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Sadly I can believe it because I've seen it too. I think it's best to work the shifts when the gentlemen come in. I try not to deal with the big crowds for that very reason. It seems to bring out the hookers. Ironically I've been making better money on the "off" night than the popular nights because it easier to find the nice guys in a small crowd.
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i think its because summer is round the corner and managers are realizing business will slow and are letting a lot slide.
my club used to be super clean and low contact... which is why i worked there despite the fact that i usually forked over half my earnings-- i was happy there so i made more than enough. but as of lately there has been a lot of management disasters... and one of my complaints is the bouncers have started letting 2 way contact happen during the regular lap dances. a month ago if a customer so much as touched your calf, the bouncers would come over and tell them to keep their hands to themselves. now, i shook my head at a girl getting felt up and when the bouncer asked what i was shaking my head about i said 'at that girl getting groped there... hint hint' and he said 'sorry i am letting the girls do what htey are comfortable with.'![]()
so yea, im convinced that they let clubs get dirtier as teh slow season rolls around. maybe im wrong, but it seems logical to me.
The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.





This is really sad. I mean, I'm a clean dancer but at the same time I'm not the type to go hay-wire if a guy touches my calf. I don't think though that the rules should depend on the season or economic status, but rather on the laws.
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meh i dont think they should necessarily depend on the laws-- especially since so many of the laws are unfair and designed to make our lives miserable. if new orleans went by the laws, we would all be wearing latex and dancing on these 18 inch pedestals which i believe are a safety hazard when wearing 6-8 inch stilettos. nobody uses those pedestals.... i only did once when a customer kept bothering me about what i would do to the point where i decided to dance on the pedestal just to piss him off.
but yea, the high contact is driving me crazy. I used to be ok with 2 way contact, but after pittsburgh i really cannot handle it. i have gone from being ok with it as long as the club was ok with it to being one of those dancers who gets the willies if my leg is touched. I can deal with contact during the champagne rooms, but i think that is because at that point i am providing a much personal fantasy. on the lap dances i really cannot deal with it anymore.
but yea, i dont think it is ok for hte clubs to start allowing dirty stuff seasonally. im just convinced that they do. its hard to find a proper medium though in places where the official on the book laws just dont make sense.
The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.
We were just talking about this at work recently. I mentioned how relieved I am to be working in a club w/ NO extras ... and how much the industry has changed w/ strippers doing extras. I said, "The girls doing extras aren't strippers. They are prostitutes posing as strippers!! I don't know why they are taking over our industry and why management of certain clubs allows this shit to happen. They must be getting a hell of a $$$$ kick back from those bitches." Or maybe it's always been this way and I've just had a blind eye to it on a hit-and-run work trip to Vegas. Now that I've been here 5 months I really get to see the inner workings of the high profile clubs here.





It's probably not that it never happened before, but girls probably charged wayyyy more for it than they do now, and it didn't happen AS MUCH. Because girls didn't HAVE to to make money.
The 'economy' scared everyone so now you have a LOT of desperate strippers. Ahem. I mean poser strippers.
It's sad because I think NC has always been a little dirty. An old roommate went to school up here years ago and used to frequent the clubs. She told me about accidentally walking in on some stuff she didn't wanna walk in on. o_O Bible belt my ass.
I have a new hustle technique to get around it. It's like this sadistic tease persona that gets turned on by getting guys all worked up and not doing anything else. Also, I'm going to work my Domme personality into my dances a little more... pinning guys hands behind their heads when they can't keep them to themselves, but in a sexy take charge way.
I just wanna see you squirm baby, I don't want it all... I just like it when you get turned on. Because I'm a bad girl that loves to see a guys face when I tease him. Rawr.
I'm hoping this works in my favor. I feel a little re-energized coming from a crappy wanna dance club to a nicer room club.
As far as super high contact goes... I used to work in a super high contact club too, and you think you're ok with it but it gets old as fuck. I think that's the only thing that's keeping me from going back there... I'd rather make the same amount of money and not be touched, thank you. Legs and back I don't mind if it's ok with the club. I'm super rule enforcer though, and I don't like getting fined for dumb things guys do, so I don't allow contact that isn't permitted by the club.
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Awwww tanks!!!
Let's stomp the IC whores outta existance!
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ahhh that sucks : /
I'll be living in LA this summer so I plan on working at clubs in the area.. What is the name of the place? I don't want to audition there.




2 girls at my club last week caught THEMSELVES by talking about it in the DR..=/ ? not of course realizing I was standing right there..ha..uh, nasty. Every club seems to be going down that direction..though it is really really nice to find guys like I did tonight (well ok, 1, but still better than none) who said he'd leave if a girl even tried thatand he meant it too, cuz he said hes going to try to visit me tomorrow too
power to the clean dancers!!




^^ The worst guy all night was this married jackass who decided it was ok to grab my ass, while sitting next to him at the bar, and then saying "he didnt have to pay that much" for a dance..a regular custie that doesnt tip or get dances..but still ok to talk to, told me next time to take my red lipstick and without him knowing, smear it on the inside of his collar, so he'd get a nice surprise when he got home to his wife hahahahaahah..SO going to do it to the next jackass (and i dont mean everyone, i mean the REAL bad ones)i'm so psyched haha!





at my old house club, we used to RUN dancers out of the club if we even assumed they were doing more than just dancing. sigh. the days of stripper solidarity are gone? and now i just try to avoid watching dancers who do a lot because it makes me sad to see.





