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    Default Re: First time at a strip club, what do I do?!?

    Listen to MissShyGirl.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Bob_Loblaw View Post
    Listen to MissShyGirl.


    Err... wait... oh no! Conundrum!

    LMAO I was seriously expecting something like this from you and you didn't let me down!

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    Default Re: First time at a strip club, what do I do?!?

    The best thing an unsure newbie female custy should do is bring ALOT of cash and spend it wildly on the dancers.

    Make alot of smiley eye contact w/ the dancers while you're giving them all your money.

    Don't go commando.
    Dancers hate that.

    Don't get stoopid drunk.
    It won't end well for anyone.


    Has anyone mentioned just have fun?

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    Ignore dancers who skip you or are rude to female custies as there is always a few.

    Dress like you normally do unless that means not wearing panties or somehow showing more skin then the dancers are when off stage.

    Be friendly and tip nice.

    Don't act jealous, don't hate, don't take money from guys to play amateur stripper, and don't flirt with other custies. So in other words let the dancers make their money & remember it's not a pickup dance club down the street.

    Have fun.
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    Quote Originally Posted by MissShyGirl View Post
    Honestly to me when a girl wears a skirt or a dress it means shes going to be obnoxious and rude and I would avoid that table. 9 times out of 10 my judgment was right. Also if you want to get dances skirts/dresses mean "I want you to lick my pussy". I know this isn't always the case but sadly lots of women over the years have kind of ruined it for others.
    WHOA! WHAT?!?! Are you kidding me? A skirt or a dress means that?!?

    I feel like I'm getting ready to go visit another country now. Do I need to bring a passport or wear a "I am not a stripper, please tip the girls dancing" sign?

    Maybe I'll just wear a hoodie and hide in the corner.

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    Default Re: First time at a strip club, what do I do?!?

    dress really hot, be confident, and don't fall over... ~you'll do fine!

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    Default Re: First time at a strip club, what do I do?!?

    ^whoops, thought you asked about ur first night WORKING the club not going to.... easy advice. have some drinks to loosen up, tip well.... and let the girls provide the good time!

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    Quote Originally Posted by prettysammie View Post
    WHOA! WHAT?!?! Are you kidding me? A skirt or a dress means that?!?

    I feel like I'm getting ready to go visit another country now. Do I need to bring a passport or wear a "I am not a stripper, please tip the girls dancing" sign?

    Maybe I'll just wear a hoodie and hide in the corner.
    Jesus, don't listen to the dancers on here either.

    Wear what you want.

    Don't throw around loads of cash unless you have it to spare.

    Pay attention to whether your friends are having a good time and what they want out of you.

    That's about it, and have a good time.

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    Don't listen to anyone here... Forget everything you read on this thread... Forget you even asked.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    Don't listen to anyone here... Forget everything you read on this thread... Forget you even asked.
    Haha!!

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    Quote Originally Posted by prettysammie View Post
    I feel like I'm getting ready to go visit another country now. Do I need to bring a passport or wear a "I am not a stripper, please tip the girls dancing" sign?
    Nope - just realize you're going into an unusual environment where the dress code for employees is high heels, a smile and not much else. There are different rules (generally unspoken rules) to out in the real world.

    Never forget that the dancers are there to earn money. They pay a fee to work there, and a percentage of the cost of every dance will also go to the management. So, although the dancers will be friendly and chatty, it's polite to tip them for their time every now and then.

    Quote Originally Posted by prettysammie View Post
    What's the right way for a girl to act?
    Normally - although you'll have to decide on whether you just want go with your friends and have a laugh, or whether you want to buy a few dances to satisfy your curiosity.

    Quote Originally Posted by prettysammie View Post
    What should I wear? Do I wear clubbing clothes or street clothes? How dressed up should I be?
    Normal casual clothes - but not too revealing. You're not trying to complete with the dancers - just look nice.

    Quote Originally Posted by prettysammie View Post
    Is it weird for a girl to be at a strip club as a customer?
    Slightly unusual but not weird. Some girls are curious because they're lesbian/bi. Others are hetro, but just like seeing pretty women naked - or maybe fantasize about stripping themselves.

    Dancers tend to be a little wary of female customers because they can be drama, but tip the stage and be polite to the dancers, and you'll soon find the ice is broken.

    Quote Originally Posted by prettysammie View Post
    I'm kind of excited but I don't want to make a fool out of myself and I don't want to spoil anyone's fun either.
    Simple. Don't do anything inside the club that you'd be ashamed of outside the club. Getting drunk, getting up on stage and ripping your clothes off probably come into that category.....

    The rest you can probably get from reading the dancers forums: tip them, be nice to them, stay within their personal limits, don't ask for personal details, etc.....

    Quote Originally Posted by prettysammie View Post
    And reading this site I know how hard the dancers work, so I want to help but I'm not sure what's the best way to do that.
    Just by being nice to them and spending. Dancers like polite, generous customers. Unfortunately, such customers can be in short supply.

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    Quote Originally Posted by prettysammie View Post
    WHOA! WHAT?!?! Are you kidding me? A skirt or a dress means that?!?

    I feel like I'm getting ready to go visit another country now. Do I need to bring a passport or wear a "I am not a stripper, please tip the girls dancing" sign?

    Maybe I'll just wear a hoodie and hide in the corner.
    lol Sorry I didn't mean to say thats what YOUR going for. Sadly there have been so many female custys over the years that have shown up in skirts and dresses because they're looking for extras from the dancers There have been MANY threads about this on here over the years. Its complete BS and really sad but for me personally it got to the point I would avoid female custys in skirts/dresses because every one I danced for would start hiking their skirt up and go 'so you gonna eat me out or what?'

