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    Default Re: Is it bad to ASK if they want another dance

    She sounds inexperienced. I usually sell dances in sets to begin with, but even at that I'll say something similar to you at the end like "we should do another set/song".
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    Default Re: Is it bad to ASK if they want another dance

    its bad to NOT ask. lol.
    they say no=oh well.
    they say yes =more money for you

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    Default Re: Is it bad to ASK if they want another dance

    I agree. Try to sell multiple numbers of dances up front. Always ask if the customer would like another (unless they act totally inappropriate & you don't feel like dealing with them).

    Joke around with them, try not to act too serious. I have found that the more a customer thinks you are having fun as well, the more likely he'll get more dances. Have fun with it!

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    Default Re: Is it bad to ASK if they want another dance

    Try telling and not asking. 'We should keep going, ok?' or 'I want to keep going, ok?' It's still Allllmost a question. Nod in agreement as you say it and put on your best sexy-lip-bite-innocent-vixen-coy-doll face.

    A lot of the girls in my area make their money by just dancing and not asking, then sorta ripping the guy off after 10 songs. I never do this. It seems like bad business and not worth the stress. And a good way not to get paid. It's hard to compete with though... definitely a cock-block technique. (If I just keep dancing I'll get ALL his money and yeah he might be mad but no one else gets ANY!!) Seems like a bad idea in the long run.
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    Default Re: Is it bad to ASK if they want another dance

    HELL NAW! Better get that money! I only don't ask if I want to get away from that person.
    Other than that, GET THAT MONEY!

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    Default Re: Is it bad to ASK if they want another dance

    Update: Telling and not asking does not work in North Carolina no matter how sexy you think you are being... unless you're an extras girl. I'm sure it works fine everywhere else, but this is like, the bermuda triangle of strip clubs here. I used this technique along with 'I'm ready to get undressed/spend some private time with you." all last weekend and I made jack. I hate Nascar. I hate nasty ass Barbeque. I hate Billy Grahame. And I fucking hate the customers here. Oh well at least when I travel my hustle will be harder from dealing with these idiots.
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