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    Hello out there. I'm a total newb to the forum and it sucks I have my first post a negative one but I have to vent.

    Has anyone here had a very good regular lost to a girl that does the dirtiest dances? It just happened to me and I'm so mad. He won't even talk to me. I mean that's a grand a month lost because some girl offered more in a dance. I am so livid and it's affecting my night so badly. I don't know what to do!!!

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    Sigh... I feel for you. If you read my previous posts you'll see that just a few days ago I posted a possible solution to things like this.

    Unfortunately I don't feel like I can fully express my opinions on this here, but if you'd like you can PM or e-mail me and I can send you the link and talk to you more about it. If you are in a low to medium contact club though you do have options available to you.

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    ugh, i hate this too. you are really mad at BOTH... the custy should have felt like he'd be pissing you off, and she steals a regular. I can't figure this on out either, bc getting mad or bitching out either one of them really gets you nowhere. sorry hun: /

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    I'm so angry. And it's affected my night DRAMATICALLY. Wednesday nights are horrible and he was the only one I made money from. It's a non alcoholic club so I can't even get a drink to calm down. And you're right, I'm mad at both and there's really nothing I can do. But man. I haven't sat with anyone because if I'm denied a dance from anyone right now I'll flip out lol.

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    I know it really sucks, but at least you're not compromising your standards.. There will be guys who appreciate classier dancers.

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    yea, this happened with my longest term regular. he followed me club to club when i lived in cleveland. he didnt usually drop big bucks every time, but i could usually count on him for about 200$ and pleasant conversation about once a week when he came to see me.

    I remember one time at work i went on stage when he came to see me, and one of the dirtiest girls there who was flat out my rival (im not usually open rivals with other strippers, but i was with this girl) sat down next to him. after i got off stage i sat down since my drink was already there (this girl would try to outright cut throat me... so at this point i was fed up with it) and she didnt take the hint and leave, so i sold double dances. during one of the double dances she started whispering in his here, then demanded a single dance next song and i did a single dance the song after. during HER dance she did plenty of things that violated the rules... so of course my dance after was less exciting than hers. but i kept on a smile and whatever.

    i went on a road trip shortly after this. when i returned, my regular happened to be in one night and i didnt see him. I see him later in the night coming out of the private rooms with my rival. he is hot and sweaty and panting. gross.

    i know for a fact that this girl does minimum hand jobs in the rooms... i have a freind who has been jerked off by her in the rooms on more than one occasion. maybe she has even gone further, who knows. but either way, i was really sad to see my regular become her customer. a couple of times after this he did come to see me when i was at work and she wasnt, but he was never quite as enthused about doing private rooms with me.

    sorry this happened to you. it blows. fucking whores are killing this industry.
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    me: uhh... i think you are misunderstanding what a shotgun marriage means. A shotgun marriage means you knock me up and my daddy shows up at your door with a gun and forces you to marry me and raise the baby. You mean elope.
    customer: hmm... nah actually i will take the shotgun marriage. At least then we would be having sex.


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    Oh hun.....

    Yes, I know how you feel. I used to work at an extras club as a non-extras dancer and lost many a customer to "those girls". It infuriated me at first....but I took a step back and looked at the situation in another light...

    You gotta think, if a customer is gonna go with another girl to receive extras, do you really want him as a customer anyway? Darlin, extras guys are extras guys point blank. These girls do no "convert" them or coerce them into being extras guys. It was only a matter of time before he'd be seeking it from you too. SO look at it as saving yourself alot of trouble. Would you rather him just go on his merry way early in the game, or have you build trust up with him all for it to lead to asking you for extras....OR....violating you against your will? I've seen it happen. It's happened to me.

    I had a few of those customers try to come back and ask me for dances after the fact that they had dogged me for a girl who would give a hand job, blow job, whatever..... AND after they blatantly got jacked off or blown right in front of me in VIP knowing how I felt about it......and I turned them down....once I knew a customer had received any sexual favors from any of those girls at the club, I looked at him as being tainted. I don't care about the money that much to the point I will put myself in close contact with such an unsanitary, unstable person. Any guy IMO that receives sexual favors from a stripper at a club I see as a mentally unfit individual that I cannot trust.

    Make sense? Good luck hun, you'll find another regular that will rock your world, just keep being yourself and you WILL attract the right people.

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    Thank you so much guys for the uplifting responses. Needless to say, I didn't make any money. For one, our club went from 30 dollar nudes, to 10. WTF?! Lol wow. I have to get four dances until I make a profit. Then of course Wednesday nights suck a big fat one. I just gave up. But you guy's reasoning, it help put me into a better mood. Lol until I walked in. Wow I'm sitting in the dressing room right now because there's one guy here. Same guy for two hours now. But I'm going to be positive, because you all know as well as I do. It only takes one guy. thanks again ladies.

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    It does indeed take one guy!
    I made ALOT from only one guy last night... The rest refused.

    & Those girls shouldn't even be called strippers. They're fuckin whores.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Poleprincess07IL View Post
    Hello out there. I'm a total newb to the forum and it sucks I have my first post a negative one but I have to vent.

    Has anyone here had a very good regular lost to a girl that does the dirtiest dances? It just happened to me and I'm so mad. He won't even talk to me. I mean that's a grand a month lost because some girl offered more in a dance. I am so livid and it's affecting my night so badly. I don't know what to do!!!
    Regulars come and go all the time, that is the nature of the business. Besides no girl owns any customer. You will pick up new regs. I recently fired a reg who was a $1500 a WEEK guy because he was annoying the shit out of me by being too emotional and making me feel guilty I couldn't sleep at night. Now I make less $$ but I know I'll find another guy like him, hopefully less annoying.
    Also recently I got my purse stolen at work and there was $300 in it.
    Life goes on.

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    Quote Originally Posted by femmefatale88 View Post
    Also recently I got my purse stolen at work and there was $300 in it.
    Life goes on.
    Gosh... And I thought losing 30 bucks was a big deal....

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    I had that happen to me. I had went to Tampa to work for a week. One night I made around seven hundred and a girl custy got up on my stage, danced around, and when I wasn't looking, snatched up my purse. Another custy saw this and told me. Best believe I ripped off my heels and dove. Got my purse back. No money though. We kept that girl there and checked her. Guess I never saw her friend that took off out the door.

    So I'm sorry to hear about your money. You work hard for it.

    I know now about my reg. And I'm no longer mad. It just sucked that particular night. I know men come and go. Have been through many a regs in the past five years haha. Just had to be a night where I needed it is all.

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    I've had this happen before when I was a newbie. I used to make like 600 from this one custy when he would come in to see me. Then he hooked up with the club whore one night when I happened to not be there and he was gone since then. He would come in for her after that...he would say hello to me and all, but it was kinda known he was there to see her. Then she would go sit with him with that little stupid smirk on her face. That's what used to piss me off the worst. Ha.
    But that's the only time I've ever let a reg get taken from me. My customers like my ability to relate... to listen... and to be almost like a friend. Sounds corny but that's my hustle. I find that when I actually make a good connection with the guy, he's less likely to turn his back on me for a cheap whore that just wants to make an easy dollar.

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    I hate to tell you the worst part about it is that she probably charges less too.

    It can sting but just move on.




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