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    Default To the Beautiful Mixed Race Women out there;

    I have a mother who is Irish/German and a father who is black.

    My entire life I have always, constantly felt like I didn't fix it. I've always felt "Dirty" and not ever good enough. I always looked different than all the other kids. I had the biggest, brightest, greenest eyes, the strongest German last name and the most uncontrolable afro go to along with it (Mom is white and didn't know how to take care of my hair). I was the middle sister with both my older and younger sister being 16 months in difference from me. So being the runt in the family always meant getting hand me downs.

    Most of those feelings went away during high school when being mixed race made it really easily to get along with everyone. After I left high school and started dating I noticed this strange pattern with people. Usually the first question without fail that I get from people is "What race/nationality are you?" I find it to be the most rude and ignorant question ever.

    Well, a lovely texting war with someone I dated 3 times ended upsetting me really badly.
    He talked about how my hair was nappy and disgusting. About how my vagina looked like roast beef, about my "immigrant" looking skin and about even for someone half black my ass is still disgusting.

    Anyway, I'm about to start bleaching my hair, going to get my spray tan, gonna pick up some skin lightener (for downstairs) and most likely develop an eating disorder.

    I never knew someone could make you feel so bad just because of racial traits.
    I don't know how to get over this and it really hurts. Everytime I think about it it's
    like a knife slicing my heart because he put me down for things I'll never change.

    I feel like it's been that way my whole life. Like my life would have been so much easier or better if I could just be white.

    I'm starting to feel like last night was one blow too many and it's a terrible feeling to hate (not yourself as a person) but the race that you were born.

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    Default Re: To the Beautiful Mixed Race Women out there;

    Brush him and his horrible words off your shoulders dear. You are better than that and if he can't appreciate you for who you are or where you come from as in background, then he isn't worth it. You are beautiful in your own way.





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    damn those are really hateful things to say. dont ever talk to that person again. be above them. karma will come back on someone like that.

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    Default Re: To the Beautiful Mixed Race Women out there;

    WUTTTTT.

    Honey, your ex is an ass. I can't believe he said those things to you! Even coming from a place of anger, they were really uncalled for. The fact that he used "immigrant-looking skin" as an insult is just offensive on so many levels, and reflects poorly on him as a person. Don't let him get you down-that's just letting him win.

    You shouldn't feel bad for being mixed! It makes you unique, and you have a greater diversity of genes than people who aren't mixed. Personally I think mixed people are some of the most beautiful.

    Please don't destroy your natural beauty because of this douche! I mean, is it really worth the damage you could be doing to your lady parts? Let me tell you something I have learned from working in nude clubs...men like ALL types and colors of pussy. If you worked in my club, you would probably get all kinds of compliments on having a darker shade of cooch. This guy is probably just talking shit because he knows he won't get to see it again.

    Also, having to have a fat ass just because you are black is just another stereotype. There's lots of black girls who don't have much booty, and lots of white girls who do. I'm sure your ass is just fine, and there are plenty of men out there who would worship it if they had a chance.

    It sounds like you are very unique looking...that is probably why people ask you about your nationality so much. It probably is not meant to offend, but just comes from natural curiosity. You cannot change the race you were born, so learn to love yourself instead! You will be much happier and your body will thank you for sparing it all the expensive and dangerous beauty treatments you are describing. And stay away from small-minded, prejudiced assholes.

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    Default Re: To the Beautiful Mixed Race Women out there;

    -not sure if its frowned upon for guys to post in this section. So if it is ...my apologies. But I just wanted to say there is no justification for those type of insults and do not take them to heart...it's just a sh*t thing to do to even bring that up.

    -as far as the question of... what nationality are you? I have often found that multi-racial women have the most exotic and exquisite features. If I have ever asked that question of a dancer it is because they are shockingly beautiful.

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    Default Re: To the Beautiful Mixed Race Women out there;

    unless this jerk can trace his roots back to native american times before colonization (i'm including south america, mayans, incas) then HE has 'immigrant skin'. plus, what this ignorant jerk fails to realize is the people who originally lived on this continent had darker skin before colonization.

    please dont harm your lady parts. that is such a sensitive part of your body that can give you some AWESOME times- it's not worth ruining great sex over someone like this guy. and i bet your ex's dick looked like a crooked pencil.

    ps- i have green eyes too. and i dye my hair black. so i guess there's +1 who likes that look.

