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    Default VERY dirty dancing...

    This bothers me that I even have to bring this up. But I've noticed, no matter what club I am in, that black dancers tend to be the dirtiest.

    FYI, I am black myself.

    For example, there was a guy in VIP with like 3-4 other black dancers who spotted me across the club and asked the manager to come get me. I go up there and we are conversating and what not, he bought me a few drinks then he asked me to dance for him. Within a few seconds of the dance, he tried to stick his finger in my pussy. I giggled and did that "stop being naughty" playful thing, but he kept going at it. He then stops the dance and goes "You can get out." He pretty much kicked me out of VIP because I won't let him finger me.

    So I leave and told the manager and the he goes "I know, a few other dancers said the same thing." Apparently he threw other dancers out for the same thing. But because he dropped a few grand on bottles and dance dollars, they wouldn't kick him out which I kinda understand. Then, I look up (bc the VIP is upstairs and not closed off) and I can see the black dancers still there. There's only like 4 of us in the club and I'm the only one on the floor.

    Another example: a pretty black girl that works with me comes up to me and says, "You see that guy over there? I gave him about 5 dances but he wants something new, he doesnt talk just want dances so go over there and make some quick money." So I go over there to the dark corner of the club where the guy was, introduce myself and immediately started dancing. He licked my nipples, tried kiss me, he was really aggressive. So I stopped the dance, asked for my $20 and told him I'll get someone else for him because I'm not putting up with it. So I grabbed a girl, another pretty black girl- NOT BECAUSE SHE WAS BLACK, but because I know she's dominant and agressive and can handle any situation. She ended up getting about 10 dances off him- and that's when I realzed the black girls are freaky pattern.

    Almost every time a really dirty man is in the club, he is surrounded by black dancers.

    I have plently of stories but I won't go on. My customers who think black women are gorgeous chose to see me of all them because the other ones would grab their cock, etc. I've seen on StripClubNetwork.com under the reviews for certain clubs some of the guys say "Go see the black dancers if you want real fun." I even saw under a different club "black dancers need to be more careful about their extras of the club will shut down." Even as a visitor of strip clubs black dancers get all unclassy on me.

    I understand dancers of all races get dirty but the three clubs that I worked in, it was obviously all the black ones.

    This upsets me and even though I know how to present myself, it still makes me look bad.

    What's up with that? Anyone else noticed?

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    Default Re: VERY dirty dancing...

    Yikes, at my club, its the Brazilian dancers who are like that, and the black dancers are clean.

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    Default Re: VERY dirty dancing...

    at the clubs I've worked at it seems like the black girls are really "too good" to be doing any dirty dances. They're usually the first ones to point out the dirty girl. I'm not a dirty dancer and I remember on one occasion one of the black girls pointed me out and was like "ooooh she nasty." I had to laugh, but it was a little awkward. Maybe it just depends what area you live in?
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    Default Re: VERY dirty dancing...

    Quote Originally Posted by JoJoX View Post
    He pretty much kicked me out of VIP because I won't let him finger me.
    Can you imagine how dirty his finger must have been at that point!?

    I used to dance in LA with girls who did porn on the side and you can imagine how hard it was to compete with what they were comfortable doing compared to just regular dancers. In that case at that time it was many of the Russian girls who would do the extras. Supposedly those girls, many of whom are brand new immigrants, are pimped out though so they just have to do what they have to do.


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    Default Re: VERY dirty dancing...

    It's probably your region or the particular clubs you;ve worked in or visited. You also might have your eyes open more to your own race than what the other girls may or may not be doing.

    The guys who like you because they 'think black women are gorgeous' may like you because they want to feel special by hoping to be the first guy you get dirty with if they are under the same 'pretense' that you are the most beautiful black dancer there. Therefore, your beauty may simply mean that they just have to spend more time dancing with you to make you 'break your rules' ---but that you WILL break them, because, um you're black. In their heads at least and under your assumption, this would naturally follow. You are under the impression that they share your world view and are of the same consensus when they very well may not be. Furthermore, not everyone reads club reviews and not everyone takes them as the absolute truth.

    Now, if these customers of yours think black women are gorgeous in general, as you say, well then why wouldn't they dance with the other black girls then? Dirty or not? You are confusing the issue by equating beauty with cleanliness. You are also assuming that you share the same ideal as to what they may find beautiful in a black women or any woman at all.

