nipples bitten off, but i think i remember reading at least two stories of girls who have had customers bite down hard on their nipples and not let go.
i kind of treat men like animals. you know, when you feed a horse a carrot, you hold your palm flat so your fingers dont end up in its mouth. I find lapdancing to be a similar experience, make sure that no nipples is ever in front of his face so there is no chance it will end up in his mouth and he will bite down.
seriously. its retarded that this is even a concern but it is. so when you put your titties in his face, do it more like his head in your cleavage. never your nipple near his mouth.
The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.
This is the truth. Well said. You have to be prepared for them to attack at any second. I always have my ninja moves ready and never let them get the upperhand. Being nude, they can violate you in many ways if you allow them and don't watch your ass.
I am always on edge which makes my job even harder, but rather that than let my guard down and get a vagina grab or nibble bite. Fuck that.
What's funny is usually if I let my guard down for a second they show their true colors.
This is not 100%. Some guys are wonderful and make me looove my job with their manners and respect. But for the others, you really do have to treat them as a lion about to attack, because trust me, they do!
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