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    What a complete jerk. Beauty comes in all shapes. My niece is biracial and the most beautfiul baby I ever saw, she looks like Halle Berry, a beautiful biracial woman. Men love all types.

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    Default Re: To the Beautiful Mixed Race Women out there;

    Please don't let something like that get you down. From what I've seen of you, even in your avatar picture, you're gorgeous!

    I get the "what nationality are you" question all the time too. People are ignorant and if you don't look like a barbie you must be "exotic"-- its just american culture. I'm german/irish, but because I tan easily and have dark hair, people ask me if I'm greek/italian/armenian/mexican/indian/russian. People are dumb.

    A HUGE number of guys that I've talked to say that mixed race women are the most beautiful.

    I honestly can't even fathom saying such hurtful things to another human being. He is a horrible person, there's absolutely no other excuse for being that low.

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    Quote Originally Posted by PRETTYdangerous View Post

    I'm starting to feel like last night was one blow too many and it's a terrible feeling to hate (not yourself as a person) but the race that you were born.

    Are you going to let this man beat you down and take your pride, or are you going to realize people who speak words like that are the self hating ones? No one speaks like that to another person they were ever close to that does not hate themselves, because no one with any real self respect would allow themselves to speak to someone they were close to like that, regardless of why it's over.

    Life would have been much "easier" for me had I been born taller, better looking, and hung like a Llama, but it didn't happen. I'll survive, so will you, but you never let someone speak like that to you...ever.

    The goal of life is not to fit in, it's to stand out. I love mixed race women, as do most others out there.
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    Default Re: To the Beautiful Mixed Race Women out there;

    That guy is a jerk - don't let him get to you! Besides, if he really thought that he would have never been with you. He's just trying to get you down - and you're letting it work.

    I don't know a single person who has pure blood of any one race. I probably have more stuff than I could count on two hands.

    He's just full of himself. Besides, people with mixed ethnicities are usually the prettiest.
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    Fuck that shit. You just have two different kinds of beauty fighting for attention in there.

    I'm 6 generations on both sides from this one tiny city, and even further back from this country - so I am as godawful Northern Irish as it gets - my sister is half Algerian though. She says she doesn't mind when people ask where she's from or what race her parents are - to her, it's like they want to know what amazing DNA equation turned into her beautiful face. Ignore his fool ass. He's clearly looking for some plastic freak to fuck, not a real woman for real intimacy. You're better off without that jerk.
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    I get the "What race/nationality" card all the time. I respond that I am an emissary from the planet sirius and that I am here to collect data on the human plebians for future colonization. Here in NM the education system isn't that great (we ranked #47 I believe) so most of the time nobody catches on to the fact that Sirius is the dog star.
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    ^ E'scuse me, did you just call us plebs? I'm going to get the jello, we're settling this like adults. Humans like me don't need to put up with your alien smacktalk.
    Get the fuck off my harbl, yo'.

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    Quote Originally Posted by sxcbbw View Post
    ^ E'scuse me, did you just call us plebs? I'm going to get the jello, we're settling this like adults. Humans like me don't need to put up with your alien smacktalk.
    Bring it on, there are many more of us among you! more than you can guess
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    Quote Originally Posted by sxcbbw View Post
    ^ E'scuse me, did you just call us plebs? I'm going to get the jello, we're settling this like adults. Humans like me don't need to put up with your alien smacktalk.
    Actually I got some Roswell zealot all fired up. He was convinced that I was a "reptillian humanoid" and needed to be exposed. They kicked him out. I should add that he had been doing peyote and LSD for hours. (according to the arresting officers)
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    I'm exactly half German and half Puerto Rican, I speak English and ebonics Spanish. I get that bullshit "where are you from" all the time. I usually respond with "I'm American!" They then push, "no originally where are you from?" I agree it's super ignorant and annoying. Usually these are the same people who are like 1/10 Italian (or whatever) and always brag about being sooo Italian, but really they are American mutts like the rest of us! What sucks though is that I have trouble being accepted into the Latina circles as well as the white girl cliques, I'm kind of an anomaly, like you...

