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    Last weekend I was with my boyfriend one of his friends was turning 18 and wanted him to go to a strip club. So I was like fine, but I am coming with you. We get there and meet up with 5 others. I let him have some fun and a few dollar dances with his friends. Eventually they convince me do have a dollar dance after about the 5th time urging me to. If I had known I was going out I may have worn something different besides the strapless top with no bra and jeans. I stand up and walk to the edge of the stage, the dancer asks if she can kiss and touch my breasts. I am like fine get it over with, when she was done she looks over at all the guys behind me. I am to busy scanning around me at all the stranger that might be watching me. When I feel her put her hand on my breasts again and pulls down my top completely to my waist. I was so shocked I gave out a load yell that got the whole clubs attention on me. I drastically took my seat and just kept thinking how many stranger just saw me topless. It turned out that my boyfriend gave a twenty to the dancer and told her to pull my top down as part of a birthday gift to his friend.

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    Dump him.

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    Your own boyfriend did that to YOU?
    What kind of boyfriend is this guy??

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    your boyfriend is an asshole.
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    That's so disrespectful!!!

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    Piece of shit. Dump him.

    And wrong of the dancer as well. I would never do what some guy said for any amount of money without asking the girls permission.

    Disrespectful on both parts.

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    What the fuck???!?!?!? Dump him NOW. I am blown away he would do this as a "gift to his friend"??? Most guys don't want their friends seeings their girls parts at all, let alone are forcing their girls into showing.... God, what an asshole. Sorry, I got super pissed reading this... going to eat some cookies now, haha.

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    Yeah, he sounds like an infantile jerk. I am with everyone on this one dump him! He should've okay'd it with you first. Then again for him to even ask you is ridiculous and only something an asshole would consider anyway.

    As someone said earlier, most guys would not want their friends seeing their gf's breasts. So that just shows me that he doesn't care.

    Did he even apologize to you? Did the dancer apologize to you as well?

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    all of the above!!!!!

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    LOSE him. NOW. What a fucking tool.

    And I hope this doesn't colour your impression of dancers. We're not all insensitive bitches. I'm so sorry this happened to you!!
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    The dancer definitely should have asked. Your BF should have asked / known you didn't want that.

    I'm sure the crowd thing will be okay, sat night at my club the girls beg for their tits to be out, people usually cheer and that's the end of it, don't feel too bad.


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    Quote Originally Posted by oxSkylarxo View Post
    He should've okay'd it with you first.
    Did he even apologize to you?
    Did the dancer apologize to you as well?
    I should back up a bit... on the way to the club which was like a 45 minute drive. The subject came up about two girls at his school that had been to this club and how they had done an amateur contest. I mentioned how crazy and maybe a little fun that would be if I were to do that and how much he might like showing me off a bit. I was trying to keep his attention on me I did not think he took it serous though.

    We did get into a small fight at the club and he tried to apologize but he kept saying things like I thought that's what you wanted me to do and I wanted to show you off to my friends. I got really mad to the point one of the bouncers asked us to go outside. I wound up just going to the restroom for a little bit. On my way back to my seat the dancer that had pulled my top down stopped me and did apologize. She was really nice I must say, she even gave me the twenty dollars that she was given to do it. Towards the end of her apology she tried making me feel a little better about having my breasts reveled to like hundred people by saying how beautiful I looked and that I could win their amateur contest. I'm sure she was just trying to make me feel better but that gave me an idea. Why I did this I still don't really know, but I had her lead me up on the stage and we walked over to were my boyfriend and his friends where seated. I kind of yelled but not to loud 'fine you want to show me off to your friends' as I reached down and pulled my top over my head and through it at him. I walked gingerly across the stage taking my time, so everyone in the club could see me and went down the set of stairs to where they were seated. I took my top from him and said 'if I wanted to show a whole room my breasts I will do it myself, I hope it was worth it for this is the last time you see these again" as I slapped the twenty in his chest and left the club; luckily I drove.

    That was all Saturday I have not even talked to him since then, so its basically over with us.

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    Always be prepared for people to take you seriously in future.
    Get the fuck off my harbl, yo'.

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    hahahaha and you left him there? that's awesome.
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    ^^agree! good girl! lol

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    One of my exes used to do a similar thing to me, if i fell asleep in his dorm room (i slept naked) he'd phone his friend up to come and have a look!!! I didnt know until a few days later and the friend slipped up and mentioned it! Needless to say, he so got dumped. (This is the same arse who cheated on me, etc, not before trying to pimp me (no joke!) to someone he knew for 5k!! DUMPED, boys with no respect gots to go!
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    I have guys do this stuff to me all the time. They're like "I'll give you $__ if you take her shirt off!!"

    I ALWAYS ask the woman if she'd be okay with that before I do it.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Zinaida View Post
    Dump him.
    I agree. What an asshole.

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    Quote Originally Posted by charlie61 View Post
    I ALWAYS ask the woman if she'd be okay with that before I do it.
    I am glad to hear that. I told my best friend about all that happened at school the other day and she finely tells me how much my now ex was being an ass when I was not around. When I told her that I got on stage and took my top off she was ecstatic. I still can't believe that I did that, I have been thinking about it all week. I have done performances in dance in front of people and poms and stuff. But it never felt like that, before Saturday a handful of guys have seen me topless. After, like a hundred or so its kinda thrilling.

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    I think it was pretty awesome and ballsy how you turned his juvenile action back on him. Like "hey you want all these guys to see me, well I can do it on my own terms!"
    And if you find it thrilling you're in the right place. Make some money off your exhibitionist side!

    Edited to add that I would have let the dancer keep the asshole bf's money. Or at least gotten a lapdance from her as a consolation prize...

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    I have not danced in awhile, but when I did that was one of my favorite things to do to the female customers that came into the club. I would always ask for permission to expose them like that. It's just wrong otherwise and your boyfriend was way out of line to act like that. It was brave of you to turn it back in his face as well, way to express your exhibitionist side. If you liked getting on stage you should consider doing their amateur contest; you might like it!

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    I am not sure about the amateur thing just yet, plus that's something I would almost need a friend to do it with me. Although it might be a little fun to explore this exhibitionist side of me. Any suggestions?

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