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    ^ While the honesty is refreshing, the breaking the law + taking money from other women by breaking the law is not so awesome. Plus, not to mention the fact that customers then set their dance expectations unreasonably high for the rest of us who aren't willing to break the law like that.

    How can I possibly compete with hand jobs? At that point, women like that are selling a different product than I am. Not okay.

    With that logic, this industry is on a slippery slope to "fucking is the new lap dance".

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    agreed.

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    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    wel, i, for one, appreciate this lady's honesty. she is making lots of money because she is giving hand jobs. so no one feel bad if her income is a bit higher.
    She's not honest. She makes a habit of coming onto threads like this to boast about the money she makes by prostituting while the rest of us dance. But she NEVER mentions the prostitution unless pressed. Frankly, I think she's laughing at us. Altho, I guess I'm laughing at her for the statement that some nights she makes far less than $1,000.
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    ^^^ I agree!! In fact the only posts I've seen from her are not ones offering advice or asking for advice, but are posts about how much money she makes or spends. She is a prostitute in a strip club. That's the bottom line. And yeah she probably does get off on feeling like she's on top while the other girls post about making significantly less.
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    Whenever you are doing something like comparing numbers, you really need to pretense it with what you are doing. Otherwise you might just be comparing apples and oranges. It's not that she doesn't have a right to post, but many girls on here shouldn't compare their numbers to people who are offering different services. I also think market is important, little cities vs big cities, and high mileage areas vs low mileage areas.

    I'm sure there are probably other members on here who offer the same services as she and aren't so direct about it. They may be interested to hear what she has to say.
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    We got it out of our systems, now let's let the thread get back on course.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    ::shrugs:: i am with elusive that stripping is something done for the exceptionally high earning potentials. Is it degrading? thats a separate debate. but the fact that the industry is so overrun with girls who are ok making the type of money they could make in another job that doesnt require education cuts into other girls' money. There have been some nights that i have worked where there have been more girls than customers... and girls would be sitting with customers all night. when one of the customers was FINALLY unoccupied, i would approach them and find out that i was the first girl to offer to sell a dance or a champagne room. And considering they had girls next to them over teh course of several hours,... it would be fucking ridiculous. So basically these girls would be there, wasting space, and making nothing except alcohol to put in their system WHILE making it so I couldnt make money off these customers without breaking dancer etiquette.

    so yea, the girls who suck at making money do cut into the rest of our earnings more than you might think. especially in certain regions... ::cough cough new orleans cough cough::
    AGREE totally!!!

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    I consider banking to be 900ish+ on a 5 hour shift, as that is not regular and tends to only occur when you find a nice respectful customer. Also, I am in what I consider to be a mid to high contact area. I would be happy with less if I had less customer bs to deal with. Sadly, even last year I considered this to be a low contact area, but we are just flooded with dirty girls these days.

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    Basing on $$, yes of course the girls who are extras girls are going to make "more" but really..they're making less- but thats regardless.. I completely agree with the fact it's insane bullshit for someone to compare money based on doing extras to a clean dancer. And I blame them for the bullshit I had to put up with at work today-guys expect what you give, and if some girls give it, then they expect the rest of us to also. NOT HAPPENING. Will I make "less?" No, not in my mind- because I'm leaving with dignity and morals. Banking to me is 700+ for a day shift. I'd be pissed walking out with 300 and less- of course that matters what customers I have to deal with, what club i'm working at etc..ultimately, no matter what day i go in, i'm making more than i would doing retail or waitressing. My best friend is a waitress at a country club and makes less than I do- that- IMO is worth it me being a stripper.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    my march average was over 1k a night, so it is possible

    that being said, this is catty but look at her other posts-- she is a 'semi clean dancer' i.e. she will do handjobs for the right price (her words, not mine). so take it with a grain of salt.
    HAHA semi clean daner and handjobs in the same sentence?? I love it.
    I havent looked at her posts. Just going by what you said here.
    These girls hurt our money. PERIOD. End of discussion. Keep it out of the club if you're going to do it. YOU ARE KILLING OUR INDUSTRY!


    Quote Originally Posted by J.D. View Post
    Condoms.... check!