Someone on this board has a pretty appropriate quote about giving blowjobs for a living and living well. I agree... if it's going to happen shouldn't it cost MORE than a dance or regular room... I mean duhhhh hello, simple reasoning says that charging the same amount or less means you are going to make less... are these girls really that stupid?
Even a year ago we used to run girls off that so much as looked like they'd suck a dick for money... Any amount. It's fucking sad.
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YES!!!!! Now this is exactly how I feel. Sure I hate that girls are doing extras, but for the love of gawd please charge a reasonable more amount of money if you are going to do them. It used to be that extras were done in secret, not obviously, and for more money. Now extras are just to give yourself a leg up on the comepeition. It just seems insane that girls will even give it all up on the FIRST freakin dance that they are getting the same amount of money for!! What the hell ever happened to extra girls charging extra?
Now that strippers and SC's are becoming more mainstream and 'cool,' there would be more girls flooding in, which will lead to some really desperate dancers. The de-stigmatization of strippers/porn is really hurting us economically. Add to that we also have declining customer spending and declining customers in general. Yeah the industry still has a bad rep, but NOTHING like it used to be.
yeah, i agree with you. it grosses me the eff out when men try to out their mouth on my nipples. also, ive been getting alot of cheap rate offers to go back home with them. $300 or less...cmon are they kidding me? ill consider it if i was offered $5,000 minimun.
Agreed. If you take it to VIP, make several hundred off a guy and it stays in private, do what you gotta do I guess.
But if you're letting a guy finger you or eat you out on a 2 for 30 special while I can clearly see you? We get to keep 20 dollars for the dance special. REALLY? You're risking some kind of disease for 20 dollars!
The dance special alone cheapens us, and I have to deal with my guy seeing the girl in the next booth get fingered? How am I supposed to convince him to buy more clean dances at 20 dollars each after that?




^ I'd go with the "would you want a classy girl that doesnt have STDs...or a going away STD present from her?" I've met some (repeat, some) guys that do like the clean dancers, which is really nice to find guys like that lol.
pinning guys hands behind their heads when they can't keep them to themselves, but in a sexy take charge way.
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^One of em was wearing a red shirt, no collar..boohe's supposed to come back monday though
let him try to touch the kitty again..and his wife will be getting a red lipstick surprise (and my hair is pretty long, sometimes i try to purposely 'shed' lolol) yeah, im evil. only when forced to be
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This is a bit long.
Just went out for a drink with a guy that I met at the supermarket-as we talked I found out he happened to occasionally go to two of the clubs I worked at. (I've been off for more or less 4months now.) and I told him about all the stories I heard about extras, and explained that I had my suspicions, but wasn't too sure it was true and didn't want to pre-judge and gossip...He confirmed most of the extras-he said at times he was offered it without even asking.I asked him if they asked for more money and he said he had to tip by his own accord. I could not believe it!
I was suspicious about a new girl (I was quite new too, but only to the club.) but had been there long enough to know that you have to break-the club-in before you begin to make some money. And within a week this girl who spoke very little English was going into the private booth as much as the big earner in the club.
I asked the girls in my car about it. These are mostly nice girls, clean girls. And one girl, whose a bit of a amazonian, began telling us she was suspicious too cause her regulars began to ask for more and they claimed other girls offered it-which pissed her off.
A few nights later amazonian comes up to me and ask me what a blow-job is. (which was too funny) She doesn't speak much English...I tell her what it is. And she can't believe it, and ask the English man I was talking to...and he confirms my answer. She looked furious...she said she heard the said extra girl say to a guy, and later that evening extra girl began whispering something into her regulars ear as she sat with him. He told her what she offered.
That same night she stormed across the room from mid dance with a guy to her regular as soon as she spoted extra girl talking to him again. She stuck her hand into the girls face mid offer-so much so that her fingers went into the girls open mouth and shoved her face off, and said in her broken English-never to talk her regular again, or she will will punch her. Extra girl is tiny and amazonian girl is tall with great big bosoms. Understandably extra girl scampered off.
She had very funny advice too. She said that so many guys ask that she began to say yeah, yeah. And agree to everything he asks for. Demands the money upfront and goes in...does shit all...does her dance as well as she likes it. If he wants to leave she lets him, if he complains or begins to demand his money back or make a commotion she simply points to the bouncer (there is one big scary black bouncer who is like a bloodhound...he storms across the room to strangle guys who touch.) and tells him to go tell said bouncer his problem, what he wants and if the bouncer says she has to give his money back then she will. The guy storms off, and fumes-But does nothing. She moves on to the next guy...if he is nice-great. If he wants extras...she plays the same trick.
I like to dance and am a bit of performer. And discovered lately that the whole dominant thing works wonders-in my pre dance chat I mention how I like the job because I get to turn men on and he is hopeless to it. I like the job and like to do some fancy positions stuff but never do it because guys always want to touch and I can't trust them. Since I usually dress the city man look- I first tie them up with my tie, I am somewhat harsh with my dance...and before I do a close position which leaves me vulnerable to pervs...i tell them that this is especial, I only do it if they are good. And tell them that If they touch I will kick the living daylights out of them.
Once a guy tried. I had my both of my feet on his shoulders, hands on his knees and then I lift...just as his head went forward and his mouth opened...I closed my legs which jammed his head at my knees and then when i let it go I kicked him on the side of the heard-all keeping the position. His face was priceless...i smiled as I told him I warned him...and politely finished my dance...he not only not mad, he then bragged about it to his mates. So I guess you have to handle them a certain way. Play these guy at their own game.
With all this said...not looking forward to going back.
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