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    Dizzy what's a nice way to tell someone back-off?

    This was my first week working in a SC and so far I love it. When I worked the other day it seemed like girls were so inconsiderate. I would be talking to a customer, getting my hustle on and a dancer that just got off the stage would come over and ask for a tip for the performance (no big deal) and then try to give him a mini-lap dance right there at the bar.

    This happened to me three times, not just to me but some of the other girls as well (who have been there longer). Is this a normal thing? Is there a way to tell them to back-off this is my customer without starting any issues?

    (this didn't happen on my first two shifts to anyone so I was thinking it was the girls i worked with that night, not a normal issue)

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    Default Re: what's a nice way to tell someone back-off?

    You know sometimes there really is no nice way to say something. :/

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    Default Re: what's a nice way to tell someone back-off?

    honestly, at every club I've danced at that's perfectly normal.. we get our tips that way. I usually just get a couple dollars and move on but there are a lot of girls that stay and do some intense form of ass in their face. I wouldn't mind them, I honestly think they're still gonna be more interested in you, since you're not giving it all away like that.

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    Default Re: what's a nice way to tell someone back-off?

    See, I don't mind the other girls coming up.. it's when they stay and try to get a dance out of the whole deal. lol. Maybe it's something i'll figure out more when i become more established @ the club?

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    Default Re: what's a nice way to tell someone back-off?

    hmm... it always depends i guess. those are probably the more aggressive dancers, so I'd try to be diplomatic and not piss the girl off but at the same time direct the customer's attention back to you. Be sure of yourself and he'll be more impressed with you.

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    Default Re: what's a nice way to tell someone back-off?

    If they are doing a tip walk and some sort of really quick personal "thank you" tease, that can be customary - especially in the midwest.

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    Default Re: what's a nice way to tell someone back-off?

    I live in the northeast.

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    Default Re: what's a nice way to tell someone back-off?

    That's not so normal in the northeast in my experience... Outright stealing a custie isn't normal anywhere, just a global rude thing that sometimes happens. A 'thanks' walk i've seen though, it's almost like leaving a calling card, you know? "Here's a little of my lady bits so you remember how nice it was to have 'em in your face!"

    Just be strong and thing about what makes you memorable (nice smile? massive boobs? a split tongue? haa.) and work it!

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    Default Re: what's a nice way to tell someone back-off?

    Can you sit on the customer's lap? I always did that, it deterred other girls from coming over and bother the customer. If the idea of sitting on their laps bothers you because of sanitation purpose, bring a small towel to lay across their lap for yourself and tell them you don't want to get make up them so quickly. Be flirty about it.





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    Default Re: what's a nice way to tell someone back-off?

    When I dance up on stage I always have at least one girl sitting right at the podium with a customer, distracting him from tipping me.

    It pisses me off, but ugh, whatever.

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