    Hand sanitizer.... check!

    Lotion.... check!
    ^^This is funny, but true story, I left my home club and switched to another for a week. The only money I made was one night in VIP with another dancer. She immediately pulled out hand sanitizer, put it on the guys hands and put his fingers in her vagina.... I left that club after that night and never went back. Nor will I ever leave my home club EVER again.
    Uuuuggh!


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    Quote Originally Posted by Elusive21 View Post
    This is inspired by the "is 600 a week worth it? " thread.

    What do you girls consider banking in this economy?

    For me it would be $400-$500 or more for a 6 hour shuft (most of the girls at my club are making $50-$200 a shift. (I work in Idaho by the way)

    Before the recession the average for most dancers in my club was $150-$500 and sometimes much much more.

    So what's good money in this recession economy?
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    When I read the title to this thread, I thought it was going to be about dealing w/ banks. (It's been on my brain since I have had the worst two weeks with B of A and my debit card).
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    Quote Originally Posted by GrlWithTheMost View Post
    AGREE totally!!!
    Yea its ridiculous. especially in NOLA. i couldnt believe how many times i would talk to customers who had been there for several hours on end, always sitting with girls, and not even be aware that we sold lapdances! WTF? what were those girls doing the entire time?
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    I've been reading this thread and I wanted to add that I know some girls think it is soooo degrading to make $100-$200......I made less than that waitressing and that was far more degrading to me.
    If I had a bad night waiting tables, I couldn't sit at the bar and bullshit with the other girls about it......they would tell me to go clean something for $3 an hour and sweep the floor at the end of the night or I would get fired. If a customer called me a bitch, I couldn't say fuck you and walk away. I would have to smile and get the manager and hope he would handle the situation. Same thing with every other regular customer service job I had.

    Another thing about dancing that's better than a regular job.....girls will say, "tonight was so shitty, I might as well go work at Burger King"......really, WOULD YOU? Think about working an hourly job, you know you will only get that $7.50 an hour. We look at it differently bc we get that money upfront and not in a check. I mean if your working your ass off and every hour they handed u $7, you would look at it and say,"I did all that in one hour...for this??" Meanwhile dancing you can make hundreds of dollars in one hour.

    Im just saying some jobs are truly more degrading, I found that out when I went back to bartending after I quit dancing for a year. I felt like I dealt w the same assholes as I did dancing, except I had to be nice to them and work harder for their $$$.

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    i have tried to help newbies. i am now convinced that some of them simply don't care whether or not they make money and just want free drinks.


    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    Yea its ridiculous. especially in NOLA. i couldnt believe how many times i would talk to customers who had been there for several hours on end, always sitting with girls, and not even be aware that we sold lapdances! WTF? what were those girls doing the entire time?

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    Quote Originally Posted by jasmine22 View Post
    I've been reading this thread and I wanted to add that I know some girls think it is soooo degrading to make $100-$200......I made less than that waitressing and that was far more degrading to me.
    If I had a bad night waiting tables, I couldn't sit at the bar and bullshit with the other girls about it......they would tell me to go clean something for $3 an hour and sweep the floor at the end of the night or I would get fired. If a customer called me a bitch, I couldn't say fuck you and walk away. I would have to smile and get the manager and hope he would handle the situation. Same thing with every other regular customer service job I had.

    Another thing about dancing that's better than a regular job.....girls will say, "tonight was so shitty, I might as well go work at Burger King"......really, WOULD YOU? Think about working an hourly job, you know you will only get that $7.50 an hour. We look at it differently bc we get that money upfront and not in a check. I mean if your working your ass off and every hour they handed u $7, you would look at it and say,"I did all that in one hour...for this??" Meanwhile dancing you can make hundreds of dollars in one hour.

