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Make alot of smiley eye contact w/ the dancers while you're giving them all your money.
Don't go commando.
Dancers hate that.
Don't get stoopid drunk.
It won't end well for anyone.
Has anyone mentioned just have fun?![]()
Ignore dancers who skip you or are rude to female custies as there is always a few.
Dress like you normally do unless that means not wearing panties or somehow showing more skin then the dancers are when off stage.
Be friendly and tip nice.
Don't act jealous, don't hate, don't take money from guys to play amateur stripper, and don't flirt with other custies. So in other words let the dancers make their money & remember it's not a pickup dance club down the street.
Have fun.
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WHOA! WHAT?!?! Are you kidding me? A skirt or a dress means that?!?
I feel like I'm getting ready to go visit another country now. Do I need to bring a passport or wear a "I am not a stripper, please tip the girls dancing" sign?
Maybe I'll just wear a hoodie and hide in the corner.
dress really hot, be confident, and don't fall over... ~you'll do fine!
^whoops, thought you asked about ur first night WORKING the club not going to.... easy advice. have some drinks to loosen up, tip well.... and let the girls provide the good time!









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Nope - just realize you're going into an unusual environment where the dress code for employees is high heels, a smile and not much else. There are different rules (generally unspoken rules) to out in the real world.
Never forget that the dancers are there to earn money. They pay a fee to work there, and a percentage of the cost of every dance will also go to the management. So, although the dancers will be friendly and chatty, it's polite to tip them for their time every now and then.
Normally - although you'll have to decide on whether you just want go with your friends and have a laugh, or whether you want to buy a few dances to satisfy your curiosity.
Normal casual clothes - but not too revealing. You're not trying to complete with the dancers - just look nice.
Slightly unusual but not weird. Some girls are curious because they're lesbian/bi. Others are hetro, but just like seeing pretty women naked - or maybe fantasize about stripping themselves.
Dancers tend to be a little wary of female customers because they can be drama, but tip the stage and be polite to the dancers, and you'll soon find the ice is broken.
Simple. Don't do anything inside the club that you'd be ashamed of outside the club. Getting drunk, getting up on stage and ripping your clothes off probably come into that category.....
The rest you can probably get from reading the dancers forums: tip them, be nice to them, stay within their personal limits, don't ask for personal details, etc.....
Just by being nice to them and spending. Dancers like polite, generous customers. Unfortunately, such customers can be in short supply.
Phil.



lol Sorry I didn't mean to say thats what YOUR going for. Sadly there have been so many female custys over the years that have shown up in skirts and dresses because they're looking for extras from the dancersThere have been MANY threads about this on here over the years. Its complete BS and really sad but for me personally it got to the point I would avoid female custys in skirts/dresses because every one I danced for would start hiking their skirt up and go 'so you gonna eat me out or what?'
Again I know thats not what your going for. Your just going to have a good time with friends. Sadly though there have been so many rude obnoxious female custys that its ruined it for the good ones(like yourself) who are just going to have a good time.





I go to SCs occasionally and I prefer the high end clubs where dancers wear gowns. I like dresses and I always wear them to the high end ones. I like nice/classy dresses so wear whatever that makes you feel comfortable and good.
I read about wearing dresses mean "lick my pussy", and it's contrary to my situation. I'm always the one to stop the dancers from hiking up my dress, or when they spread out my legs during the dance, I always make sure my my private part is covered and sometime I'd use my hands to fend off some aggressive dancers.
I always tip them and have dances from them, but most importantly smile. Dancers are pretty nice to me and I rarely touch them while receiving dances; unless they want me to and they'd grab my hands and go over their bodies and even their boobs...
In general, just be nice and have fun and you'll be ok.
I agree with Iopaw, don't go commando! Lol, I've had several girls do this and it is DISGUSTING. If I don't want a guy sticking his junk in my face, why would I want a girl doing it? Also, as a, um, personal, piece of advice, make sure to wash carefully. The girls at my club constantly complain about how some women smell down below. If you are really nervous, some personal spray is not a bad option.
That being said...
I'd say that as long as you aren't overly slutty you'll be fine. I've seen girls come in wearing only lingerie to get male attention and those are the girls that "accidentally" have their drinks knocked on them. Also, remember not to get on her stage uninvited, even if the last girl wanted you to, and don't get in the way of a girl working one of your friends if you can help it just as a courtesy.
I have heard the thing about wearing skirts and dresses before though it isn't my rule. I've been told that it is because it is hard to get down into someone without getting a face full of panties, which most dancers don't appreciate.
You don't have to be a huge spender, but keep up with your friends and maybe even buy yourself a floor dance (though not all dancers will dance for other women).
Relax and enjoy yourself. It's fine to look nice, just don't try to compete with the naked women. :-)
Anyone who would deliberately irritate the dancers to entertain her friends is an asshole. Since the OP is asking for advice on how to act in a strip club, I'm guessing she's not an asshole.
I find the idea that she might have to act like a crazy slut to entertain her friends pretty ridiculous. Like she is some kind of trained monkey or something.
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here is what every dancer wants you to do:
1. bring money. be willing to spend said money.
2. be respectful of each dancer's rules and be generally nice/polite in conversation.
3. relax. most of them are just there to do their jobs and aren't trying to scam you. IOW most dancers just want to dance for you/entertain you, for a price.. of course.
4. have fun. really. dancers like customers who are enjoying themselves. when you are having fun, the dancer feels more encouraged to relax/have fun too. when you are defensive, they can often find it tiring.
So there you have it. To sum it up once more:
It's entertainment. Pure and simple. Just like if you were going to a theme park or casino or anywhere else to be entertained. Bring what you want to spend and do not use the ATM (I know most dancers don't want me to say that, but speaking as a customer as well). My own personal budget is usually 200, but I've gotten real drunk and stupid and spent 400 before. It all depends on what your budget is and what you're willing to "kiss goodbye" to. And again... just have fun and be nice. Really.





PS. specifically about female customers:
most dancers (I would say all, but who knows) like female customers who WANT to be there. As long as you are open/having fun and generally behaving like I stated in my previous post, most dancers will be fine with you. The ones who arent just because you're female are douchebags anyway. Please don't dance for your friends or act obnoxious to impress them (not that you would, but since it was brought up). That kind of behavior is what's scared a lot of dancers away from female customers. It comes across as you making fun of their work.
If you decide to do that in order to impress your friends, even if it works, it makes you an ass. It makes them asses too. The fact that it would even be brought up disgusts me. If someone knows that that behavior is at the expense of the dancers, and they suggest doing it anyway, they clearly don't value the dancers as hard working people. That's like saying "hey, you should totally be a dick to your waiter tonight so your friends will laugh and think you're cool".
terrible.




^5 Penny. Its like telling a girl to go to the ballet and get onstage during the performance...then dance ballet near your seat while the dancers are in the act. Its fucking rude and no one seems to give that kind of advice to anyone going to see any other kind of entertainment.





^well, obviously the reason for that is that strippers aren't doing a real job that requires any sort of valid effort or skill set.
i mean, duh.
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