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    Default First time at a strip club, what do I do?!?

    Some friends want me to go to a strip club with them this weekend. What's the right way for a girl to act? What should I wear? Do I wear clubbing clothes or street clothes? How dressed up should I be? Is it weird for a girl to be at a strip club as a customer?

    I'm kind of excited but I don't want to make a fool out of myself and I don't want to spoil anyone's fun either. And reading this site I know how hard the dancers work, so I want to help but I'm not sure what's the best way to do that.

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    You have to dress really hot...don't want to look out of place next to the dancers. If you're comfortable with it, wear something you can slip in and out of fairly easily. Dancers love it when hot girl customers get naked at their stage...it brings the guys flocking and more tips. Also, it takes the pressure off them to be hot and naked.

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    Wear a large wallet full of money in your back pocket.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    You have to dress really hot...don't want to look out of place next to the dancers. If you're comfortable with it, wear something you can slip in and out of fairly easily. Dancers love it when hot girl customers get naked at their stage...it brings the guys flocking and more tips. Also, it takes the pressure off them to be hot and naked.
    If the OP is a "wild party girl" and wants to pretend to be a dancer for one night, then I agree... Otherwise, I have to disagree... She should not dress like she's trying to compete with the dancers for male attention - it shows too much insecurity and "try hard" on her part.

    To the OP - It depends on the club. If it is an "upscale" gentleman's club, wear a sexy (but classy) skirt and blouse, like you would on a casual date. If its just an average club - dress casual with nice jeans and shirt.

    Ask the guys how they're dressing, so you're not under-dressed or over-dressed when compared to the rest of the group.

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    Just because I'm a "party girl" doesn't mean I want to be rude or get in the way of the dancers and them making money. Do I like attention from guys? Of course I do! But I know that going to a club makes it about the dancers and not about me. I want to know how I can be a good customer and if there was anything I could do to help both my friends have a good time and help the dancers make money from my stupid horny friends.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    If the OP is a "wild party girl" and wants to pretend to be a dancer for one night, then I agree... Otherwise, I have to disagree... She should not dress like she's trying to compete with the dancers for male attention - it shows too much insecurity and "try hard" on her part.

    To the OP - It depends on the club. If it is an "upscale" gentleman's club, wear a sexy (but classy) skirt and blouse, like you would on a casual date. If its just an average club - dress casual with nice jeans and shirt.

    Ask the guys how they're dressing, so you're not under-dressed or over-dressed when compared to the rest of the group.
    Everyman was being facetious...he basically told the OP exactly what dancers hate in female customers.

    My advice...bring money, tip at the stage, and don't make an ass of yourself unless you're willing to drop big bucks.

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    Quote Originally Posted by prettysammie View Post
    Just because I'm a "party girl" doesn't mean I want to be rude or get in the way of the dancers and them making money. Do I like attention from guys? Of course I do! But I know that going to a club makes it about the dancers and not about me. I want to know how I can be a good customer and if there was anything I could do to help both my friends have a good time and help the dancers make money from my stupid horny friends.
    I have seen some "party girls" in the club acting like they're part of the dancer sisterhood and, as long as they are tipping generously and encouraging their male friends to buy dances and tip generously, the dancer's don't seem to mind. In fact, the dancers seem to warm up up to them (and some times include them in a stage show). Again,... the key thing is generous tipping and helping them make money by encouraging your male friends to spend, spend, spend. If a guy friend is chatting with you, bring him up to the stage to tip the dancer or call a dancer to join you two. Don't be caught alone chatting with any of the guys in your group.

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    Seriously, wear whatever makes you comfortable. A lot of girls wear jeans and a cute top. I do agree with the "bring money" though. Many dancers don't like female customers. Personally, female customers are sort of my niche. If they can make money off of you they'll like you.
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    Wear pants or jeans. Bring cash. Be nice to the strippers, don't talk trash about them because someone is always listening.

    Ignore Jack! If the strippers want to bring you into their "sisterhood" they will. However, there is no such thing as stripper sisterhood. Dancers will flirt with and let female customers lie on the stage to get more male attention or if they are just in the mood to flirt with a nice, respectful girl. But its not up to the customer, female or not, to decide that.

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    OMG do NOT listen to the guys here! lol

    Wear jeans and a cute top. Be friendly to the dancers but not overly so, tip them on stage(but don't be obnoxious about it) and if girls are avoiding your table(it happens a lot that dancers will avoid tables with female customers at them) then don't be afraid to politely ask one to come over if some of the guys want dances.

    Most importantly! Have fun!! Seriously don't be afraid to smile and compliment the girls.

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    Quote Originally Posted by MissShyGirl View Post
    OMG do NOT listen to the guys here! lol

    Wear jeans and a cute top. Be friendly to the dancers but not overly so, tip them on stage(but don't be obnoxious about it) and if girls are avoiding your table(it happens a lot that dancers will avoid tables with female customers at them) then don't be afraid to politely ask one to come over if some of the guys want dances.

    Most importantly! Have fun!! Seriously don't be afraid to smile and compliment the girls.

