I've been dancing for the first time for about 7 months at a nice club in a major city. The girls and management there are very close with one another, but I just never found my niche there, with the cliques at work.
I guess I felt the need to keep to myself because I'm a student... not an older returning student or a student at community college/vocational school/hair or beauty school, but one of the more difficult schools in the area. I didn't want to be seen as an outsider or a "goody college girl" and get questions like "what are you doing here?", or to have the girls view me as a threat because of my different lifestyle.
Was this a mistake? I'm friendly with some girls, but not really in with any of the groups there, or very friendly with management. A part of me can't shake the prejudice and ignorance my upbringing of middle-class liberal values has against my job... even though I know how nice the staff and girls are, I get messages from the people in my real life like, "oh of course management would be nice to you, you're a piece of ass." or when i talk about the other girls, i get condescending remarks like, "well, she sounds nice enough, i guess."
What are your thoughts on this? My real life is so different from my work life.



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but i hope you hav fun and make sure to return ever so often
ill mail ya everyday haha.

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