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    Is it a good thing to tell your favorite dancer that she's your favorite?? I've been hesitating because I'm afraid she'd laugh at me.. . Plus, I don't see the point of telling her about it...,because I have no motives; however at the same time I'd like for her to know she's the one I like the most.

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    ??? Favourite what? Friend? Dancer? Interest?
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    I dont see anything wrong with telling her she's you're favorite dancer..as long as you don't say it in a creepy way..... I'd take it as a compliment if a customer told me that!

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    Quote Originally Posted by Fata View Post
    Is it a good thing to tell your favorite dancer that she's your favorite?? I've been hesitating because I'm afraid she'd laugh at me.. . Plus, I don't see the point of telling her about it...,because I have no motives; however at the same time I'd like for her to know she's the one I like the most.
    I think most dancers like being complimented on their 'professional' attributes: "I enjoy your dances", "I really like your figure", I like my time with you", etc.

    Where the red flag starts to wave for a dancer is where the appreciation is coupled with fishing for personal information - because that'll suggest to a dancer that the motive is essentially to see her OTC.

    But sticking to discrete compliments about her dancing skills, etc is fairly safe - all dancers enjoy being appreciated.

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    Telling her she's your favourite dancer shouldn't be a problem at all. I hear that a lot and don't think twice about it.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Fata View Post
    Is it a good thing to tell your favorite dancer that she's your favorite?? I've been hesitating because I'm afraid she'd laugh at me.. . Plus, I don't see the point of telling her about it...,because I have no motives; however at the same time I'd like for her to know she's the one I like the most.

    Why on earth would she laugh at you?
    She'll probably love it....you're money in the bank!

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    When I have a favorite dancer I just tell her the reasons why I think she is a favorite of mine. Just be sure your reasons are because of something you enjoy about her as a person and don't look at her like a sex object or someone your trying to see OTC.

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    I guess because I'm a girl and telling her that would seem kinda weird.
    AND no, I have no intentions/motives to see her OTC.

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    If you are a customer and getting dances from her, then it really makes no difference if you're a girl or a guy....she already knows that you at least like her dances, so telling her that she's your favorite would hardly be a shocker.

    Trust me....I speak from vast experience

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    Default Re: Hesitate in telling....

    I personally would like it. I like having a big head.

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    I'll try to tell her that on my next visit...I did try but couldn't really say it out loud.
    She doesn't talk alot and seems a bit cold, but I like that..but her dancing is very sensual, which is very contradicting to her image.

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    Default Re: Hesitate in telling....

    I tell my ATF that I specifically came into the club to see her.

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    Default Re: Hesitate in telling....

    Tell her, I bet she'd appreciate the compliment! I know that I would!!

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    My ATF knows I come in specifically to see her. Sometimes I'll even call the club to ask if she is dancing that night. She knows she is my favourite.

    I see nothing wrong with complimenting the girls; although I have found that the most appreciated compliment though is repeat business - provided one has been a gentleman such that the girl wants the repeat business.

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    I agree with the above. tell her! The compliment will make her happy, which is good for both of you

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