Ahhhh no! Never talk about the family. Even if he starts talking about it, I would say something like "Ya your wife and kids sound great, but you're with me now!" It sounds like you're just new at a nice club that where talking your way into a CR is the goal instead of getting a few dances.
Some talking points:
-Do most guys go to dinner before they come in? That's one I talk about with guys all the time. I ask them where they ate and what they had and mmmm that sounds good! And while I'm talking about fucking dinner (who really gives a shit) I'm acting so interested and touching their arm or knee.
-Also ask where they're from and talk some BS about that ("Ohh do you like it there? I heard this..."). Then BS about where you live. Ask if they have a dog and talk about your own.
-Compliments. "You're so funny, you make me smile, I like your positive energy" I like to make them not sound like total BS like "you're so hot", even if you think they are.
-Ask if they've been there before. If so, say "oh so you know how fun it is here! well I must have missed you before but I'm glad I'm with you now!"
If they haven't, "Ohh a first-timer, well don't worry, I'll take good care of you!"
-Sometimes when a convo is just not poppin I'll say something like "so have you done anything exciting lately?" if he says no, say "would you like to?"
You'll get more comfortable like the other girls with time. When I started at my club 2 1/2yrs ago I was a nervous awkward bitch and it showed. Now I'm used to it and have built up my skills, and my confidence shows
Oh and to get them to buy you drinks more, always ask them what they are drinking. They will usually go "what are you drinking? oh nothing? you want one?" Or I'll say "are you gonna get another drink? so I can get one too?" w/the pouty face. Works almost all the time and if he's not gonna buy you a drink, then he's not gonna buy a CR with you so fuck it.

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