    Are skirts and dresses a "no-no" then? Because that's what I normally wear when i go out clubbing or just out to have a good time.

    Thanks for all the good advice. I really don't want to make an ass out of myself or feel like the dancers resent me for being there or that my friends regret bringing me along.

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    Quote Originally Posted by prettysammie View Post
    . I really don't want to make an ass out of myself or feel like the dancers resent me for being there or that my friends regret bringing me along.
    My first post was indeed a joke. But this one is not:

    You have to decide whether you care more about what the dancers think, or what your friends think. These are 2 very different things, and MIGHT even be 180 degrees apart. In other words, things that would make the evening really entertaining for your friends, might be the very things that dancers "resent" you for. Similarly, things dancers would praise you for (such as being a polite, respectful and high-tipping customer), likely carries little to no weight with your male friends and won't make their evening more enjoyable.

    In other words, your friends might have the most fun if you're an obnoxious hot look-at-me female customer attention whore, while the dancers wouldn't enjoy this at all. You have to decide which side you're trying to please.

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    As usual E-man is over complicating things. Wear what makes you comfortable, treat the dancers with respect-they are their to make a living, bring cash and tip. Please yourself, have fun!
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    Honestly to me when a girl wears a skirt or a dress it means shes going to be obnoxious and rude and I would avoid that table. 9 times out of 10 my judgment was right. Also if you want to get dances skirts/dresses mean "I want you to lick my pussy". I know this isn't always the case but sadly lots of women over the years have kind of ruined it for others.

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    I disagree. If she is tipping and behaving herself then her male friends will more than likely have more attention from the dancers, thus everybody wins.

    Actually, I don't think anyone would win if she was trying to be obnoxious. I don't like it when my friends are obnoxious, sooooo..?

    As far as dress goes, I think it does depend on the club... high end will be more conservative whereas other clubs it may be better for jeans or clubwear. I think it doesn't really matter though, as long as you have fun!
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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    As usual E-man is over complicating things. Wear what makes you comfortable, treat the dancers with respect-they are their to make a living, bring cash and tip. Please yourself, have fun!
    Totally agree with Yoda. Don't over complicate things.

    The main thing is to be friendly, smile, use open body language to encourage the dancers to interact more.

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    Id say dress relatively normally, but definitely dont dress super provacatively.

    as the others said definitely tip. dont become one of those girls who comes in screaming, groping, and trying to climb on the stage... but you have been on this board enough i am sure you already knew that .

    also dont talk to any other customers, unless its to tell them to tip. sometimes when i go to a club as a customer, another customer will try to talk to me... i always ignore them or tell them to tip the girl on the stage. dont do anything like let another customer buy you a drink. they are there to spend on the dancers, not meet other girls who come into the club.

    and importantly- have fun!
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Quote Originally Posted by yoda57us View Post
    Wear what makes you comfortable, treat the dancers with respect-they are their to make a living, bring cash and tip. Please yourself, have fun!
    I agree with all this, just wanted to make sure she wasn't focusing on the dancers' wishes, to the detriment of her friends' (not the same thing).

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    ...do not wear sweat pants ......or sweat shirts if you are a girl.

    I dare you to go on amateur night, stay relatively sober, get up on stage and embrace your sluttiness. I double dare you!
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    Quote Originally Posted by WiseGuy_TX View Post
    ...do not wear sweat pants ......or sweat shirts if you are a girl.

    I dare you to go on amateur night, stay relatively sober, get up on stage and embrace your sluttiness. I double dare you!
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    i think that sweatshirts are ok i wore a hoodie last time i went because it was unplanned and i had a lowcut shirt. i kept the hoodie zipped up after a customer tried to chat me up too. wanted to keep the girls hidden.

    sweatpants on dudes are not ok for entirely different reasons...
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    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    I agree with all this, just wanted to make sure she wasn't focusing on the dancers' wishes, to the detriment of her friends' (not the same thing).
    It depends on her friends... If they're there to spend lots of money and have a great time... its all win-win for everyone.

    But, if they're cheapos that don't want to spend money, then she's got too pick sides... She's either going to help with the dancer's hustle (and get blamed for making the guys spend too much money) or if they don't spend enough, she's going to look like the reason they weren't spending money on the dancers.

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    Don't talk crap about the dancers

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    Skirt or dress isn't necessarily bad. However when I've gone as a customer in a dress and heels, I've had guys come up to me trying to hit on me or get dances, like coming back from tipping onstage, or the restroom. It can be annoying to get confused as a stripper if you're not. And not that it would piss off the strippers, they are too busy working to notice your every move. But strippers are that for a reason, we have to put up with a lot of creepy, aggressive men that make us uncomfortable. You don't want to be in that position without the opportunity to profit off of it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by ariel1228 View Post
    Don't talk crap about the dancers
    Hahahaha this is very true.

    i have seen so many females come in and do this. like wtf... really?

    I dont think the OP would do that. but a lot of women do. i dont know why they come into the SCs either... they are almost always with their boyfriends and are gripping onto them for dear life.


    also, dont bite the dancers
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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