    Im just saying some jobs are truly more degrading, I found that out when I went back to bartending after I quit dancing for a year. I felt like I dealt w the same assholes as I did dancing, except I had to be nice to them and work harder for their $$$.
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    im not advocating switching to the fast food industry... i dont know why that is the first thing that people mention when talking about other jobs in the service industry. But bartending or something like that can clear 100$ a night easily... and waitressing sucks but if you work at a nice resturaunt you can also easily clear 100$ a night.

    my main issue is simply that this is an industry where more girls equals less money to go around. if only the high earning girls stuck around then there would be even more money going out to the girls serious about making some real money. There are far too many girls who are making like 10$ an hour these days.... they all should go to a different job where their presence doesnt hurt my money . i know this sounds entitled, but whatever. my sense of entitlement is part of why i tend to bank .
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    word! I stayed home last night cuz one of the dancers (friend) called to tell me it was once again DEAD and to save my daycare money. They had a few girls but everyone was sitting around and there was two guys , nontippers, in the room. I said fuck it I'm staying home, renting a movie, and will let what little money is in the club trickle to the girls who are there. ps I hate talkers too that tie up perfectly good wallets


    Quote Originally Posted by Athenathefabulous View Post
    im not advocating switching to the fast food industry... i dont know why that is the first thing that people mention when talking about other jobs in the service industry. But bartending or something like that can clear 100$ a night easily... and waitressing sucks but if you work at a nice resturaunt you can also easily clear 100$ a night.

    my main issue is simply that this is an industry where more girls equals less money to go around. if only the high earning girls stuck around then there would be even more money going out to the girls serious about making some real money. There are far too many girls who are making like 10$ an hour these days.... they all should go to a different job where their presence doesnt hurt my money . i know this sounds entitled, but whatever. my sense of entitlement is part of why i tend to bank .

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    Quote Originally Posted by catseyes View Post
    . ps I hate talkers too that tie up perfectly good wallets

    well put!
    The best thing i have heard in a strip club to date:
    customer: we should get married right now! we should get a shotgun marriage!
    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    ^^^ Agreed. It's that whole "set a time limit" thing. No need to talk your head off if you aren't getting paid.

    I'm horrible, if a guy is boring me I yawn (seriously - not even on purpose) and then I know it's time to excuse myself. Believe it or not that can happen in less than 10 minutes.
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    Yeah, 3 songs and I'm gone hehe. Actually it depends... if there is an inkling of them buying a room then I'll stay a little longer. It's like gambling, the more risk the higher potential payout.
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    I've become a very efficient hustler as well!

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    It sucks because a lot of guys will say 'that sounds wonderful' and let's do it' then they back track and decide they don't need to spend the money. You have to jump on em quick!!!! hehehe.

    I've been assuming the sale a lot lately, and it works well. Sometimes you just gotta tell em what to do like the lost puppies they are.

    NC, as well as most of the south, was hit REALLY hard with the economy... most clubs down here look like ghost towns. I have a friend who consistently makes 5-7 hundred a night though, because she is the best of the best. In her town I averaged 2-4 hundred a night consistently... but not anymore. I miss being near a military base where young guys had decent pay and spent most of it on us.
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    You guys need to consider that the girls who consistently make really little might like to work at red lobster or whatever else, but just can't get the job.. Let's face it, it's a lot easier for somebody with no education and a crappy resume to get hired at a strip club than anywhere else.

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    Quote Originally Posted by camille27 View Post
    i have tried to help newbies. i am now convinced that some of them simply don't care whether or not they make money and just want free drinks.
    Also, some of these new girls are still ambivalent about the reality of the job. They want to pretend it's not about sexual role playing and taking control with strange and unfamiliar guys. It's not really partying and being handed money for being cute. It's psychology, sensuality, and sales with dudes most of us wouldn't touch! I think some of them sit because they are in over their heads and just hoping the nice man will break off some cash for their kindness.
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    Quote Originally Posted by crystalize View Post
    You guys need to consider that the girls who consistently make really little might like to work at red lobster or whatever else, but just can't get the job.. Let's face it, it's a lot easier for somebody with no education and a crappy resume to get hired at a strip club than anywhere else.

    That's precisely why the real enemies in this situation are the club owners and managers--not the girls. It SHOULDN'T be easier to get hired as a dancer than a fast food server. It takes actual skills to do well and since they don't want to train 'em they should only take only reasonably competent women. They could be growing their businesses now by having only the hottest and most fun girls. Instead they have anyone who walks through the door with a vagina.
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