    Again I know thats not what your going for. Your just going to have a good time with friends. Sadly though there have been so many rude obnoxious female custys that its ruined it for the good ones(like yourself) who are just going to have a good time.

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    Quote Originally Posted by prettysammie View Post
    WHOA! WHAT?!?! Are you kidding me? A skirt or a dress means that?!?

    I feel like I'm getting ready to go visit another country now. Do I need to bring a passport or wear a "I am not a stripper, please tip the girls dancing" sign?

    Maybe I'll just wear a hoodie and hide in the corner.

    lol.....relax! It's really not rocket science
    Just treat others as you would have them treat you.

    Trust me....I've been a hardcore female custy for years. Once you're in the club you'll catch on soon enough to how things work.

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    I go to SCs occasionally and I prefer the high end clubs where dancers wear gowns. I like dresses and I always wear them to the high end ones. I like nice/classy dresses so wear whatever that makes you feel comfortable and good.
    I read about wearing dresses mean "lick my pussy", and it's contrary to my situation. I'm always the one to stop the dancers from hiking up my dress, or when they spread out my legs during the dance, I always make sure my my private part is covered and sometime I'd use my hands to fend off some aggressive dancers.
    I always tip them and have dances from them, but most importantly smile. Dancers are pretty nice to me and I rarely touch them while receiving dances; unless they want me to and they'd grab my hands and go over their bodies and even their boobs...
    In general, just be nice and have fun and you'll be ok.

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    I agree with Iopaw, don't go commando! Lol, I've had several girls do this and it is DISGUSTING. If I don't want a guy sticking his junk in my face, why would I want a girl doing it? Also, as a, um, personal, piece of advice, make sure to wash carefully. The girls at my club constantly complain about how some women smell down below. If you are really nervous, some personal spray is not a bad option.

    That being said...

    I'd say that as long as you aren't overly slutty you'll be fine. I've seen girls come in wearing only lingerie to get male attention and those are the girls that "accidentally" have their drinks knocked on them. Also, remember not to get on her stage uninvited, even if the last girl wanted you to, and don't get in the way of a girl working one of your friends if you can help it just as a courtesy.

    I have heard the thing about wearing skirts and dresses before though it isn't my rule. I've been told that it is because it is hard to get down into someone without getting a face full of panties, which most dancers don't appreciate.

    You don't have to be a huge spender, but keep up with your friends and maybe even buy yourself a floor dance (though not all dancers will dance for other women).

    Relax and enjoy yourself. It's fine to look nice, just don't try to compete with the naked women. :-)

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    Quote Originally Posted by jack0177057 View Post
    I have seen some "party girls" in the club acting like they're part of the dancer sisterhood and, as long as they are tipping generously and encouraging their male friends to buy dances and tip generously, the dancer's don't seem to mind. In fact, the dancers seem to warm up up to them
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    Quote Originally Posted by Everyman View Post
    I agree with all this, just wanted to make sure she wasn't focusing on the dancers' wishes, to the detriment of her friends' (not the same thing).
    Anyone who would deliberately irritate the dancers to entertain her friends is an asshole. Since the OP is asking for advice on how to act in a strip club, I'm guessing she's not an asshole.

    I find the idea that she might have to act like a crazy slut to entertain her friends pretty ridiculous. Like she is some kind of trained monkey or something.
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    here is what every dancer wants you to do:

    1. bring money. be willing to spend said money.
    2. be respectful of each dancer's rules and be generally nice/polite in conversation.
    3. relax. most of them are just there to do their jobs and aren't trying to scam you. IOW most dancers just want to dance for you/entertain you, for a price.. of course.
    4. have fun. really. dancers like customers who are enjoying themselves. when you are having fun, the dancer feels more encouraged to relax/have fun too. when you are defensive, they can often find it tiring.

    So there you have it. To sum it up once more:
    It's entertainment. Pure and simple. Just like if you were going to a theme park or casino or anywhere else to be entertained. Bring what you want to spend and do not use the ATM (I know most dancers don't want me to say that, but speaking as a customer as well). My own personal budget is usually 200, but I've gotten real drunk and stupid and spent 400 before. It all depends on what your budget is and what you're willing to "kiss goodbye" to. And again... just have fun and be nice. Really.

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    PS. specifically about female customers:

    most dancers (I would say all, but who knows) like female customers who WANT to be there. As long as you are open/having fun and generally behaving like I stated in my previous post, most dancers will be fine with you. The ones who arent just because you're female are douchebags anyway. Please don't dance for your friends or act obnoxious to impress them (not that you would, but since it was brought up). That kind of behavior is what's scared a lot of dancers away from female customers. It comes across as you making fun of their work.

    If you decide to do that in order to impress your friends, even if it works, it makes you an ass. It makes them asses too. The fact that it would even be brought up disgusts me. If someone knows that that behavior is at the expense of the dancers, and they suggest doing it anyway, they clearly don't value the dancers as hard working people. That's like saying "hey, you should totally be a dick to your waiter tonight so your friends will laugh and think you're cool".

    terrible.

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    ^5 Penny. Its like telling a girl to go to the ballet and get onstage during the performance...then dance ballet near your seat while the dancers are in the act. Its fucking rude and no one seems to give that kind of advice to anyone going to see any other kind of entertainment.

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    ^well, obviously the reason for that is that strippers aren't doing a real job that requires any sort of valid effort or skill set.


    i mean, duh.



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