Okay, the prerequisite couple of days for an annulment to go through isn't instant.

It's pretty quick and painless though. I'm pretty sure Mediocrity isn't trying for a baby, but I'll let her state her stance on crotch-goblins. I find it inane to assume marriage = babies, and that if one can criticise babies, one can criticise a wedding. Utterly inane.
How many marriages have you seen dissolve because it was the wrong choice?
Now, how many children have you seen pull that one off?
You can't change your mind about a child. You can't decide, afterwards, that this is the wrong time in your life, and put it back up there for a few years. If a wedding's a bad idea - so be it, hell slap it into those two people for making a mistake. If being pregnant's a bad idea, a whole host of people that have had no choice in the matter can be hurt.
Having a baby and getting married are not the same thing. Announcing a happy event and asking for advice are not the same thing. Having a baby and taking responsibility are not the same thing. One would assume this is why they aren't treated the same.
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