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    So I make "okay" money talking with customers while sitting and facing them as much as possible, giving good eye contact, smiling when appropriate, slight touching...

    I would make MUCH BETTER money (have in past and seen other girls) if I were more flirty/touchy/sexual. I don't know how to get into this mood. Sometimes I'm in it, sometimes I'm not. Even though I might "always be closing," "doing the sullivan nod while asking if he wants to go to lapdance area," etc etc, being more sexual/sexy always seems to help. I just don't know how to get into this "mode."

    Any help?

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    Default Re: Help Getting into Sexy Mood

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    Default Re: Help Getting into Sexy Mood

    Quote Originally Posted by exotica268 View Post
    So I make "okay" money talking with customers while sitting and facing them as much as possible, giving good eye contact, smiling when appropriate, slight touching...

    I would make MUCH BETTER money (have in past and seen other girls) if I were more flirty/touchy/sexual. I don't know how to get into this mood. Sometimes I'm in it, sometimes I'm not. Even though I might "always be closing," "doing the sullivan nod while asking if he wants to go to lapdance area," etc etc, being more sexual/sexy always seems to help. I just don't know how to get into this "mode."

    Any help?
    This is gonna sound really weird.....but I watch music videos on YouTube that I like and think are "sexy" I have a whole playlist of my favorites like Pussycat Dolls, Madonna and whatnot.....stuff I wouldn't dream of dancing to but for some reason music videos get me all fired up and inspired. I also listen to my Ipod when getting ready for work, I have a whole playlist on there of sexy songs I got from the thread over in Music Mix.
    I have been cutting out drinking alot at work but one or two glasses of heavy red wine always make me feel pretty sexy and relaxed.

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    Default Re: Help Getting into Sexy Mood

    ^^^Agree
    Put on sexy music before work.. Stuff that makes you feel good.

    Embrace your inner sex goddess. Put extra effort into your outfits and make up. Pamper yourself so you feel good on the inside. It will shine on the outside and you will feel more confident and sexy.
    Sometimes I masturbate before work. dont know if thats because I want to feel sexy or if im just in the mood. But I usually feel pretty good and sexy afterward! lol

    I disagree about the tequila. But I have a strict no drinking at work rule. Doing it sober means you can really do the job. I'm sure for some its okay at times and in moderation. But you should try other things to get in the flirty mood.

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    Pretend like you're in a movie, playing the role of a woman who is madly attracted to the man she's talking to. This especially works if you're talking to someone you aren't attracted to. Just emulate what you've seen in movie scenes!

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    Default Re: Help Getting into Sexy Mood

    i think working on your "acting" skills is better advice than drinking to get in the mood. i agree with charlie61, just pretend you're really into them. lots of eyes and firty touching hands/shoulders. If you start to drink, i just think its a bad idea...

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    Default Re: Help Getting into Sexy Mood

    I take on traits from women I like... Everyone from Dita Von Teese to Ashley from Rock of Love Bus (lol). She's so loud and outgoing, but still incredibly sexy. I sometimes watch youtube videos of her and that's what pumps me up, gets me laughing and puts me in that "DGAF" mood.

    Just emulate what you find sexy weather it's from a Victoria's Secret commercial or your favorite show/movie... eventually you become more accustom to those traits/actions and that helps to build your stripper persona.
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    Default Re: Help Getting into Sexy Mood

    Those are great suggestions, you all =).

    I used to use this one club, in particular, that I used to work at as motivation, since ALL of the girls (except for my friend and I) would straddle the guys, stroke their heads (the top ones), massage their necks and shoulders, whisper in their ears, and/or rub up against them and give them a 15 second sampler dance for a $1. The more I'm away from that club, the more I forget, I suppose.

    It's good for me that girls don't use that technique where I currently am, but at the same time, I feel as though I don't have people to "look up to" at my club. As odd as it sounds, I sometimes get excited when I see new girls (not new to dancing, but new to the club) who seem like they might be strong hustlers, bc I then feel like I have someone's footsteps to follow in again (who I can actually see at work, as opposed to just read about)...but typically, they don't actually end up being as strong as I thought...I'm seriously thinking about visiting other strip clubs just to get some motivation by watching other girls.

    I think that I need to watch more of how strippers approach men in movies/TV shows. They always seem more flirty than what I see IRL.

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    Default Re: Help Getting into Sexy Mood

    This is where being a good actress comes in. Mind you I'm not a good actress however when you "switch on the charm" it's really helpful in getting them to spend money.

    If you find yourself just sitting there doing nothing - don't think: "Oh damn I've already lost this guys interest."

    Crank up the flirt factor regardless. More than likely you'll get them to spend money.




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