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I agree that they can care less about good-looking guys. Did you read my prior post? The bottom line is this: They are turned-off by me for the mere fact that I'm "PAYING" for a dance. That is why my saliva is so gross to them. In their minds they automatically are assuming since I'm "paying" for a dance, I must not get laid much. That = an unattractive guy in a womans mind. It's equivalent to the way we're repulsed by ugly/fat women.
ya, i think ur the problem![]()

^They're turned-off because they're at work. It's not a game or a party.
Or maybe, gasp, they don't like having their necks sucked. Maybe that's gross. Maybe you're one of a long line of assholes they've dealt with that night and they are focusing on walking out with enough cash to have made the night worth their time.
As a guy that does not understand that there is more to this than the fact you're a custie, I seriously laugh at your attempts to explain to women what is unattractive to a woman.
And I get a lot of good responses for being the token fat chick around here.
Get the fuck off my harbl, yo'.

Don't um, gasp, waste your breath. Would they tell the guy they hooked up with at the bar on girls night out, that they don't like their saliva too? Answer is no. Why? Because they're A T T R A C T E D to the guy. Again, dancers have no attraction to guys who pay them for lap dances, but of course you will keep denying this.



You SUCK on their necks, THAT you've clearly stated.
Funny how I even I avoid that option, and i'm one who has freely admitted (previously in here), I've engaged in extensive (real kissing) "makeout" sessions with dozens of dancers, literally 100's of different times.





Next time, try spending some money without sucking on the girl's neck, or otherwise doing anything else creepy, and see if that girl ignores you next time. Like many others have said, it's gotta be something you are doing that is making them stay away. If you are spendy and normal, they'll be on you like gulls on a gutwagon.
I said it's not just the fact that you pay for it that's stopping them feeling attracted, not "dancers are attracted to customers but paying nullifies this", oddly enough.
When a woman hooks up at a bar, she wants the guy - though I personally would not let a dude suck on my neck at a bar, attraction or not. When she's at work, she's at work putting up with men like you so she can pay off her car/house. Anonymous asshole #31, you are a nameless entity this stripper is clearly not cool with and does not feel is worth her time. Accept, move on, deal with. Try dropping the leech impression and see how far it gets you.
Get the fuck off my harbl, yo'.

Again, not trying to toot my own horn, but I've slept and hooked up with quite a bit of attractive women in my life(never slept with a woman who wasn't attractive, and again, that's not to brag or to try and sound like some big shot on a strippers forum)...I've been in the game for a looong time(since I'm an 11 year old kid). I'll never claim to know everything there is to know about women, but over the years, I'd say I've gained quite a bit of knowledge and experience of how the sexes work and what makes the two tick, and the games that are played. So, how 'bout we leave it at that?





How 'bout we leave it at you don't have a vagina, so your exploits are irrelevant when faced with the opinions of women - does that sound good? 'Cause I like it.
Get the fuck off my harbl, yo'.

The reason you've been able to do that is more than likely because you've never gotten dances from them, or either because they're unattractive. But just because you're not spending money on dances(or the women in general), doesn't do anything to help your cause either, most of the time. Lots of them automatically assume the fact that you're in a strip club to begin with, is because you're lacking in the women dept. Even though that might not be the case at all(you can be getting laid left and right), they will still put you in "the desperate guy who's lacking women" category.
I've only had two dancers kiss me on the lips.
Last edited by Reb; 04-30-2010 at 08:11 PM.
I'm actually looking forward to WestCoast's response here.
Get the fuck off my harbl, yo'.





"Peter, did you take Stewie to a strip-club? He smells like sweat and fear." - Lois and Stewie (Family Guy) ... "Through early morning fog I see, Visions of the things to be, The pains that are withheld for me, I realize and I can see..."



Lets start with the reasonable assumption that dancers in general do not find many customers attractive to begin with.
For those that do, or on occasion select out guys that interest them, the 'desperation' issue I believe is more relevant for single guys, because married guys usually have very different motivations for going to clubs, particuarly on dayshift, They are usually not there to date dancers or enage in other bullshit, instead its more about the no strings attached /limited time duration of hanging out and having fun with random numbers of hot women. However, even with single guys, I don't think in and of itself paying for dances increases the desperation tag on all guys the same. Desperate guys just look desperate, its any combination of things, some obvious and some not so obvious, and women can sense the unobvious things. I just don't think your basic theory holds up
The vast majority of dancers I've kisssed are hot to vey hot, maybe 30% near the hottest girls in the club, and as i've indicated before, most of these girls, particularly the very hottest girls, are often otherwise no extras type dancers. It seems to be a tool of sorts they use (sometimes selectively) to match the (so-called) "dirty dancers", and they tend not to discuss it much even with other dancers. I do select out high contact clubs, and often foreign girls, and that's why i've (long) guesstimated its probably 10% of dancers that offer this with moderate to high spending customers.
Dancers may or may not finds customers they kiss attractive, so your theory would not even be applicable. In any case, I never kissed a dancer I didn't FIRST buy a dance from. Basically in practical terms she's kissing instead of dancing anways.



Come on reb, fess up....you're sleeping on a twin bed in your mom's basement. You're flat busted broke after spending a few grand a.k.a your life savings on a stripper who doesn't want anything to do with you now that you come into the club with $20 total.
A ladies man like you wouldn't care about strip clubs. You'd be out banging some hot chick, but yet here you are just banging on your keyboard.


F*ck man, you've got me!......................dam!
Who said I was a ladies man? I'll be the first one to gladly and graciously tell the whole board that I don't pull women(of my choice) on a regular basis(that's not to say that I don't pull women of my choice either; I just don't pull them with regularity. My biggest problem is that I don't have GUTS to randomly approach women I find attractive who aren't sending me signs of interest). Sure, I can pull some unattractive woman if I wanted, but I'm picky and don't settle, no matter how long I have to suffer. That's one concrete rule with me, I don't sex women I don't find attractive.
And Splut, why you so friendly by the way?



Your post may well be legit, but you seem to be getting into PUA stuff, and new PUA types often use this site as a type of test drive. For example your core premise, that dancers (by definition) automatically are never attracted to customers simply 1. simply by being at a strip club or 2. having to pay for dances - is easily provable as bullshit.
Yes, such attractions are rare. but your comments read a bit like PUA talking points, where the strip club "strategy" is to somehow not become a customer.
Your initial comments on strip clubs make little sense, because spenders once identified, nearly alway get attention on repeated visits. unless the club is very crowded. That is just how the game works and 99% of the time has nothing to do with attraction, they are just doing their job.
Even good looking guys who fear going up to women (in strip clubs or real life) are going to be tagged as week or passive non-Alpha types, its not exactly a plus for single guys. so that may be an issue you have. Of course in practical terms strippers are not going to avoid you a 2nd time simply because of that, (they could care less) but it will impact your real life, particularly if you get the dreaded (sincere, non-controlling, monogamous) "nice guy" label, a near kiss of death in regards to creating chemistry with hot women



correction: that was 'weak' not "week"
Oh not this again.
Get the fuck off my harbl, yo'.
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