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    I work at an all nude club and my jaw about hit the floor when I watched one of our young dancers get up on the stage ledge on all fours, totally naked, pull a guy close, and let him grind on her.

    I guess I just had a certain perception of stripping that we were dancers and didn't have to try to out sleaze other dancers for a dollar. I know extras in private shows are rampant but stage shows too? (obviously I'm new,only danced a few months and only at two different clubs).

    what ever happened to the art of strip tease and dance?

    she later proceeded to pick up a dollar bill with her ass ..

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    or the "use wet pussy to peel a dollar off the guys nose" ~ thats over the line for a buck. so i come up and strip after that and it looks like a waste of time after what they just saw what the skank did. ~sigh again

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    Default Re: the sleaze factor on stage

    Yea, one girl sat on the edge of the stage and pulled a guys head in between her thighs, another was masturbating externally for a guy for $5. Pass on that for me. Not all guys are into that anyways.

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    That's not all you'll see. It is the slippery slope effect.
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    i don't really pay attention to what anyone else is doing on stage, because i'm busy working. but that's just me.

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    Seriously if this is going on on stage I can only imagine what these girls are doing during dances. Ask yourself if this is really the enviroment you want to surround yourself with? It may be time for a new club hun

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    The thing that always gets me about people like that, is that it's usually FOR A FRICKIN' DOLLAR. Like are you kidding me? One dollar? What can you even buy with a dollar?

    Not your dignity, that's for sure.
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    I feel you. I really hate when a girl picks up a dollar with her pussy. Jennsweet, you're right. When they see the girl before us do that, they're disappointed when we don't. I work at a nude club, but luckily it's a pretty classy joint and there is only 1 girl I've seen do that.

    Also, I seriously doubt that we are all so busy all the time and focused on our work that we don't notice what the other girls are doing on stage. Come on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    i don't really pay attention to what anyone else is doing on stage, because i'm busy working. but that's just me.
    Honestly, this is great. I used to watch other girls' stage shows (that have become increasingly raunchy), and I would get my self-esteem and enthusiasm way waaaaaaaay down...so that by the time it was my turn, I'd have half of my usual energy.

    I literally never watch others' stage shows now. Never. Why would I focus on other girls' performances? I should be worrying about hustling my own dances/dollars.

    Once you stop paying so much attention to the other girls' raunchy behaviors, some of the guys do to. When guys see that strippers on the floor are watching the girl on stage, their attention is often diverted to the show instead of on your hustle. Not good!

    Obviously, though, I'm still very sympathetic to clean girls having to deal with increasing levels of sleazy behavior. It really feels demeaning to even witness it.

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    ***Warning, graphic story...Not for those with sensitive stomachs!***

    I watched a girl get into the doggy-style position in front of a guy from the stage and then position his nose in between her butt crack as she shook up and down.

    Every one in the club groaned loudly and collectively. Needless to say, he did not get a dance with her when she dropped into his lap at the end of her set. I think he had maybe given her about 3 or 4 bucks BEFORE the, um, anal slide. I wasn't able to see his expression afterwards, but noticed that the money stopped, umm, immediately.

    I feel raunchy even typing this. I gotta go look at pictures of flowers or llamas or something and get the mental imagery out of my head!
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    Oh, and this was a nude club.
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    Default Re: the sleaze factor on stage

    i'm sure many dancers are not "so busy all the time and focused". i imagine this affects their earning potential.


    Quote Originally Posted by althea815 View Post

    Also, I seriously doubt that we are all so busy all the time and focused on our work that we don't notice what the other girls are doing on stage. Come on.

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    llamas lol!

    it's kinda hard to NOT notice when our club is about the size of a living room and there's ONE yes ONE guy in it.

    she's a new girl, when I first started working there I saw very little of that going on but the turnover rate is high..I couldn't keep club hopping to steer clear of those types of clubs unfortunately as I'm afraid that's all we have in the area I live.

    I refuse to try to out do trick shows. I don't even remove everything until the last few seconds of the final song.

    anal slide gawd that's gross

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    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    i'm sure many dancers are not "so busy all the time and focused". i imagine this affects their earning potential.
    I agree!

    Personally, seeing it doesn't effect my money - it happening does. I don't think that playing ignorant to something helps much.