    My ex boyfriend used to tell me I don't "smell" like a white girl, kind of insinuating that I am dirty or something, because of my background. I also have dark "woman" features, and I used to be REALLY self conscious about it and wanted to bleach my skin, but now I don't give a fuck..... there are a TON of guys out there that LOVE women like us! You just have to find them, and fuck the rest!
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    Quote Originally Posted by J.D. View Post
    I'm exactly half German and half Puerto Rican,
    I should have guessed!
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    I remember when Iwas 12 I tried to lighten my skin with lemon juice. Not because of anything racial, but because Interview With the Vampire was my favorite movie and I thought I was too dark to be a little kindergoth. Plus I remembered my great grandma telling me how back in the day they had tried it. I should note: In the Mexican culture light skin was often associated with divinity and the upper classes. How do you think the vastly outnumbered Spaniards conquered the Aztecs? (Well, smallpox and guns did help) There had been a prophecy that the serpent god was set to return, and by some cruel twist of fate, it was the year Cortes arrived. Even today, Mexico can't escape the whole light skin thing:http://www.reuters.com/article/idUSN1338069320070814
    I'm kinda in the middle. Most of the population of Mexico is what you would call mestizo (mix of European and Native blood)
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    Default Re: To the Beautiful Mixed Race Women out there;

    You should NEVER allow sumone to talk to you that way. There is no apology that could ever take that back. I agree that sumone possible of sayin those hateful things really hates themselves, and is tryin to make you feel as horrible as they do. There are ppl that will think you are beautiful based on all the things you think are "wrong". The first thing you must do is surround ur self with more supportive/ mixed group of friends so that you understand that their is beauty everywhere. And if you believe that life would be easier if you were white, I know alot of white ppl who would disagree. Life is hard for everyone, you are the one who decides how ur gonna handle the obstacles that life presents you. I do hope that you change ur mind about bleaching ur hair n lady parts for a man that is cleary not worth ur time.

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    i am going to overshare for a minute and say that the mixed woman i used to fuck had the most beautiful kitty i've ever seen.
    please don't fuck with skin lighteners. i doubt they work, and darling, we're in a recession, so save your money.
    all that other shit just sounds like someone aiming for soft spots and succeeding.
    what is immigrant looking skin? i am embarrassed that he couldn't come up with something more clever.
    yo, i've been "weird" looking my whole fucking life. you gotta learn how to rock it. you also may need to get the fuck out of the south. like, real talk from one colored person to another.

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    Your ex was just trying to hit you where he knew it would hurt the most. Lets face it, these things didn't stop him from being attracted to you when he first met you. He's lying to hurt you honey, don't let him win.

    Btw, I have always thought that mixed race women are insanely beautiful! It seems they get the best of both worlds!

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    What a revolting "creature" to say these things. Honestly let Karma work in his life for a while.
    There is NOTHING he could say or do that has any value at all obviously.

    Everyone is different and that is what makes this world a rainbow of visual beauty..all colors all types...

    Honestly thank God he showed you exactly who he is and now use that knowledge to stay FAR away from anyone who wouldnt hold you in the high regard you deserve.Those type of people will work at destroying the self worth you deserve and require to get through life...you are a valuable woman.period.

    I am sorry you had to experience that emotional, mental abuse, because thats what it is.

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    Default Re: To the Beautiful Mixed Race Women out there;

    What a HATEFUL WORM.

    I'm mixed and I'm beautiful. So are you. Consider yourself blessed to be in our ranks and understand that this world has good and bad, and you happened to have an encounter with one of the bad. Refuse to entertain those ludicrous comments in your head and behold your beauty in the mirror!

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    Default Re: To the Beautiful Mixed Race Women out there;

    i read your post and wanted to give you a hug and punch him in the balls.

    honey, i bet that you are stunningly beautiful. there is no excuse for what he has to say. none. please look at yourself and know that you are beautiful, and that you deserve better. i know that you say that life might be easier if you were white, but i bet a lot of white girls look at you and wish they looked like you. grass is always greener.

    please dont mess w/ those lightening cremes, those are bad news. they will give you the look you want TEMPORARILY and then fuck you up real bad. esp in that region.

    find someone who knows about your hair type, or better yet, join forums that talk about hair. when you know how to style your hair and find what products work for you, your hair will transform.

    i dont know how to say what i'm really feeling about this, besides telling you that you ARE beautiful and fuck the people who say you arent. fuck em.

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    Default Re: To the Beautiful Mixed Race Women out there;

    Gee, to be honest, I've a;ways thought girls o mixed race were unique and stunning. I am generally totally jealous of the pretty skin color and shocking light eyes. Don't let some jerk belittle your heritage.

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