Ok, Ive always been independent. I live with my man, and sometimes it drives me crazy. I like not having to pay rent and live in a big ass house.... but I would do just fine on my own.
I pay all the utilities. Ive actually paid them ahead, like I used to do before I moved in with him. I cant sit around here and not do something. He tells me all the time PAY UR OWN BILLS BABY DONT WORRY BOUT D HOUSE. But the grown woman in me I guess, likes to kick in and help out. I don't sit at d table I dont contribute to.I just cant do it.
Anyways... every man wants to feel needed. Thats in their nature, I guess. They want to be there for us. HE wants to be there for me, but the thing is...what can he do for me? I can change my own oil/tires,I know how to diagnose every weird sound in my truck, I can pay my own bills and the house bills too so I dont need his money,I buy my own clothes, even though he works hard and has enough.He takes me out to eat and I always take my own money in, lol and offer to pay (he doesnt let me) I dont ever have to ask him for help for anything.
Maybe this is brought on by d fact that he's started working freakin 24/7 and Ive gotten used to doin it all on my own again... IDK.
But WHAT could I possibly do to make him feel "needed"? Ask him to unscrew the cap off d spaghetti jar? I can do that too, damn it! LOL
--this is meant to stay light, guys..I know theres always one in a bunch to start drama!-- But this aint that serious! ---



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