    A great example, I did a duo performance last february. The club had three features for the weekend, a single feature & then my friend & I as a duo. The dancer who featured before us pulled a guy up on stage and gave him a BJ and did number of other things. While it didn't effect our performance, it most certainly effected how the audience responded to our show - they obviously thought it was a lot tamer than her show. After the first show many people had either tipped her out so much that they didn't have as much to tip us or, as the case was - many of them were so disgusted that they left... which also caused us to lose money.

    If you are going to do things that are sleazy/illegal then either:
    1.) Do them outside the club
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    2.) Do them in private and charge a lot more (hundreds more) for them than what the clean dancers are charging for clean dances.
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    a blow job on stage? no wonder the nation is full of STDS

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    SHE DID WHAT!!?!?!?!

    My mouth literally opened in shock and horror.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    While it didn't effect our performance, it most certainly effected how the audience responded to our show - they obviously thought it was a lot tamer than her show.
    Yeah, I can see that for sure. I just try not to pay attention these days.

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    Holy fucking bejeezus, dude. That's both horrifying and grody, all at once.

    I'm with Kylea on this shit- do it outside work, or do it in private dances for substantially more. Not charging customers more for extras A) cheats clean girls, and B) makes it seem like you're willing to do the extra sleaze for free.

    Extras = FAILSAUCE!
    Exotic dancing is like any other job.
    If you work in an office, you wear dress shoes and a suit.
    If you work in a restaraunt, you wear skid resistant shoes and a uniform.
    If you work in a strip club, you wear 7" stilettos and lycra g-strings.

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    ^^^I know. I'm plotting my return to the 'club scene' and am just like....oh god help me...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Kylea2 View Post
    I agree!

    Personally, seeing it doesn't effect my money - it happening does. I don't think that playing ignorant to something helps much.
    I think she was saying that paying attention to stage affects your money, based on her previous comment.

    I find it hard not to at least see what's going on stage when I'm on the floor, or when I'm waiting to go on stage.

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    I will do anything BUT pay attention to people on stage. I'll sit at the bar (facing away from the stage), talk to customers, talk to my bouncers if there's no one else to talk to. Anything. At least then I don't have mental images to drag me down. And I'm still banking (top earner) despite the fact that other girls are doing sleazy shit.

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    a blow job on stage?
    i don't know much about blow jobs but that doesn't seem safe at all.

    and yes, lexi, unless it's someone i care about and i want my customer to go tip her, i don't give a damn what anyone is doing on stage. though performing oral sex on customers in an open space is really fucking poor. though during feature shows, once i finish admiring their costumes, it is a snack/foot/cigarette break in th dressing room. so i miss the things that features do as well. apparently, in the last club i worked, a feature fucked some guy in the ass. i was in the dressing room eating a special k bar. missed the whole thing.

    anyway, my point still stands that if you are watching the stage, you are going to lose out on money BECAUSE you are watching the stage. not because of what other dancers do on stage.
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    After reading everyone's comments, I am surprized that management allows the described antics on stage to continue. In most states this would be illegal. It would be an easy vice target-the girl is doing it under the lights and in a room full of witnesses. If the club served alchohol, their liquor license could be in jeopardy. It also gives the controlling authorities a reason to come back when they see things go on unchecked.

    Seattle has always been at the forefront regarding heavy contact lap dances (and unfortunately has now spread around to other states, but that is probably a subject for another thread) but stage dances are usually legal and enforced by management. The city and state have increased the responsibility of management and owners for the activities inside their clubs-the opposite direction of the rest of the country.

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    yeah, when i heard about the lady fucking the man in the ass on stage, i thought, surely, that cannot be legal.
    also, what a weird thing to do to someone in a strip club <--my second thought

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    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    apparently, in the last club i worked, a feature fucked some guy in the ass. i was in the dressing room eating a special k bar. missed the whole thing.

    anyway, my point still stands that if you are watching the stage, you are going to lose out on money BECAUSE you are watching the stage. not because of what other dancers do on stage.
    This is awesome. Good for you.

    I'm not saying that ignoring the shit that goes on in your clubs will make you all top earners despite everything else. But I can guarantee you that, by paying attention to the other girls, you're making less money than you could be making.

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