    Gorgeous women of any race can be just as dirty as women who aren't. If these men don't know any better and really believe that by virtue of choosing a black dancer at that particular club that she'll 'naturally' be dirty with them, well then they just want the 'most gorgeous' dirty one.

    I think you have to change the way you look at the world ( or at least refrain from projecting that upon others) and just maintain your own sense of self and what constitutes your work ethic.

    Your basic premise is flawed and suggests that either you are unintentionally demeaning yourself in the process or think that you are somehow 'not one of them' even while categorizing them by race, of which you are a member.

    I say this as a black dancer. And I am not trying to be mean or put you on the defensive but your argument is regrettably ill-conceived.
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    Default Re: VERY dirty dancing...

    ^^^ referring to

    when i say breaking the rules, im talking about grabbing cock, sucking tits and getting fingered. i do already break the rules with my regulars- close contact, sitting on their lap (we are not allowed to), ear biting- because it came "naturally" and they are so "special"- but no one is touching my private parts.

    "your beauty means itll take longer for you to 'break the rules'" im not hot shit. so why not got to the hot black dancer who already does break the rules?

    im not a fool, i know not all people take comments THAT SERIOUSLY, i simply pointed out to a comment someone made. i wasnt surrounding my ideas on that one comment. i was just adding more information abot how the black dancers in my club have a reputation.

    "You are also assuming that you share the same ideal as to what they may find beautiful in a black women or any woman at all." im not assuming anything. never ever said that i was. again, i was just stressing the idea that black women have a reputation of being dirty. and when i look around, the pieces seem to fall into place. i didnt express myself the right way in my post.

    and i didnt just pull this out of my ass. this is not my own perception. talk of the town is that black dancers are the dirtiest and i was a little worried that this is a world wide thing, this is why i came to stripperweb and asked you guys- and im sorta relieved, its not like thay everywhere. ive been dancing for only a year- im no veteran i reflect on only what i see HERE. i didnt come up with this conclusion on my own maybe i said it a little funny in my post but it is talk of the town- not my messed up perception.

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    Default Re: VERY dirty dancing...

    Quote Originally Posted by PRETTYdangerous View Post
    at the clubs I've worked at it seems like the black girls are really "too good" to be doing any dirty dances. They're usually the first ones to point out the dirty girl. I'm not a dirty dancer and I remember on one occasion one of the black girls pointed me out and was like "ooooh she nasty." I had to laugh, but it was a little awkward. Maybe it just depends what area you live in?

    Haha yes I was thinking the same thing!
    I guess it does depend on the area, because in all the clubs I've been at, black girls were for sire the cleanest dancers! It was always the drunk/coked up white girls that did the natiest dances!!! Lol

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    Default Re: VERY dirty dancing...

    Everybody is capable of being dirty. Black, white, latina, asian, green, blue, I've seen it all. My little Japanese ex GF was dirty and she could put her legs behind her head. Joking aside though, I don't think any one race is dirty. It just depends on the club and the girls.
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    Default Re: VERY dirty dancing...

    on average, the black girls i've worked with have mostly been pretty clean. but i do think that a lot of guys would choose them for dances because they thought that they'd be dirty, just like any other girl who they think will be dirty. if a girl is less attractive by mainstream standards or part of a disadvantaged group, many custies will assume they'll get more. if a black girl gives a light grind, those men will assume the white girls will give air dances, even if some of those white girls will suck dick.

    but of course, other people like black chicks. simple as that.

    i like black girls. if i go to a club, if there's a hot black girl, she will get my (date's) money. if she's dirty, it would be a major turn off, and that'll be the end of that. and i know i'm not the only person who would rather get a lapdance than extras. a lot of custies like clean dances too. stripclubs are supposed to be about a little innocent fun, not getting off or being a perv. if a guy wants to cum, all he really needs is some lotion and maybe internet porn.
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    How about no? Its def whatever area you are in! If anything the white guys assume because of how black women are percieved by american culture that with our attitude and all "we ain't having that shit" which goes with why some of the women on this thread are saying black girls have a "I'm too good for extras" attitude and honestly I think you are looking at our own race too hard and may not notice it maybe you should open your eyes more. And clearly mind your own biz and stop paying attention to what they are doing because clearly it is affecting your hustle from what you are explaining. Hope that didn't sound too rude but it is what it is

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